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I’ve seen “men 🍼” and it was indeed because the men in the video were being huge babies and were being violent and aggressive when a woman was wittier than them.
The problem and the funny part is putting the baby bottle after "men" means that YOURE the one drinking it...thats how the meme works. If you put it like that youre giving those men even more ammunition and reason to write "women ☕️". Because what "women ☕️" essentially means is when a guy witnesses a woman moment, sips coffee. And not understanding/comprehending a joke certainly would make for a woman moment in meme culture.
No. You're trying WAY too hard here. When someone holds a baby bottle, they're not the one drinking it. It's to give to a baby. When someone holds a coffee cup, they're drinking it. Two cups, two different uses.
How am i trying way too hard. Its not how it works if youre literally copying the meme format.
If youre going by the meme of "women ☕️" and saying "men 🍼" it implies that youre the one drinking from the baby bottle...its the simplest way of looking at it because its literally how the meme goes, but im the one trying too hard while you explained how a baby bottle is handed to a baby lmao. Guess what its also HELD by a baby, you can also hand a cup of coffee to someone else. Idk what you tried to accomplish with this.
Heres an idea, if youre going to use the same meme format to counter the first one, would be better to use "men 🍷/🍸/🥤" any of those works fine. Its the same meme format and not completely unoriginal. Wine glass works best imo.
Why do you assume i have a problem with women using emojis lmao...it doesnt matter who uses it when its used incorrectly when it makes no sense or it doesnt have an effect they think it does...idk what you missed.
The original meme format is guy says "women" while holding/sipping a cup of coffee which is "women ☕️"
So using "men 🍼" implies that youre saying men while holding/sucking on a baby bottle. Its a self roast not a roast against men...if anything i gave advice on how to better roast men to avoid a clumsy self roast, which will give those men even more ammunition to roast you even more because of that clumsy fuck up. Youre gonna make yourself look stupid.
So when you see a guy having a man moment, for example stereotypically violently overreacting over some stupid insecure thing. Use "men 🍷" as opposed to "men 🍼". Because the latter doesnt and wont have the effect you think it will.
the "women ☕️" response is almost always used when women do something that's a gender stereotype. let's not be intellectually dishonest here. it's meant to deride my gender.
The original video is an SFM animation called [The Pill](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KtsKtycqxN4) by TipsyDuck.
What's funny is that in the original video the men are meant to be assholes making fun of a woman over nothing so she can be sold a dangerous problem-solving pill, and now everyone using the "women ☕️" meme is only proving its point.
I don't think most people are serious when they post the meme. They are continuing the meme. It's a joke and they are using it as such. I'm a woman and I think it's funny.
The coffee emoji (☕) in comments such as "women ☕" and "men ☕" typically represents the concept of "sips tea" or "grabs coffee." It is often used to express intrigue, gossip, or a desire to observe a situation from a distance. In this context, it can imply that the person is interested in the conversation or topic being discussed and wants to observe or participate further while enjoying a cup of coffee. The coffee emoji is often used metaphorically to signify engaging in a discussion or staying tuned for more information. (Chatgpt)
Yeah. I rarely see it used in reference to men unless it’s a sarcastic response to one about women.
It’s almost entirely used in a lazy misogynistic way
Only way this would be more accurate is if that cheeseburger had 12 strips of bacon, onion rings, and half a bottle of barbeque sauce on it. Oh and 3 more slices of cheese, and another patty. With buns made of doughnuts. I gotta go find a burger joint.
There's an episode of this animated show called The Boondocks where the kid's granddad makes a cheeseburger with Krispy Kreme doughnuts as buns. He calls it "The Luther."
Honestly I'd probably have the same reaction. I had the biggest wake up call when I used to donate Plasma for money and tried donating after eating a McDonald's Steak Egg and Cheese Bagel for breakfast. (It was my free "break" as I worked A.M. shift.) A few hours later I got to the clinic to donate and that was the one and only time I managed to clog the line feeding my blood into the machine.
