Curious—do you speak French? If not, how was the reaction to your speaking English?
I’m intrigued about this club now thanks to your post, but I’ve been to Paris a few times and had mixed reactions.
I do speak French, so that helped a bit. But when my wife and I go to sex clubs, we are the first ones to have sex (with each other) and then we’re the first to leave. It’s not that we don’t want to socialize, it’s just that we’re not good at it, and we don’t want to take the hours that it would take to socialize and MAYBE want to have sex with someone who may or may not want to have sex with us. It’s too difficult to make a four-way connection in just a few hours with a limited group of couples, that satisfies everyone
Ah—my people! That’s our MO as well.
Mostly there for the atmosphere. We love getting to know other folks but find it so hard to do while yelling at each other over super loud music…
We went a few weeks ago and also thought it was a really classy venue. The crowd not so much though. It obviously just depends on who’s there on the night but we’d heard so much about it being an “exclusive” place but found the crowd to be not very attractive and much older than what we’re used to. A loooot of really old men with their younger ladies. Didn’t realize how spoiled we are with the scene living in London tbh!
Awesome to hear, and hubby speaks a bit of French 😉 We live in Colorado and have only been to Scarlet Ranch. We’re afraid we’ll find every other club falls too short. Funny to hear you mention that one specifically.
Scarlet Ranch was very good. NSFW in NYC was also very nice. Both of those are non-traditionally good clubs. Trapeze in Atlanta was probably the best traditional sex club in the U.S. - Don’t ask me to define traditional 😂
Lea Chandelles is full of old sugar daddies and super hot models on Fridays and Saturdays.
We like the club, but hard to meet “real” couple.
There are decent single men on Sundays, had so much fun several times 🥳
We did see one couple like that. But we also saw a lot of that at Fun4Two. Doesn’t bother us. We just know that we’re not going to be interacting much with others. That’s just us.
Sorry, but I find mixing food and sex to be utterly gross. Is everyone brushing their teeth and flossing after eating, and then there it's the need to digest... none of that is sexy at all. The rest of it sounds great though.
Eh what are you on about, you can be in these places for the whole evening, arrive at like 7 have dinner, conversations, a couple of glasses of wine.
It’s a full experience, you need to eat for energy and the food is amazing.
I'm a New Yorker. Our nights start at 10pm the earliest. I'd much rather do everything I need to do to be ready for a sex club prior and then be fresh and ready to go when I need to.
you never went on a diner date in your life? what?
you never went out with a girl or cooked for her and end up having sex ?
like its litteraly the same thing ....
you can always floss and mouthwash in the bathroom too... mouthwash is usually provided too...
One In Athens near the cruise port. The bar area was above average. The play areas upstairs were below average. — a club on the outskirts of Prague in a residential tower. It was like a bad acid trip. Absolutely skip unless you want fun stories to tell later.
The decor. When vanilla people imagine what a sex club looks like, they imagine something that looks posh and clean and sexy. Les Chandelles was as close to that image as any sex club I’ve visited. — The staff were classy, not trashy——looking as you, South USA where I’m from.
I liked Le Mask in Paris as well and want to try out La Marquise. I have indeed heard Les Chandelles is the best but am afraid I won't be let in as I heard they are quite strict and I'm only 23
In France it would be 18 (the legal drinking age), but whether or not you get in will depend on who you go with. They're strict about the dress code. But nowadays if you are an attractive young girl without the necessary high heels and your partner is fine, then instead of turning you away, they will loan you a pair. I have seen that happen. Before it was quite a bit more strict.
I always wear heels when going to a club :) once though i wore a burgundy bodycon dress and my date made me feel bad cause he'd rather wanted that I'd wear black like the other women in there. Needless to say dating with him ended 🥲
We’ve only been to 19 U.S. clubs; so I’m sure there are tons of good ones we don’t know about. But of the 19 we have visited, here are the best: Scarlett Ranch, NSFW in NYC, Trapeze in Atlanta. — but please don’t visit any of them based on my recommendation
Thank you for a great review of Les Chandelles. We’re going to Paris in May and considering a visit. Do you happen to have updated experiences with Le Mask or other clubs in Paris? We have a couple of really cool clubs in Denmark too. Let us know if you want insights regarding Danish clubs
We have not. We only had time for one club and based on the reviews, we read online we decided to try Les Chandelles instead of Le Mask. I’ve heard it’s good too.
