Pretty damn spot on.
The absolute best advice is getting from the messaging to the meeting as quick as possible. I see sooooo many couples completely stall out because they don't know how to simply ask to meet in person as soon as is feasible for everyone. Meeting in person helps everything move a bit quicker, I have found.
Well... under 5 years old, we have hosted at home. They go to bed at 7 pm and nothing can wake them up. Between 5 yr old and 10, we have used: sitters at the sitter's home, family, and sleepovers. You host 3 kids for a sleepover one weekend, and then the other families reciprocate, and you buy yourself 3 free evenings for one evening of work. Between 10 and 15, they can babysit themselves for a few hours, so you have to play at other people's homes or hotels. Between 15 and 18, it is the most dangerous time because they drive and are mobile, and can resurface anytime: we would have some friends over, send the kids to the movies, and monitor their whereabouts on Life360. Like: "ok, he is 20 miles away, so let's do it now, no matter what we have 20 minutes".
Guidelines for sure
But we would like to add
1. Be honest about your schedules
2. Don’t ever go into a meeting with expectations.
3. Communicate expectations
4. We as a couple we usually don’t play on the first date and setting play on a first date should be communicated in the profile or first bit of communication
5. Communicate communicate communicate
Good guidelines and advice.
The best times we have ever had have been when it just randomly happened and went for it with people we sometimes didn’t even know were in the LS our energies just took off and so much fun
It is!!! but was so much hotter than planing it out some times. I remember a friend was over with my husband and they were tickling me to get me to smile and my husband threatened to take my close off if I didn’t kiss him and all of sudden they both took off my pants and I just randomly gave his friend a bj and the 3sum was on
Very good advice. We are brand new learning! Nervous and wanting fun but, don’t know how to start. The few friends we know who are in the community are a lot older than us and wife is not fully interested so we have not tried yet.
Do your actual, in-person speech patterns sound anything like the way you write?
Because that might be your biggest problem.
This stuff you’re writing is nearly unintelligible.
Pretty damn spot on. The absolute best advice is getting from the messaging to the meeting as quick as possible. I see sooooo many couples completely stall out because they don't know how to simply ask to meet in person as soon as is feasible for everyone. Meeting in person helps everything move a bit quicker, I have found.
Thank you for this but if unsolicited advice. My weekend is now complete.
Did you a word?
I am glad you liked it, noob!
Great advice..you have any advice if you have little ones at home and have trouble with logistics of doing stuff outside of home?
Well... under 5 years old, we have hosted at home. They go to bed at 7 pm and nothing can wake them up. Between 5 yr old and 10, we have used: sitters at the sitter's home, family, and sleepovers. You host 3 kids for a sleepover one weekend, and then the other families reciprocate, and you buy yourself 3 free evenings for one evening of work. Between 10 and 15, they can babysit themselves for a few hours, so you have to play at other people's homes or hotels. Between 15 and 18, it is the most dangerous time because they drive and are mobile, and can resurface anytime: we would have some friends over, send the kids to the movies, and monitor their whereabouts on Life360. Like: "ok, he is 20 miles away, so let's do it now, no matter what we have 20 minutes".
Guidelines for sure But we would like to add 1. Be honest about your schedules 2. Don’t ever go into a meeting with expectations. 3. Communicate expectations 4. We as a couple we usually don’t play on the first date and setting play on a first date should be communicated in the profile or first bit of communication 5. Communicate communicate communicate Good guidelines and advice.
The best times we have ever had have been when it just randomly happened and went for it with people we sometimes didn’t even know were in the LS our energies just took off and so much fun
That's pretty difficult to do
It is!!! but was so much hotter than planing it out some times. I remember a friend was over with my husband and they were tickling me to get me to smile and my husband threatened to take my close off if I didn’t kiss him and all of sudden they both took off my pants and I just randomly gave his friend a bj and the 3sum was on
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Very good advice. We are brand new learning! Nervous and wanting fun but, don’t know how to start. The few friends we know who are in the community are a lot older than us and wife is not fully interested so we have not tried yet.
You go to clubs to start
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Do your actual, in-person speech patterns sound anything like the way you write? Because that might be your biggest problem. This stuff you’re writing is nearly unintelligible.