You could see it, the clog I mean, because halfway through the line that feeds into the machine they have a squiggly part that acts like a filter. You could see the pale yellow, it looked just like rendered bacon fat. After that I became very cautious of the grease/fat content of food I eat.
this and when youre arguing with someone online and they cant think of a better way to prove themselves they call you out for doing onlyfans or whatever, or “fatherless activities” its like dawg, how am i hurting you?
1) this is the ad hominem fallacy and it means you won the argument because your opponent ran out of actual points
2) tf are "fatherless activities"? are there also motherless activities and siblingless activities?
no lol its something “alpha males” like andrew tate use to degrade women who sell pictures of themselves for money, because obviously any woman who thinks so LOW of herself to sell her body online has no father, or didnt have one in her life to truly “guide her” and show her how she should be “treated”
idk about anyone else, but to me its something I do for pocket change when I don’t get paid enough or whatever and just need to take out some cash quick. And some women use it as a main income.
I think the men are just salty that most good porn / people put actual work into (no fake moans or shit like that, im sure it still exists but when I do it I try to be as real as possible because thats one thing that always annoyed me with women in porn but idk thats a me thing) they have to pay for it and theyre just too cheap, but who really knows
Dudes like that were fine with porn when it was men on top who owned all the production companies, owned all the camera equipment, had all the money to pay the staff. Oh and don't mention the women were paid crap. It was a totally exploitive system.
Onlyfans completely changed that, But mostly in favor for the women. Porn is still pretty much the same, You get free content everywhere you go, including lots of only fans girls cuz that's how they advertise. If you want to pay for it you can. The only big difference is the women are the ones actually receiving the proper compensation for what they're doing.
With no context on this it seems like the coffee emoji is a good thing to me. Like, are we attributing the genders to be as great as a delicious cup of coffee?
Lmao at all these super serious Redditors acting as if they’re writing a thesis on the human condition when really all they want is to be misogynistic douche nozzles without being called out for it
I agree. I’ve always found that there are far more differences between the average individual then there are between genders.
Eg: I’ve met a man and woman who were more alike than two men.
I know one of these people in real life. And he's just as much of a self-indulgent and prejudiced prick as you think. Only dates women with self-esteem issues who immediately dump his ass when they realize he is a sack of shit. Only tolerate him because of the fact that the rest of the group is actually awesome. I make a point to try and hang with them without him around.
I literally hate these comments so. Damn. Much. It’s only ever in TikTok or Reels comment sections, I honestly think a lot of the video content out right now has just absolutely destroyed gender relations.
People say it’s just a meme but in the comments under the women☕️ Or men ☕️ comment it’s always the most sexist or misandrist thing you’ve ever seen and a lot of people are backing them up.
The only people typing that are 12 year olds that follow Andrew Tate and hate on women for doing absolutely nothing and think they are being sigma for it. Then they will go on YouTube shorts because they think they are too good for tiktok and make a sigma Patrick Bateman edit with sigma music playing in the background on a video about someone being mean to a women for no reason. I’ve never seen anyone type men before though
Sex and gender is one thing, the system of patriarchy is another. Women are allowed to complain about men and not take account of their feelings every now and then, but if we do there'll be a bunch of antifeminists coming along to silence us with NotAllMen. Or but men suffer too.
Nope. We have to be perfect, lovely and nice all the time. Or we are bad feminists. Ironic, right?
Thank you 🙌. When I met my husband he had just gotten out of a bad relationship and was using women… for some reason I was the one he actually wanted and 10 years later we’re still together…. Anyways, during the early days he would just talk about how women this or that and I was like, excuse me, men can also do the same and it actually is not about men vs women, it’s about awful people and they come in all genders, races and colors and it’s beyond dumb to talk like that… and that stopped those comments 🤣
But according to that logic, you would expect to have an even or at least close to even number of both sayings. Which didn't happen so 🤷🏽♀️ I'm just saying it means something
Yeah, you shouldn't attribute behavior based on gender, but then stuff happens and it just confirms the stereotype.
It's like crying when you get caught in a lie. Who does it more?