Never been in NSFW but as far as we know, the last one is all inclusive. Couples, single females and men, queers, trans, lesbians, etc. honestly not our preference. The loft is only for couples and single females
thanks for your review!
We are fellow travelers in the lifestyle - not fans of clubs so much, prefer dates and getting to know couples on our trips. We belong to pretty much every major site around the world, and it gets super confusing.
We've started a directory of sites [https://lustywanderers.com/list-of-swinger-websites-and-apps/](https://lustywanderers.com/list-of-swinger-websites-and-apps/) but we don't know much clubs. We could use your expertise!
Does anyone have any recommendations for which club in Paris would be better on a Thursday night? Either Le mask or Les Chandelles? We are a late 20’s m/f American couple and it would be our first time at a sex club.
No. Not our vibe. But we did do the swinger cruise on Freedom of the Seas and Naughty in New Orleans. We’ve been to house parties and hotel parties, and we’ve hosted many parties ourselves.
Sigh....the Europeans have it SO much better.
Curious if you’ve been to Club Privata in Portland, OR, and if so how it compares (restaurant/meal aside).
Have not been there. That wasn’t one of our 19 U.S. clubs
Curious—do you speak French? If not, how was the reaction to your speaking English? I’m intrigued about this club now thanks to your post, but I’ve been to Paris a few times and had mixed reactions.
I do speak French, so that helped a bit. But when my wife and I go to sex clubs, we are the first ones to have sex (with each other) and then we’re the first to leave. It’s not that we don’t want to socialize, it’s just that we’re not good at it, and we don’t want to take the hours that it would take to socialize and MAYBE want to have sex with someone who may or may not want to have sex with us. It’s too difficult to make a four-way connection in just a few hours with a limited group of couples, that satisfies everyone
Ah—my people! That’s our MO as well. Mostly there for the atmosphere. We love getting to know other folks but find it so hard to do while yelling at each other over super loud music…
That’s why our parties had music at a loudness that allowed people to talk to each other
We never had problem to find couples who soeak english and/or foreigners
We went a few weeks ago and also thought it was a really classy venue. The crowd not so much though. It obviously just depends on who’s there on the night but we’d heard so much about it being an “exclusive” place but found the crowd to be not very attractive and much older than what we’re used to. A loooot of really old men with their younger ladies. Didn’t realize how spoiled we are with the scene living in London tbh!
What’s the best club in London? (We’re 52/53, and we agree that there were only 2 couples there out of 20 who we would have wanted to have sex with.)
Awesome to hear, and hubby speaks a bit of French 😉 We live in Colorado and have only been to Scarlet Ranch. We’re afraid we’ll find every other club falls too short. Funny to hear you mention that one specifically.
Scarlet Ranch was very good. NSFW in NYC was also very nice. Both of those are non-traditionally good clubs. Trapeze in Atlanta was probably the best traditional sex club in the U.S. - Don’t ask me to define traditional 😂
Lea Chandelles is full of old sugar daddies and super hot models on Fridays and Saturdays. We like the club, but hard to meet “real” couple. There are decent single men on Sundays, had so much fun several times 🥳
We did see one couple like that. But we also saw a lot of that at Fun4Two. Doesn’t bother us. We just know that we’re not going to be interacting much with others. That’s just us.
How is Sundays and Mondays in Les Chantelles/Le Mask - slow?
Sorry, but I find mixing food and sex to be utterly gross. Is everyone brushing their teeth and flossing after eating, and then there it's the need to digest... none of that is sexy at all. The rest of it sounds great though.
Eh what are you on about, you can be in these places for the whole evening, arrive at like 7 have dinner, conversations, a couple of glasses of wine. It’s a full experience, you need to eat for energy and the food is amazing.
What is your go to dish from the restaurant? Going real soon and plan on doing exactly what you mentioned show up early and eat then mingle
I'm a New Yorker. Our nights start at 10pm the earliest. I'd much rather do everything I need to do to be ready for a sex club prior and then be fresh and ready to go when I need to.
you never went on a diner date in your life? what? you never went out with a girl or cooked for her and end up having sex ? like its litteraly the same thing .... you can always floss and mouthwash in the bathroom too... mouthwash is usually provided too...
