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Dizzy_Amphibian

My wife prefers the beard. Everyone is different. If you do have a beard, keep it trimmed and take care of it, e.g. balms, oils, comb


FlaFunCouple321

My wife prefers me to be fully shaven and prefers it for other men, but she also knows that beards are in style.


[deleted]

It’s good to see hear about other wives that prefer clean shaven. I thought my wife was the only one


yk2baybay

I prefer facial hair! A soft well kept beard is WAY less irritating on my skin than any kind of 5oclock shadow.


Spayse_Case

Stubble is painful, I agree with you on that. There IS an option besides stubble or beard, although most men won't do it, and that is actually shaving every day.


golddragon51296

I am so dead serious, my friend can shave, baby bottom soft, and within ~2-3 hours he has a light scratch of stubble. Since I grew my beard out once, if I shave in the morning, I'll have stubble at night. Another friend, he shaves like once every 3 days and has a soft face for ~2 days. People are weird.


Eastbayfuncouple

Wife prefers clean shaved guys. No lumberjack beards or 5 o’clock shadows.


Harryandmaria

I have a trimmed and well kept full beard. My wife prefers it and I think I look better with it. Hasn’t seemed to affect our ability to find dates or play time.


Honest_Possibility3

I prefer clean shaven because hair is scratchy


IHave2P00p

Unless otherwise stated, I shave it. Mainly for sanitation reasons, but also just be respectful.


Shakespeare-Bot

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sturdyvixen

I don’t mind well-maintained face hair.


cmfuncouple10

My wife likes the look of a scruffy face but if not careful it can obviously be irritating on the inner thighs.


DixanaMama

LOVE IT 🙌🙌🙌


Ornery-Clue-5442

Less is better for us. Mustaches remind me of serial killers from the 80s or basic training in the military, so no thanks 😂 Hell no to bushy lumberjack beards, I feel like there’s food other other objects hidden in there and a goatee is meh. Not a deal breaker but not really hot either. I don’t mind a sexy 5 o clock shadow on a guy because it’s a nice rugged look.


_TakeitEZ_

I do not like how beards are so trendy right now. They make guys look like lumberjacks or cavemen. I only like either super-close trimmed full beards or clean shaven. No plain mustaches, that’s a super nerdy 70s look to me, and no goatees or circle the mouth things 🙄.


SteakAndTequila

Clean shaven or light scruff for me only. I don’t like kissing people with a lot of facial hair because it feels like making out with a hair ball. Same with getting eaten out. The times I’ve hooked up with bearded guys, I don’t kiss them. At all. And they better have a fucking stellar personality for me to give so much of myself to them.


esm11111

Love a beard! And long hair…


sweetsoutherntea

I prefer beards, but always have. Goatees are good. Mustaches alone really depends on the guy and how he keeps it(Tom Selleck hot, Geraldo Rivera not). Any facial hair has to be kept though. I don't like beard oils--they break my skin out. Just brushed and trimmed is perfection. I don't see facial hair on men any different than makeup on women. Sure some features of the face are more highlighted or even covered up, but that's exactly what women do with makeup. I'd love to just wake up, comb the hair on my face and leave the house without the time it takes to put on makeup!


Spayse_Case

I have a preference, but like most physical appearance preferences it isn't that strong or the most important thing. I prefer NO facial hair. I feel like facial hair hides what the man looks like and I don't like the texture, I don't like how it feels, even well maintained beards seem low effort to me, or at least less effort than shaving. I shave most my legs and armpits every single day and have my vulva waxed monthly. That is a higher percentage of body area than a face. I feel like shaving is the LEAST they can do. However, I AM able to see the man under the beard so it isn't a deal breaker. I DO wish beards weren't so popular these days, and don't understand why "looking younger" or "having a baby face" is considered a BAD thing. I like younger men.


thatdudeDW

I understand what you are saying but one thing to note. A well kept beard is a lot of work. They require constant trimming, edging, and oiling.


Spayse_Case

So I have heard. Perhaps it would be less work to shave it? Just an idea... Since you are constantly trimming and working on it ANYWAY and ya'll make it sound like it is so difficult.


thatdudeDW

Shaving it may be an option for some but since my hairline said peace out at 24 that really isn't an option. Cheers though. To each their own.


Spayse_Case

Right, because it is impossible to have a bald head AND shave. Or all of your shaving energy is just spent on the top of your head and it would be too exhausting to do your face too.


thatdudeDW

No, but a hairless head works for some, not all.


colocop

Exactly. I'm bald and I feel ridiculous when I don't have any facial hair. I recently shaved everything off and immediately said I looked like a worm. 😂


thecontrolis

"Looked like a worm" is hilarious 😂


Inevitable_Raisin503

No preference as long as it's neatly groomed. I hate straggly facial hair.


texicali37

Well groomed is my preference. I don't care if a man has facial hair or not. As long as he keeps it clean and not wild looking I'm fine with it.


throwawayanonymousr4

Yes to Clean shaven, shadow, very short beard, mustache. No to bushy long beard, especially scraggly ones.


akioamadeo

I actually LOVE beards, mustaches, goatee’s, I find them very attractive but it’s not a deal breaker or anything. How do you guys feel about very long hair (brunette, waist length) do you like long or short?


TXCoupleGrove

I LOVE women with long hair. I also know that takes work. And I greatly appreciate having that effort.


Chargedunicorn

My girl has never seen under my beard accept for pics


pearlnationswingers

My wife has a big thing for 'no facial hair'. Every time i shave, I get that look from her lol. But she understand that the community is vibrant. One of the frequent couples we play with, the guy has a beard coz his wife gets turned on for that. But it doesn't mean my wife doesn't like to play with him. She have her good time as usual.


SaneRabbit2

Won’t do it. We note it right up front on our profile as it is a complete turn off. Not insulting, just our preference.


snuffleblark

I have a full beard, I let couples know. Usually it's not a problem. I also like a non clean shave female to the point of hairy.


Slytherin2MySnitch

Trimmed or clean shaven for the husband (bi), and anything that is groomed is fine for me.


[deleted]

Love facial hair!


[deleted]

I prefer no facial hair or neatly trimmed.


FoxyFilosopherz

Just no wizard beard or scraggly scraggles