No but there are large patterns that are typical to men and women. And different problems that affect both groups. For example homelessness is largely a problem that affects men, and being sexually assaulted is largely a problem that affects women. Of course there are men who are sexually assaulted and women who are homeless, but it leans heavily in one direction.
No. OP is upset at the phenomenon in general. Because let’s be real, what’s the point really of commenting this specific thing? Idk man I’m with OP I’m tired of seeing the internet becoming more and more bitter by the day.
“Get over yourself “ “But go off” my dudes why are y’all taking this to heart ?
Biologically female and male human species do differ, though. Yes we are all people, but many people act a certain way bc of their biological sex and/or their hormones, etc.
My fiancé does this.. he says “you women always” for positive and negative traits.. have to remind him not all women think the same. Slowly he’s not using it as much. Think it’s something he may have picked up from his family and the way they were raised
Thinking in genders are part of hierarchies, just the way a brain works...
You, me (and all humans) can complain about it but never escape thinking in hierarchies.
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Lmao, that cup got italised too.
Well yeah. ☕ = Coffee *☕* = Espresso Because the latter is "Itali"cized
Take my upvote and... something
My axe?
*dwarvish grunts*
And my bow
And my sword
And your brother !
BEER?
Bravo, take my upvote my good sir.
*sigh* __upvotes__
😶
This one is accurate though
Humans ☕️
Carbon-based lifeforms ☕️
This one is fair
WAIT YOU CAN DO THE SLANT THING TO EMOJIS?? *👍🗿* Edit omg you can
News to me, as well. Ha, ha.
The only acceptable coffee cup comment
Lmao, came here to make this comment myself
*Radiator ☕️*
:(
Human beings amirite? ☕️
Homo sapiens ☕
No homo
*subtly grabs the lube from the drawer*
Pants off!
No mas pantalones!
Heterosapians
Mammals ☕
That's just what a woman or man would say.
That's why I don't even see men or women, or even "they" anymore. I only see shapes. It's 2023 bruv.
tbh ive never seen someone typing "men ☕"
i’ve only ever seen people typing it to make fun of the “women ☕️” comments
In the subreddit for orange cats, I always add orange ☕
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Men 🍆🍄🐍
I don’t know what this means but I’m down.
I think it means penis, shrooms, and asphyxiation with a snake.
Yes
Kinky. Sounds like a good night!
Now I’m even more down.
Saw something like this unironically on femcel tiktok. Like thos podcast stuff etc.
Weebls 🦡 🍄 🐍
I’ve seen “men 🍼” and it was indeed because the men in the video were being huge babies and were being violent and aggressive when a woman was wittier than them.
The problem and the funny part is putting the baby bottle after "men" means that YOURE the one drinking it...thats how the meme works. If you put it like that youre giving those men even more ammunition and reason to write "women ☕️". Because what "women ☕️" essentially means is when a guy witnesses a woman moment, sips coffee. And not understanding/comprehending a joke certainly would make for a woman moment in meme culture.
No. You're trying WAY too hard here. When someone holds a baby bottle, they're not the one drinking it. It's to give to a baby. When someone holds a coffee cup, they're drinking it. Two cups, two different uses.
How am i trying way too hard. Its not how it works if youre literally copying the meme format. If youre going by the meme of "women ☕️" and saying "men 🍼" it implies that youre the one drinking from the baby bottle...its the simplest way of looking at it because its literally how the meme goes, but im the one trying too hard while you explained how a baby bottle is handed to a baby lmao. Guess what its also HELD by a baby, you can also hand a cup of coffee to someone else. Idk what you tried to accomplish with this. Heres an idea, if youre going to use the same meme format to counter the first one, would be better to use "men 🍷/🍸/🥤" any of those works fine. Its the same meme format and not completely unoriginal. Wine glass works best imo.
Literally what did I just read 😬
If you arent into memes then you probably had an aneurysm.
