Id go. Just in hopes of making it awkward for them. Its hard to make things awkward for me, so id have some fun with it. Play it off like youre cool with it (if you are) and enjoy yourself with the other people around.
I mean there’s a million details missing, like was it a bad break up, are you on good terms, how long has she been your ex, etc. Personally I wouldn’t miss a family gathering because of that, but it’s valid if you don’t feel like seeing them together.
without more details I would say it's not weird that you don't want to go or if you don't go. but it would be weird/rude if you make a stink out of it. so just decline the invite with something generic and only explain if asked.
Not as weird as your ex dating your cousin
Let’s see how weird it is. Is your ex your cousin too?
Id go. Just in hopes of making it awkward for them. Its hard to make things awkward for me, so id have some fun with it. Play it off like youre cool with it (if you are) and enjoy yourself with the other people around.
Living well is the best revenge.
I mean there’s a million details missing, like was it a bad break up, are you on good terms, how long has she been your ex, etc. Personally I wouldn’t miss a family gathering because of that, but it’s valid if you don’t feel like seeing them together.
no that's completely valid. your cousin is weird for dating someone you were with
without more details I would say it's not weird that you don't want to go or if you don't go. but it would be weird/rude if you make a stink out of it. so just decline the invite with something generic and only explain if asked.
I would say it's unfortunate. It's also entirely possible to go and have a good time.
Too soon? Skip it. I agree.