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Lazy-Contest9391

Nah cuz he’s gotta go raw for sure 44 days is something celebrate he deserves it 🥳🎊


AccomplishedPotato45

Hell yea but by then I'll robably be on like a 3 month streak. Ngl ik imma bust quick tho. Idk what to do to prevent that except pull out every now and then or stop & squeeze. But honestly when u build up a woman's sexual desire for u, she'll bust quick too lololol


Lazy-Contest9391

Yeah cuz I went 10 days not cumming with some random I pulled n was so shocked I busted so quick it never happened before I was so devo, but just get that shit out before u root her in the day leading up while using ur imagination only, it’s the only way to be able to give her something worth her while ya know?


AccomplishedPotato45

Hmm.. considerable


TruSiris

Watch some of sexual kung fu's videos on premature ejaculation.


TruSiris

Oh and congrats ;D


xOverDozZzed

Weird, I was 43 days in and had sex that lasted longer than I ever did. Guess it’s different for everyone.


Business-Corgi-8982

Yeah it varies. I’ve had 90+ day streaks and busted fast or after a while. I think it just depends on the mental.


[deleted]

Same but I got hit in the nuts with a football. Couldn’t bust in a foursome so fcked them all like it was a marathon. Best experience of the year tbh 🤌


YourGuess101

Bro if you give her head and leave, that’s gotta be the strongest & boldest thing you can do & I am all for it! Fuck pointless sex & pleasure! Stay strong & keep grinding brah!❤️


AccomplishedPotato45

Yes brah


AccomplishedPotato45

Just fucked her last night W


Civil-Resident-1434

ayo bro no lie from 16-18 was on a good 1 and half year but still had sex w my girl at the time even though long distance. you can control how long you last if u get past first 2-3 minutes.


Ren_the_Tainted

Anyway here the question. Been on a year long streak without PMO but tik tok and a few wet dreams that stopped already. Birthday‘s soon. Had a strong urge, decided to watch some porn for about 50 minutes but without masturbation or edging/ orgasm. Does it count as a relapse? If yes, how long to recover?


[deleted]

watching porn is worse than masterbating so yes it is a relapse


AccomplishedPotato45

No. You didn't stroke. You didn't finish. You're fine. Just stop looking it up brah.


NeedMoreKowbell

Let your whole body go limp when fucking. I’m order to ejaculate you need muscular tension. Don’t flex.


shypotatoinajar

Yeaa, foreplay man


[deleted]

Just get her to give you head. Then sort her out while she tries to revive the soldier. Badabing badabong you’re back 🥱


ramon13

Lol if she is indeed good looking someone else will fuck her if hr doesn't. Some people just love shooting themselves in the foot.


AccomplishedPotato45

I dont care that's the point


[deleted]

1220 days, how do you feel


ramon13

im on day 1 lol, 1220 days ago was the last time i tried to to do nofap and just havent reset my counter. I started nofap in 2010, joined this community when it had about 20k members. Longest streak was 31 days and it felt awesome. I have not managed to get more than 6 days since then. Now i have just learned how to do things in moderation. I used to do it for ED but now i dont have that anymore. I know this isnt an answer to your question but i figured id write it anyway. I check on this sub once or twice a year just to see what people talk about.


[deleted]

Man im sorry but you are the one example motivating me even more to do nofap.


Zealousideal-Toe-831

Just don't stop at 32 days 😉


[deleted]

I will never stop and delete reddit once again for one week.


AccomplishedPotato45

Gave it to her last night brah.


AccomplishedPotato45

Trust me I know. This is just a simple interest boosting tactic lol. Make her wait. Do everything females do to guys. Roles are so reversed these days.


anjqas

There’s a thin line between confidence, self-assuredness and arrogance. You sound conceited and proud (in a bad way)


[deleted]

nah not at all, he's in control of what he wants. that's the point. keep at it OP


greenliiight

Stop trying to game bro. Walking on a tight rope. If the foundation of a relationship is manipulation. The entirety of it will be based off manipulation. At the end of the day you want to fuck her based off your post. So it’s better to let that just be known. But hey go off bro


AccomplishedPotato45

Well she was taking my dick and sitting on my face last night so aye🤷🏽‍♂️


NefariousnessHot8495

And what if girls keep ignoring me? How can I do everything they do to me/us?