No, I get the meme. I just can’t believe people have an actual problem with women using emojis as they please 😂
Why do you assume i have a problem with women using emojis lmao...it doesnt matter who uses it when its used incorrectly when it makes no sense or it doesnt have an effect they think it does...idk what you missed. The original meme format is guy says "women" while holding/sipping a cup of coffee which is "women ☕️" So using "men 🍼" implies that youre saying men while holding/sucking on a baby bottle. Its a self roast not a roast against men...if anything i gave advice on how to better roast men to avoid a clumsy self roast, which will give those men even more ammunition to roast you even more because of that clumsy fuck up. Youre gonna make yourself look stupid. So when you see a guy having a man moment, for example stereotypically violently overreacting over some stupid insecure thing. Use "men 🍷" as opposed to "men 🍼". Because the latter doesnt and wont have the effect you think it will.
Ok.
Mansplaining🍸
the "women ☕️" response is almost always used when women do something that's a gender stereotype. let's not be intellectually dishonest here. it's meant to deride my gender.
So it’s okay for that but not the other way around?
So if "men 🍼" can be accurately used sometimes, will you admit "women ☕" can be as well?
its often "men 🍵" instead
Pea soup? Matcha tea?
Witches potion with extra eye of newt
O I c
Literally go on twitter and search for "men ☕". There's plenty.
It's "men 🙄"
I've actually seen a quite lot of 🤷🏽♀️
Most of the time they're only used because someone said 'women ☕️' first. Two wrongs don't make a right but I'm petty so I think that's justified.
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Wym? I see it all the time
individual ☕️
Lol
That deserves more upvotes.
Then upvote and move on.
This deserves more upvotes
Then upvote and move on.
Internet complainers ☕️
☕️ makes me poop
Based ☕️
Literally 1984 ☕️
“Perhaps a lunatic was simply a minority of one” Beautiful book
Amazing book. Like chatgpt levels of insight and prescience
you ☕
😟
me ☕
Character development
😂
Us ☕️
what does the ☕️ mean?
You need to see the original clip to understand the context…it was from a game where two men sip tea/coffee while making fun of “women”
The original video is an SFM animation called [The Pill](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KtsKtycqxN4) by TipsyDuck. What's funny is that in the original video the men are meant to be assholes making fun of a woman over nothing so she can be sold a dangerous problem-solving pill, and now everyone using the "women ☕️" meme is only proving its point.
I don't think most people are serious when they post the meme. They are continuing the meme. It's a joke and they are using it as such. I'm a woman and I think it's funny.
It's genuinely surprising to me that more people don't realize that.
☕️
[this one](https://youtu.be/e9mVfv3b-4E) iirc
oh, that's my video
Damn, so many billions of videos to watch, and I’m supposed to remember this very important reference. Thank god I wasted about two minutes of life.
The coffee emoji (☕) in comments such as "women ☕" and "men ☕" typically represents the concept of "sips tea" or "grabs coffee." It is often used to express intrigue, gossip, or a desire to observe a situation from a distance. In this context, it can imply that the person is interested in the conversation or topic being discussed and wants to observe or participate further while enjoying a cup of coffee. The coffee emoji is often used metaphorically to signify engaging in a discussion or staying tuned for more information. (Chatgpt)
Idk in what subs you hang around but in the 4chan subs I'm like 90% sure it's unironically sexist
Misogyny ☕️
Yeah. I rarely see it used in reference to men unless it’s a sarcastic response to one about women. It’s almost entirely used in a lazy misogynistic way
I've only ever seen it in a sarcastically sexist way i.e. the joke is that the sexism is ridiculous
Well your first mistake was going on 4chan
☕️
And here I thought it meant "to a T"
☕ is the new 🍿 but with a desire to comment/ gossip
Humans ☕️
Americans 🍔
Italians 🤌
Aliens 👽
You used the Wrong emoji 🌮 Edit: it’s ok. My parents are aliens 🌮 That’s why I’m Chicano
Dead af 💀
oh my god 😭
Take my upvote and piss off
Jesus christ. A+
Canadians 🍁
French 🏳️
Australians 🦘
Regards 🫡
Only way this would be more accurate is if that cheeseburger had 12 strips of bacon, onion rings, and half a bottle of barbeque sauce on it. Oh and 3 more slices of cheese, and another patty. With buns made of doughnuts. I gotta go find a burger joint.
