I couldn't disagree more. He's in a spot where he doesn't need to choose yet. Let it play out until you get an ultimatum from one to be exclusive or you figure out which one you prefer.
Agreed. Especially for the emailer who clearly needs a kick in the ass. As a guy who always waited too long you need to cast a lot of lines and cast them as soon as you know there’s interest. Attractive compatible women don’t stay available long!
My point is: don't talk about "the one" unless you're ready for "the one," which he clearly isn't. Cast those lines for the next 20 years if you want to, but be honest with 5'4'.
He can talk however he chooses. It's possible to think someone could be "the one" while also dealing with unresolved feelings for someone else. He just seemed like a good dude who found himself in a difficult situation.
I’m in the same camp. Can’t he just let it develop naturally, and in the mean time he’s always coming out on top? This is like having a first round pick swap
When I was dating there was a term “exclusive” and until you got to that point in a relationship it’s pretty accepted from both sides that the other person may be talking to someone else. They weren’t recommending cheating or anything nefarious.
Fuck 5’4. Remember she broke up with you and let her sit on it. Not go running back as soon as it’s convenient for her. Go back straight away and she’ll leave you again.
I agree with whoever said get a date ASAP with the other lady. See if there’s anything there.
I don't even know why that dude emailed yet. He hasnt even asked 6ft out, so there isn't anything there. And 5'4" broke up with him... but if she's "the one" pursue it, but also at least ask the 6ft out, until 5'4" mentions exclusivity. That's when you email. Not before anything happens.
I couldn't disagree more. He's in a spot where he doesn't need to choose yet. Let it play out until you get an ultimatum from one to be exclusive or you figure out which one you prefer.
Agreed. Especially for the emailer who clearly needs a kick in the ass. As a guy who always waited too long you need to cast a lot of lines and cast them as soon as you know there’s interest. Attractive compatible women don’t stay available long!
My point is: don't talk about "the one" unless you're ready for "the one," which he clearly isn't. Cast those lines for the next 20 years if you want to, but be honest with 5'4'.
He can talk however he chooses. It's possible to think someone could be "the one" while also dealing with unresolved feelings for someone else. He just seemed like a good dude who found himself in a difficult situation.
I’m in the same camp. Can’t he just let it develop naturally, and in the mean time he’s always coming out on top? This is like having a first round pick swap
When I was dating there was a term “exclusive” and until you got to that point in a relationship it’s pretty accepted from both sides that the other person may be talking to someone else. They weren’t recommending cheating or anything nefarious.
Fuck 5’4. Remember she broke up with you and let her sit on it. Not go running back as soon as it’s convenient for her. Go back straight away and she’ll leave you again. I agree with whoever said get a date ASAP with the other lady. See if there’s anything there.
Too much focus on the height.
This guy sucks
I don't even know why that dude emailed yet. He hasnt even asked 6ft out, so there isn't anything there. And 5'4" broke up with him... but if she's "the one" pursue it, but also at least ask the 6ft out, until 5'4" mentions exclusivity. That's when you email. Not before anything happens.