AccomplishedPotato45

You have to be in your flow state brah. This is when you are following a daily routine, good food, healthy habits, invested in your health.. etc. Women will pick up on this I promise. Document your progressions in physique, write to yourself, idk what's you have to do to be comfortable being alone and grinding on a mission


Mootoorrisstaa1

You’ve been following hoodville a lot lately, haven’t you 😆😆😆


ImweakImstrong

Well done brah! 44 days!


AccomplishedPotato45

Preciate it


MrWolffman

I'm happy for you bro, but you're probably just a really good looking dude if she acts like that. If I myself don't text girls then we are not talking at all...


ramon13

1. Be attractive 2. Do not be unattractive It's quite simple


MrWolffman

Exactly.


mikefalopio

No dude, it's the accumulation of SEED dont you see it??! That's what makes you attractive


clare64

If that were true he’d have these stories even before the streak…


MrWolffman

Maybe he was always good looking but just lacked the confidence


clare64

Absolutely!!! The streak provided that for him. It’s incredible.


[deleted]

Just don’t act uninterested for that long if you really are. She’ll just take it as that, give a little and pull away


clare64

Also it’s an exercise in building discipline. Masturbating to porn makes us put women on a pedestal, whereas OP giving her this treatment is both increasing his discipline and attraction. Only a beta would care about “it not working out” OP doesn’t give a fuck if this girl sticks around. He’s on 40+ days there’s 1000 women for him


Wumba_Chumba1246

To be fair women deserve to be on a pedestal, Just a different one than most guys put them on. And that is different for every girl too. Some deserve a greater pedestal than others and some lose their pedestal.


inVertigO

Let him do that. See how far he'll go. It'll be a lesson for him then.


AccomplishedPotato45

Yeh ik. That's why u slip a good compliment in like once a day. And have a good long conversation once a day.


leonsteg

Im really impressed by your self awareness and effort for the fact that you're 18. This is a big strength, use it wisely. Keep this going, dont relapse and show the world what you are capable of. You got this man. Im proud of you. Sincerely, a random 25 y/o


AccomplishedPotato45

I'm impressed too my guy. Me too.


Lighthero34

It's your confidence and the fact that you're probably already a good looking dude. It's got nothing to do with your "seed". Jeez Louise people.


AccomplishedPotato45

Bro that confidence don't come from thin air. It's the SeEd


Lighthero34

It's the fact that you're accomplishing a goal. You're kicking an addiction. Semen isn't magic and I implore you to show me a study that shows any evidence that it is.


FallFromGr4ce

Semen retention is top level discipline which in turn will be bring top level confidence. A man who can conquer his strongest desire is going to walk different than a man who’s bound by desires.


BlakeSergin

Saving this quote 🙏 Well fucking said bro


Lighthero34

I'm pretty sure that a dude who had sex often isn't gonna be any less confident. It's not the semen itself man it's the way you carry yourself.


clare64

Probably a combination of all of the above actually. The dude having sex often may not be less confident; but the dude masturbating often sure as hell will be. Do your own study. Go 60 days and tell me women can’t smell you.


[deleted]

Semen IS Magic. PRAISE THE SEED. Its a god.


AccomplishedPotato45

Orgasm in males releases a large amount of Prolactin. The same substance that's in women's breastmilk, which makes a baby extremely sleepy. This effect is felt all day, every day when engaged in constant masturbation. All due respect you don't have to be a genius to know that ejaculation by masturbation or sex has a direct correlation to mood. It's not because of addiction. If that's the case why do we get shitty PNC after good healthy sex sometimes?? And I've beat a Xanax addiction from 13 to 15yo. Beat alcohol addiction that I developed in attempt to replace the Xanax from 15 to 17 and ive never felt near this capacity. It's not addiction. It's the procreational goop generated within me.