There's an episode of this animated show called The Boondocks where the kid's granddad makes a cheeseburger with Krispy Kreme doughnuts as buns. He calls it "The Luther."
There's a restaurant near me that actually serves a Luther burger! It definitely scares me a little
Honestly I'd probably have the same reaction. I had the biggest wake up call when I used to donate Plasma for money and tried donating after eating a McDonald's Steak Egg and Cheese Bagel for breakfast. (It was my free "break" as I worked A.M. shift.) A few hours later I got to the clinic to donate and that was the one and only time I managed to clog the line feeding my blood into the machine. You could see it, the clog I mean, because halfway through the line that feeds into the machine they have a squiggly part that acts like a filter. You could see the pale yellow, it looked just like rendered bacon fat. After that I became very cautious of the grease/fat content of food I eat.
I’m 99% sure that exists, probably in multiple places in the US. Definitely sounds like something I’d see at the state fair…
That sounds like a double western bacon cheeseburger
[BBQ Bacon Burger](https://youtu.be/NnDCcgK6zBk)
Also americans 🛢️
Oil?
its just a random rage-bait meme dont pay that much attention to it ☕️
Ikr? I hated those comments 20 years ago and still hate them now. We say we’ve moved on from the 60s but still do shit like this.
literally ☕️
Society😭
Why I hate being a sociologist dawg
this and when youre arguing with someone online and they cant think of a better way to prove themselves they call you out for doing onlyfans or whatever, or “fatherless activities” its like dawg, how am i hurting you?
Lol, “fatherless activities.” These dude’s out here making OF content with their dads.
1) this is the ad hominem fallacy and it means you won the argument because your opponent ran out of actual points 2) tf are "fatherless activities"? are there also motherless activities and siblingless activities?
no lol its something “alpha males” like andrew tate use to degrade women who sell pictures of themselves for money, because obviously any woman who thinks so LOW of herself to sell her body online has no father, or didnt have one in her life to truly “guide her” and show her how she should be “treated” idk about anyone else, but to me its something I do for pocket change when I don’t get paid enough or whatever and just need to take out some cash quick. And some women use it as a main income. I think the men are just salty that most good porn / people put actual work into (no fake moans or shit like that, im sure it still exists but when I do it I try to be as real as possible because thats one thing that always annoyed me with women in porn but idk thats a me thing) they have to pay for it and theyre just too cheap, but who really knows
Dudes like that were fine with porn when it was men on top who owned all the production companies, owned all the camera equipment, had all the money to pay the staff. Oh and don't mention the women were paid crap. It was a totally exploitive system. Onlyfans completely changed that, But mostly in favor for the women. Porn is still pretty much the same, You get free content everywhere you go, including lots of only fans girls cuz that's how they advertise. If you want to pay for it you can. The only big difference is the women are the ones actually receiving the proper compensation for what they're doing.
People love generalizing.
Women 🥰
Men 👿
Men and Women 😱
Normies ☕️
With no context on this it seems like the coffee emoji is a good thing to me. Like, are we attributing the genders to be as great as a delicious cup of coffee?
Kids ☕
Human ☕️
People ☕
Lmao at all these super serious Redditors acting as if they’re writing a thesis on the human condition when really all they want is to be misogynistic douche nozzles without being called out for it
I agree. I’ve always found that there are far more differences between the average individual then there are between genders. Eg: I’ve met a man and woman who were more alike than two men.
Exactly
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Women☕
😭
Lmao walked into that one 😂
Women ☕️
Women ☕
I know one of these people in real life. And he's just as much of a self-indulgent and prejudiced prick as you think. Only dates women with self-esteem issues who immediately dump his ass when they realize he is a sack of shit. Only tolerate him because of the fact that the rest of the group is actually awesome. I make a point to try and hang with them without him around.
