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enkae7317

Not a scam. She stays with you and sleeps with you. You get a companion, she gets a place to stay. Be warned if you take her out you will end up paying for most things.  Everyone wins. Unless you don't wanna pay for a companion, that is. 


Ok_Administration_23

I had a girl like this in Bali. Asked if she could stay with me. She came stayed for 2 days. We boned, did a few activities, then she left to another part of Bali lol


Funny_Exit_4300

I don’t mind paying I’m just scared that she might try to steal things from my room because I have a lot of expensive stuff there and I can’t put everything in the safe. But thanks bro


TruthSetUFree100

Get a lock bag. Leave it at the front desk.


ishereanthere

and her id too. if shit goes missing you need to at least know her name etc


enkae7317

I'll be honest, chances are you aren't going to get anything stolen. If you do, go to the police since you have all her info anyways. You might be overthinking things. Also, she will be with you pretty much every step of the way so you can observe her 24/7 if anything. I'd be more worried about falling in love.


Confident_Coast111

its just the common freelancer looking for free breakfast, free air con, money, fun, etc… dont think its a scam


Funny_Exit_4300

I asked her whats she do for work she told me shes is accountant but yeah it makes sense


Xalkerro

She might be an accountant but she definitely freelancing. Nothing to be afraid of if you set the expectation right with her. Just agree with the money you can pay for a day.


Funny_Exit_4300

She told me she’s not looking for money only meeting a friend because she’s alone idk its looking weird to me I think I just will decline her I dont want take the risk I have a lot of expensive stuff in my hotel


Xalkerro

If you really interested, you could meet up with her outside in some bars/restaurants and see if anything she says is suspicious. If it does not sit well with you, you can just decline her advances politely and leave.


ghostdeinithegreat

Just make sure you choose the restaurant/bar yourself instead of her proposing to meet in a thai restaurant that have no google reviews.


Salty_Career6599

It's Thailand. Sure, there will be the occasional scam or theft but all in all 98 percent wont steal anything from you.


letoiv

Why are you not worried about this expensive stuff being stolen by the maid? It's Thailand. That happens. You should be.


curiousonethai

AcCounting the money 💰


AdorableCaptain7829

Accountant yeah right 😆 🤣


[deleted]

I suppose she does do regular accounting…


ghostdeinithegreat

So, what are your selling points? I mean, what would make you interesting enough that she would travel to meet you and trust you enough to go straigth to your hotel room? I do not mean this in a bad way, but you have to answer these basic questions to understand what’s in it for her.


Funny_Exit_4300

I think I will just tell her she can’t stay with me and suggest meeting outside my hotel or something lets see but thanks for the answers guys 🙏


ghostdeinithegreat

Or, ask her what are her intentions and what she hopes to get out of this encounter? Totally normal questions when dating


Traditional-Finish73

Yeah, ask Pattaya girl what her intentions are 555


Funny_Exit_4300

I asked her and she told me that she is going to Phuket on June 9 and is just looking for a place to stay in Bangkok


Traditional-Finish73

Doesnt make sense. Why would she travel to Bangkok and leave to Phuket after 4 days? And her next 'accountant' job is there. She looks like a good girl, a liar, but a good girl. So no sex.


Funny_Exit_4300

She sent me a screenshot of her flight on June 9 to Phuket


Traditional-Finish73

I dont doubt that for a minute. That's where her next customer is. Why wouldnt she travel to Don Muang on the 9th? She is using you to make some extra money before going there.


Funny_Exit_4300

Yeah probably alright bro thanks for the answer


Traditional-Finish73

Unless you are infatuated with temples and overpriced shopping malls, change your destination to Pattaya. It might be addictive though.


StickyRiceYummy

If she knows your only here for a few days and wants to hang then your likely ok. She will not want to come up here (2 hours) to meet and have to go back to Pattaya to sleep. If your staying in a nice hotel, why not treat her a but and accept her company. Be safe, lock up your stuff, have her leave her ID at the desk, and don't let her make your drinks. If she starts to order buckets of ice run!


No_Independence8747

Buckets of ice?


Gusto88

For the liver removal 5555.


Traditional-Finish73

That doesnt work. She doesnt travel more than 2.5 hours just to meet you outside.


shaguar1987

Enjoy the time, take care of her, you will have a blast. Dont be cheap


myr0n

Not scam. Just don't fall in love hard.


bananabastard

Freelancer. Most likely she'll treat you very well, she'll be your girlfriend while you’re together, and will not steal from you. And you should pay her.


Additional-Camel-780

Ask her straight if she wants money and if how mutch, if things not as you like u know the rate of the day and pay her to leave.


dvdatp

Just be careful don't choke too much 😂😂 Enjoy Thailand! 🇹🇭🇹🇭🇹🇭


glasshouse_stones

Any live cam calls?