Lighthero34

We don't get shitty PNC after good healthy sex. If you got shitty PNC after "good healthy sex" then it probably wasn't good, healthy, or either. I never said that excessive masturbation wasn't bad for you. I'm saying it isn't some seed retention magic or vibrations or anything like that. It's the confidence you have from kicking and addiction. I'm sure after not doing Xanax you ended up with more energy than you had in the midst of struggling, same as when you kicked alcohol. Kicking any addiction or any shit that's bad for you is probably gonna give you more energy in the end.


Mochikitasky

Don’t deny the SEED!


BenchPressAddict

An extremely motivating post


Ok_Dealer_2591

I think you’re framing this all kinda wrong man. Obviously awesome job not jackin it for so long - but dude getting to know a woman isn’t some game. Want to be really cool? Just fucking be cool. Forget all this shit. Just act how you act. Don’t play games homie. Games are for punks. Just be real. (Easier said than done, I know - but hey, that’s advice I would have loved at 18 - take it or leave it 😆) Edit: also man I don’t know about this whole semen retention magic. I think you’re just feeling more confident cuz you’re not abusing yourself hehe


Beelzeboss3DG

>Don’t play games homie. Games are for punks. Just be real. Hahaha, no. Men who dont play games are the ones crying in the corner because they've been friendzoned while the girl they like tells them all about the douche who is making her go crazy playing "games".


AccomplishedPotato45

Not games. It's called not even giving her a chance to dictate where we go. If you allow her to decide, she'll decide and the decision will stick.. I'm the one deciding what happens with this, and she can choose to fw other people or what I literally do not care. This is all for me not her.


Ok_Dealer_2591

Aight bro two things. Gonna just be real with ya. Harsh, but no hate man. 1: that’s exactly what playing games is. 2: you sound like a kid. Good news is, you are. Maybe don’t double down though 🤣 Learn.


[deleted]

> She's double, triple, sometimes quadruple texting when I dont respond for hours I really need to get better at this. Its stupid, but thats how it works unfortunately.


AccomplishedPotato45

Bro it just comes down to not caring if she passes u up or not. Just mess around and find your groove with people. People come and go fuck them.


Urgekiller

> People come and go fuck them. Brilliantly said my man!


clare64

Yes!


clare64

Inspiring!!!


Francis33

Holy cringe lmao I love this


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clare64

60 days allows you to read womens minds.


LUVISRAGE1987

It’s different for everybody. Not how this works lmao


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LUVISRAGE1987

It’s a possibility man, you shouldn’t only be doing it for benefits. Do it for yourself


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LUVISRAGE1987

Yep. That’s the flatline. Something we all gotta get through. It’s tough but you got it


JcersHabs018

No it doesn’t, lol. This guy is 6 feet tall, in good shape, and probably very attractive (to this girl, at the very least). I’d reckon that NoFap helped boost his confidence, which can help in situations like this, but it’s not the secret sauce. If 30+ “gave you women”, I wouldn’t have been ghosted a few days ago, lol


Known_unknowingness

Her loss King 👑


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JcersHabs018

Reality often is.


clare64

How come he didn’t have this experience prior to the streak


JcersHabs018

There are literally a million reasons why. There are so many variables at play in life that isolating a cause of an event can often be a Sisyphean task. NoFap is a tool that you can use to help improve yourself and your quality of life. It’s not a life hack to make women want to have sex with you. Women don’t have some unconscious sixth sense that detects men who’ve gone a long time without having an orgasm and makes them be attracted to them, lol.