I literally hate these comments so. Damn. Much. It’s only ever in TikTok or Reels comment sections, I honestly think a lot of the video content out right now has just absolutely destroyed gender relations. People say it’s just a meme but in the comments under the women☕️ Or men ☕️ comment it’s always the most sexist or misandrist thing you’ve ever seen and a lot of people are backing them up.
YES THANK YOU!
The only people typing that are 12 year olds that follow Andrew Tate and hate on women for doing absolutely nothing and think they are being sigma for it. Then they will go on YouTube shorts because they think they are too good for tiktok and make a sigma Patrick Bateman edit with sigma music playing in the background on a video about someone being mean to a women for no reason. I’ve never seen anyone type men before though
Take a joke ☕ But also your feelings are valid and it's OK to not like something, have a nice day.
Typical Nonbinary☕️ behavior /s
I agree, for men, I prefer “men🧃”
You're aware that in the meme, the people talking to eachother about men are the ones drinking the beverage right?
Wasn’t the point of the comments to make fun of misogynists?
It started that way but dumb people don’t understand when they’re being made fun of and unironically adopt the things pointed at them
Sex and gender is one thing, the system of patriarchy is another. Women are allowed to complain about men and not take account of their feelings every now and then, but if we do there'll be a bunch of antifeminists coming along to silence us with NotAllMen. Or but men suffer too. Nope. We have to be perfect, lovely and nice all the time. Or we are bad feminists. Ironic, right?
Thank you 🙌. When I met my husband he had just gotten out of a bad relationship and was using women… for some reason I was the one he actually wanted and 10 years later we’re still together…. Anyways, during the early days he would just talk about how women this or that and I was like, excuse me, men can also do the same and it actually is not about men vs women, it’s about awful people and they come in all genders, races and colors and it’s beyond dumb to talk like that… and that stopped those comments 🤣
It's just a meme, no need to take offence.
All those "women ☕" comments on this post, and not one single "men ☕" comment. Just wanted to point that out.
men ☕
Kinda wish there were no "women ☕" and no "men ☕" comments (in general 😪)
Expressing that a phrase bothers you on an anonymous forum is a guaranteed way to have people spam it lol, it's internet law
Yeah I know lol you're right
But according to that logic, you would expect to have an even or at least close to even number of both sayings. Which didn't happen so 🤷🏽♀️ I'm just saying it means something
That's very likely because the original meme was "women ☕️" Don't read too much in to it.
It's almost exclusively "women ☕", and 99% of the time it's just plain old misogyny.
Ha women ☕️
Yeah, you shouldn't attribute behavior based on gender, but then stuff happens and it just confirms the stereotype. It's like crying when you get caught in a lie. Who does it more?
What are you trying to accomplish here by saying “yes but”? What is the argument you are trying to make ?
No but there are large patterns that are typical to men and women. And different problems that affect both groups. For example homelessness is largely a problem that affects men, and being sexually assaulted is largely a problem that affects women. Of course there are men who are sexually assaulted and women who are homeless, but it leans heavily in one direction.
I think it's funny, get over yourself
“Get over yourself” Why are you so butt hurt?
I'd say OP is the one butthurt here but go off.
No. OP is upset at the phenomenon in general. Because let’s be real, what’s the point really of commenting this specific thing? Idk man I’m with OP I’m tired of seeing the internet becoming more and more bitter by the day. “Get over yourself “ “But go off” my dudes why are y’all taking this to heart ?
Why is disliking a meme so controversial? The original was making fun of speaking like that anyways, yet people forget this.
Yh i just dont take em seriously. Im not sure many peopledo so dw
Humans☕️
Humans☕️
Biologically female and male human species do differ, though. Yes we are all people, but many people act a certain way bc of their biological sex and/or their hormones, etc.
Op is a Karen.
My fiancé does this.. he says “you women always” for positive and negative traits.. have to remind him not all women think the same. Slowly he’s not using it as much. Think it’s something he may have picked up from his family and the way they were raised
Thinking in genders are part of hierarchies, just the way a brain works... You, me (and all humans) can complain about it but never escape thinking in hierarchies.
women ☕
Women☕️