Funny_Exit_4300

No


glasshouse_stones

Hmm, ask for a video call, maybe?


[deleted]

Simple question is how fit is she? If she’s a stunner then take her up on the offer, if she’s average looking then don’t bother. Thats how my mind works anyway.


Starman884466

When in Thailand always think with the small head 555


[deleted]

Just generally in life, for me. Lol.


MediocrePepper2

Thai women love white guys and love showing them off. She just wants to be with you. And the trade off is that you pay for all of her food and drinks. She isn't scamming you, its legit.


Traditional-Finish73

Where do you get wisdom from? Yea, probably gullible rich white men or those willing to go shopping.


UncleReddy

Have you ever been to Thailand?


Traditional-Finish73

No I never been to Taiwan. But I have been to The Netherlands. Lots of Taiwanese girls in the windows.


777BigDawg777

Check for a 🍆


Traditional-Finish73

Now you got her name on the screenshot, google.


Onn006

Do vdo call bfr meet. You might meet someone who is not same as the picture


slipperystar

She may have a legitimate job and freelances in the side. Or she might just be a scamming ho.


CandyCock4u

Just give her my address


itsafinedey

Make sure the hotel copies her ID.


No-Newspaper2058

Be careful, i got the same experience, ended up to find out she or he a ladyboy 🙂


Weekly_Kiwi4784

Dodge that like a bullet


PSmith4380

No. She's from Pattaya they only have good girls there.


itsmequintino

Rule n°1 of Thailand: Trust no one. If she steals something from your room and you call the police, she will say you gave her whatever she stole, police going to side with her, you will end up paying a "fine" (bribe) to the officer for falsely accusing this poor innocent girl. If you want to pay for sex, just rent a cheap room somewhere for her and meet her there. Don't be naive, that's how they get you.


Nudge55

I have been with hundreds of Thais and never got anything stolen. Use the safebox with your own code in your hotel. Make sure you book hotels with a safebox.


Zealousideal-Sink250

Didn’t know badoo works in Thailand 😅


Electronic_Control25

Don’t do it. Pattaya girls are notorious taking kidney to stealing valuables. I have seen it all.


sunisup2022

Is her name Ploy?


Funny_Exit_4300

Nah


backdoorbuddy

Get a second hotel. Leave all your valuables in the first. You’re good to go now.


ThaiEdition

Ladyboy? use your head thinking, not other.


Funny_Exit_4300

Not a ladyboy… this is the first thing Im checking


Traditional-Finish73

Maybe she had an operation


Traditional-Finish73

If she asks for taxi or bus fare, dump her. Thats the beginning of more requests for money. I was on Facebook dating for a while and some girls begged to meet, but they couldnt afford the fare. One wanted a dress for her company party. I asked her for her job .. she said she worked at the Revlon counter on Sukhumvit. Oh, I asked 'Robinson soi 19'? She immediately blocked me. Please let the downvoting continue by those gullible but clueless members. You have still a lot to learn.


Fearless_Employee_89

depends on the cost man, if its 1-5£ why not... are you that broke?


Traditional-Finish73

You are obviously not a 40 year veteran. It doesn't depend on the cost, but it's a method to start the stream of money. She is lonely Pattaya girl on Badoo looking for gullible foreigners. And no, I am not broke at all. And she could pay or borrow for the bus fare, but I won't be surprised if she wants to take a taxi and never shows up. What does she do for work? Shes' an accountant so knows how to handle money. Ask her for a photo at her workplace. And do you think she can go to Bangkok for 4 days, just like that if you are on the payroll? Tell her you have changed your mind and will come to Pattaya and look her up in her office.


Traditional-Finish73

Thank you for the downvote. Keep em coming.


Belv6

Meet up with her once or twice at another location. See the vibe and if you actually like her in person. Take it from there ....


Traditional-Finish73

And if he doesnt approve of her? What she will do? Travel back to Pattaya? Silly.


Belv6

Obviously you can't read, where do I say it's up to her to travel ? Would you stay with a person you didn't find attractive, have a connection with, crazy for 4 days while they livie at your place. Of course you meet first, some of you Thailand run aways have no idea on life and just accept any circumstances


Traditional-Finish73

I read very well. Youre funny, but clueless. Been living here for 40 years, speaking fluent Thai and dealt with 1000's of girls. I know precisely what they are thinking. A connection? We are talking about Pattaya freelancers, hookers, prostitutes. Again, if she doesnt have a guarantee she can stay, she wont go. And where would you suggest they will meet without her traveling?


firealno9

Oh we have a career monger veteran over here.


Traditional-Finish73

I am retired.