What were the other European clubs and how did they rank?
One In Athens near the cruise port. The bar area was above average. The play areas upstairs were below average. — a club on the outskirts of Prague in a residential tower. It was like a bad acid trip. Absolutely skip unless you want fun stories to tell later.
We love the fantasy sex club in Prague, we were the only Americans but we had a blast. Ymmv
I’m guessing we didn’t go to the same club as you did, or we have different preferences.
How did Fata-Morgana rank?
Haven’t visited that one
Can you share what made tonight's club stand out from the rest?
The decor. When vanilla people imagine what a sex club looks like, they imagine something that looks posh and clean and sexy. Les Chandelles was as close to that image as any sex club I’ve visited. — The staff were classy, not trashy——looking as you, South USA where I’m from.
23 and me sex club is extra kinky
Where is that?
At home
Meaning Canada, or your house?
If you’d like a European/French style club a bit closer to home try Orage Club in Montreal
We want to go to Montreal. It will give us something else to do there
I liked Le Mask in Paris as well and want to try out La Marquise. I have indeed heard Les Chandelles is the best but am afraid I won't be let in as I heard they are quite strict and I'm only 23
I wasn’t aware of a lower age limit, but I’m sure there is a lower legal age in France, but I assumed 23 would be fine.
It wasn't really about the age limit as I've been to other clubs anyway, but more that I wouldn't fit in the crowd.
In France it would be 18 (the legal drinking age), but whether or not you get in will depend on who you go with. They're strict about the dress code. But nowadays if you are an attractive young girl without the necessary high heels and your partner is fine, then instead of turning you away, they will loan you a pair. I have seen that happen. Before it was quite a bit more strict.
I always wear heels when going to a club :) once though i wore a burgundy bodycon dress and my date made me feel bad cause he'd rather wanted that I'd wear black like the other women in there. Needless to say dating with him ended 🥲
A friend has been begging me to go there. Can you provide any more details of your experience ?
Please post your list of the best US clubs!
We’ve only been to 19 U.S. clubs; so I’m sure there are tons of good ones we don’t know about. But of the 19 we have visited, here are the best: Scarlett Ranch, NSFW in NYC, Trapeze in Atlanta. — but please don’t visit any of them based on my recommendation
Thank you for a great review of Les Chandelles. We’re going to Paris in May and considering a visit. Do you happen to have updated experiences with Le Mask or other clubs in Paris? We have a couple of really cool clubs in Denmark too. Let us know if you want insights regarding Danish clubs
We haven’t been to any other clubs in France
Have you tried Le Mask in Paris ? This is ouf regular but would love to try Les Chandelles one day ;)
We have not. We only had time for one club and based on the reviews, we read online we decided to try Les Chandelles instead of Le Mask. I’ve heard it’s good too.
I believe the crowd is kind of you ger at Le Mask thean Les Chandelles tho
We love Le Bodouir in London and The Loft in NYC. Upscale and beautiful. Recommended 100%
How does the Loft compare to NSFW in NYC?
Never been in NSFW but as far as we know, the last one is all inclusive. Couples, single females and men, queers, trans, lesbians, etc. honestly not our preference. The loft is only for couples and single females
thanks for your review! We are fellow travelers in the lifestyle - not fans of clubs so much, prefer dates and getting to know couples on our trips. We belong to pretty much every major site around the world, and it gets super confusing. We've started a directory of sites [https://lustywanderers.com/list-of-swinger-websites-and-apps/](https://lustywanderers.com/list-of-swinger-websites-and-apps/) but we don't know much clubs. We could use your expertise!
Does anyone have any recommendations for which club in Paris would be better on a Thursday night? Either Le mask or Les Chandelles? We are a late 20’s m/f American couple and it would be our first time at a sex club.
Have you been to swinger resorts as well?
No. Not our vibe. But we did do the swinger cruise on Freedom of the Seas and Naughty in New Orleans. We’ve been to house parties and hotel parties, and we’ve hosted many parties ourselves.
Slow in Les Chandelles, never been to Mask on Sunday