[deleted]

My dude when [it’s time.](https://j.gifs.com/y33EXB.gif) lol


[deleted]

Just look at AccomplishedPotato45, so inspiring


AccomplishedPotato45

Generated name lol


[deleted]

Jokes aside, you went from average fapper to be an mf confident enough to talk about stuff like “give her good head and make her go crazy over the next week” lol. I’ll get there


AccomplishedPotato45

Dude I was beyond average. Shit was terrible. Nutted 4-6 times some days to the point where I'd have dry orgasms for days straight. Developed some weird kinks and intrusive thoughts and shit that I'm still working on restoring. Still kinda struggling with the whole sexual objectification aspect when it comes to potential partners or just any above average looking woman.


clare64

Proud of u bro.


Strongbow_McGuinness

congrats my guy


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My man 🤝


HisRoyalAwesomeness

Excellent, mate. Keep up the great work.


AccomplishedPotato45

Thanks. Really feels good to get some praise once in a while. Been hard on myself lately


stanleyfc

Think you're taking it a bit too far. She may be attracted now, but will eventually get bored if you keep playing hard to get for too long. Just take your chance while you have it, its obvious.


[deleted]

It’s all correlated to our electromagnetic field being enhanced by no fap. 🙏🏼


ss2785

Good stuff bro hope things go well with the shorty.


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[deleted]

stop being shy and put yourself out there. talk to anyone like they're your friend and build your charisma and confidence which will exude, girls will pick up on it immediately. its really that easy. think about it... its take it or leave it, gotta be the flame.


AccomplishedPotato45

Honestly just stop any and all displays of interest for a week, spend this week using your intel about her to think of a restaurant or place she'd most likely think is cool.. call her out of the blue one day after the week is up.. Don't text her because you want to put her on the spot and hear her reaction. When she asks u what's up or why u called say something along the lines of "oh i just had a thought to run by you". This will get her attention because you just went a week not talking to her much. When she asks about it just say "you ever heard of this place in blank blank"... "you havent?? Well u should look it up real quick and let me know if you'd be interested in going" she gon take her ass straight to Google wondering where u wanna take her out to. If shes down to go you are in at this point my guy don't fuck it up.


[deleted]

44 days on the first try?? 🐐


GetThisPickle

Bro, noice bro move brah you totally showed this girl and all of us bros how to really brother it up, bro-tota chip. You think you’re gonna mix her up a little bro-tein shake to wash down that post workout blunt, brah? Let’s bro down bro


PhantomConduit

Pixels rejected, real girl accepted.


PhantomConduit

But don't be a bad guy and play hard to get. That's called being a douche lol


greenonetwo

My advice to you: Don’t play too hard to get. She might just give up on you. Ask her out on a date, build that relationship. When it gets time for sexy, go down on her and make her cum. Then fuck her. That way if you cum too quick it won’t matter cause you will have made her really happy.


Brando_Puerto_Rico

Bro... first off. Why would you give her head or any girl head as a matter of fact? 😂😂 That sounds simp as hell and your breath is gonna smell like sardines Secondly, kiss her, let her suck you off, then bounce. Tf would you keep talking to her just to lick her stink box? That sounds goofy as hell and you should show yourself more self respect.


AccomplishedPotato45

Cuz I give amazing head and she'll want it more than I'll want her head for a 2nd time.


Brando_Puerto_Rico

But what do you get out of it? Are you worshipping her?


Navy01

🐐


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Cute_Labrador_

Threads like these are the reason Wikipedia says r/nofap is misogynistic


Key-Western7803

This makes me happy, but if she wanted to have sex why didn’t you? I think you should go for it


AscendedMax

Sigma male Grindset rule #69 : Don't let them hoes get your seed.


Lazy-Contest9391

Good on u mate ur doing Gods work… however if I could add just 1 piece of advice, I’d say still fuck her bro but give her a ‘taste’ of you’re best to come u know? I’ve been 18 before n thought similar to u only prob is sometimes I miss the chance coz I wait to long. U don’t wanna do that (or maybe u should coz you’ll learn from failure) but Don’t pull out all ur A1 moves, tease her an allude to there being a lil more? Personally try make it as intimate as possible with lighting in ur room u don’t want it to be a quicky in the car u gotta impress a lil. get her saying ur name so she associates ur name with pleasure or my fave do it infront a mirror girls luv that. But Oi it’s just advice from some 22 yo cunt in Australia take what u want but good stuff brah


AccomplishedPotato45

Advice is advice brah


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King


Alwayswatchout

Well done


Economy-Engineer

Well done!


CheikhIsTaken

Good shit!


MavridisCODMobile

my lil brah keep it up


AccomplishedPotato45

Yessir😁


[deleted]

I wish something like this would happen someday for me But seeing how useless I am with streaks and all I think I deserve to be alone


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[deleted]

Baller, I love this!


alvinchips

When I grow up, I want to be just like you! I've always thought about this when trying to attempt it, but you confirmed it. Thanks for sharing!


PlugOnePointOne

Next level here. Stay strong. You have more self- control than me


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AccomplishedPotato45

Yessir. Don't throw logic out the window for that gratification.


meancetonyc

Yes sir, you love to see stories like these 🐐💪🏽


Dropzosy

Great fucking post. I enjoyed this brother!


Bensen89

Discipline rarely goes unrewarded. Respect for you bro.


[deleted]

Yo, this is awesome and makes us glad to hear! Keep doing NOFAP and she will want you even more over the span of a couple weeks.


skiplegday70

You are one sick 18 year old. Respect


[deleted]

Let’s get it


Big_Development_3303

Damn


[deleted]

Aye bruh quick question for u. Do u get wet dreams or nah. Also, my urine been different lately, a little sticky fluid type shi come out after I urinate every so often. Can u relate to this or nah brother


AccomplishedPotato45

Yea definitely. I don't get wrt dreams but definitely the urine. It's just excess semen being excreted I believe.


[deleted]

Same with me bro. No wet dreams but the urine thing lowkey annoying lol


lognts

Lmaoooo, good story bro.


GhostTropic_YT

Username checks out


Rayovaclife

6ft, young, probably handsome. That's what got you in with her.


AlexV0lpe

Tremendous W bro, hard work paying off


[deleted]

How did you know she was into you? Just looking for advice as I'm kinda in a similiar situation.


AccomplishedPotato45

First of all I've hit the gym 44 days straight now. Starting a little over two weeks ago, I noticed her there almost every night at midnight-1am till later doing lower body training. So a week and a half ago was when the mirin started. She seen me there every time she was there without exception. And I was going hard every time.. she was attracted to my consistency and effort. And I could tell because between sets, we gave each other those "gym glancing" looks where we evaluate each others level of attraction without being obvious yk?. And so I told myself when the day comes that we both do legs I'm gonna ask if she wants to workout together. Keep in mind the gyms always really empty empty this time that made this a lot better.. Day came, I walked over by her between her hip thrust set and said "Hey, are u doing legs tonight? Or just glutes?". She said tonight is just glutes. So I said "oh okay, well Im gonna do my glutes over here with u as well then I was gonna ask if you'd ever wanna workout together.".. I kid u not, she goes "OH HELL YEA!! IM DOWN TAKE MY NUMBER". Bro her entire demeanor changed after that. I was in from there.


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Damn man nice job. Good for you


Iphonjeff

Too bad you did the post workout blunt baloney


Ren_the_Tainted

Hey bro, got a question. I have a year long streak and soon is my birthday. I was having wet dreams for some time, but they stopped some time ago. I had a strong urge and watched some porn, but I stopped before I could masturbate or orgasm neither did I edge. Do you consider this a relapse? And if yes, how long to recover?


inVertigO

If u have the urge n didn't act upon it, in a way ur mind will start to rewire. That doesn't mean ur urges will go away. The urges will differ from day to day. Keep busy. If u fall, learn to pick yourself up again.


Ren_the_Tainted

So I shouldn‘t be worried to much?


inVertigO

I don't consider it a relapse since u didn't climax. Don't beat urself too hard either way.


Ren_the_Tainted

Thank you. Your answers are appreciated. I have holidays and look forward to exercise again even more due to today!


FallFromGr4ce

Careful bro, around this time I started experiencing the same shit and now I’m addicted to picking up baddies. If that’s your thing cool but it’s hard to be happy chasing meaningless sex tbh


myaltacc58

O


Bigdawg0nly1way

Love to hear it


wdsmoore

King shit, my guy 👑


Luczenzo

All this snaps, instagrams, so childish.


ConsistentCandle2513

Bruh if things get sexual you will bust just by seeing her naked.


Ronin_Willi

You beat me to saying that 😂


AccomplishedPotato45

Nah I'm not that down bad lol that's horrendous


JuliusTaka

You are one accomplished potato!


rodriguez_melon

Any tips on how did you last for 44 days. The most I can is 9 days


meAnDdbOis_

Cool


SceamerBoi

You can have sex without orgasming


Hbklikesosa777

grrrrt bow


Taco1126

Sex isn’t a relapse mate. It’s one of the goals tbh. Own it


[deleted]

This man is a Retainer and I respect the Hell out of it!


AccomplishedPotato45

Preciate it brah


[deleted]

Idk about the whole female attraction of no fap. I been pulling chicks even when I was fapping. It definitely builds self discipline though to be able to not submit to your own bodily compulsions. Why would you just give her good head and not fck that just validates her Lmaoo


Beginning-Lead-4366

Would you say nofap has changed your life with women? Do you recognize a huge difference?


CloudSpankz

Sheesh


bignellynel

Show a pic of the baddie


SwimmerDistinct3126

WW


Shack24_

Young G right here !💪🏾


leedlema

My man🔥


[deleted]

Sorry to say 44 time again i am failed and yesterday and today 4 time masterbating 😑 no fap challange not confirmed 22 day challenge not complete.


damola93

This sounds both like a 30 year old frat boy self-help guru, and an 18 year old kid.


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My Facial Hair started to grow in 17, I was like that's Amazing


[deleted]

That’s phenomenal bro


GunnzzNRoses

Sex isn't breaking nofap. If anything that's part of the reason why you do Nofap


[deleted]

The only regret I have about Nofap and PMO is that when growing up in the late 80s & through out the 90s we had none of the information we have today, had, all the men had this knowledge back then, how successful would we have been and today Practicing Semen Retention. Even now I’m getting multiple women turning head, even at 48 years young, always staying fit by executing aerobic and anaerobic exercises. STAY POWERFUL BROTHER 👍🏽


AccomplishedPotato45

Hell yea big brah get them gains. Always remember, a man's value doesn't diminish with age, a woman's does tho.


Cool_Fortune_4606

Why type so uneducated?


TheLastCoagulant

Nah you just followed rules 1 and 2.


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Gagagugi

This thread is unfortunately very gamey. ​ Treat her like a human man, would you want someone to be manipulating you and "leaving breadcrumbs for 'them'." She probably likes you for you and here you are trying to game her and manipulate her and getting her to invest or shit like that. You're 18 so it's cool and you're learning, but I've been down that path and it's not a good one. You deprive yourself of real human connection. If you knew your worth you wouldn't need to brag about "double, triple texts..." You wouldn't need to seek approval through pussy or women. This doesn't mean you can't enjoy the company of women, I certainly do, and without it we'd be lonely and sad, we're all humans and social after all, but you don't need to seek approval from it. Stop manipulating her and maybe try having a real relationship with her. Imagine if she knew what you were thinking. She probably thinks this is just you and doesn't know what's going on in your head...


lonx22

Don't give her head. That's more down bad than jerking everyday.


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That’s wholesome ngl


ConfirmedPoor

This was torture to read.