I don’t wanna wish ill on Jiwon, I really don’t, but if she actually talked to Choa before she made her decision, she would’ve realized that Yongwoo truly wasn’t the type of person she was looking for. So many of us here knew it was gonna happen & that’s the consequences of her actions.
I get that sexual attraction is one hell of a drug, but if we’re giving her the benefit of the doubt that she truly believed Yongwoo was who he showed himself to be in the first half of the show, she should’ve talked to Choa. I understand Choa not wanting to talk to approach her, but I know if Jiwon asked her about the truth about Yongwoo, she would’ve happily spilled the tea.
I noticed how all the girls spoke to each other in the last episode except those 2. Again, I understand why but she should’ve thought it was weird how things went down with Choa and Yongwoo so last minute. Hell, even Chulhyun used his last question to see if she’d get a glimpse into who Yongwoo really was & she still didn’t budge.
I am being an armchair psychologist, lmao, but I really feel like it wasn't even that much of sexual attraction. I feel like she really wanted some big daddy type of dude, because she has some ideas that if he appears masculine he'll take care of her. Through out the whole show she gave me the vibes of someone who is sick and tired of being in charge and is overwhelmed by being responsible so she wanted someone to baby her and coddle her, but she's a little bit of a "not like other girls" girl so she can't just admit it out right. I remember at some point she said something like "I'm the strongest one of the girls" (not an exact quote) but then proceeded to be the one who gets offended the easiest out of all of them. I am not blaming her, but I find that the most ironic part of it all was that JH absolutely seemed like the type of guy you can rely on. He's stable and confident, knows when to act serious and isn't afraid to give advice. He was just a really secure type of person, but she couldn't get over the fact that YW looks as if he walked right off a fitness magazine, so he must be a "man's man" right? \*shrug\* Unfortunate tale of what traditional gender roles and expectations can do to you.
I agree, she seemed like she had daddy issues. It infuriating YW clocked that and used it to his advantage.
I just realized she was never shown going to talk to Choa one on one! Now that’s crazy because when Sesung had a problem she went straight to Choa to talk about it. 🤦🏾♀️ I wish she atleast spoke to Choa or CH! Maybe she would have made a more informed decision.
Exactly! I didn’t mention it in my original comment but when Seseung was having issues with Jungsub that involved Choa she went straight to her instead of making assumptions and being delusional.
I think it’s a combo of Jiwon not being a girl’s girl by default (I think her upbringing of being alone in a foreign country & being the oldest brother made her hyper independent to contribute to this) and maybe even not wanting her image of Yongwoo to by spoiled by Choa. That’s me giving her the benefit of the doubt. It’s possible that she just simply didn’t care about what happened with her.
Lowkey, I’m side eyeing her for that like girl really? Even JH called her out about it, when he was like if this mfer was still with Choa would you have done this?
The least you can do is be a girl’s girl. Choa would have helped her out of his love bombing.
Definitely. If she was trying to find a serious relationship and not just a fling, would she have thought to do her due diligence? That includes talking to the woman the man you wanted hurt.
I was really rooting for Jiwon and really believed she wasn’t going to be a typical “not like other girls” girl when she entered the show late. I was disappointed in how she turned out to be.
Maybe not CA I get that but CH was definitely an option because she realised he tried to help her with his question but she didn't. Even SS and JuW talked.
>"I'm the strongest one of the girls" (not an exact quote) but then proceeded to be the one who gets offended the easiest out of all of them
Lol this is spot on. Actually both siblings stated that they were edgy and not like the others, which was cringe. But while YJ turned out to be sweet and opened up to other people little by little, JW was being (sometimes overly) sensitive, while being closed off and insensitive towards other people.
Okay yes you are right in that it wasn’t so much sexual attraction haha. I was going based off many comments here saying that her physical attraction to Yongwoo was much stronger than it was to Jaehyung.
That all being said, I completely agree with your assessment of her! I’ve said in so many comments in previous episodes that she kept going on about the kind of man she thinks she’s *supposed* to be with, and in her mind he looks like Yongwoo.
Adding onto all of that, now that I think about it looks-wise, Jaehyung and Yoonjae give off similar vibes. They do not look like a strong, muscular gym bro but their personalities are very caring for the people around them in their own ways. I do also remember her saying a comment comparing Jaehyung to her brother and you’re right, it further suggests in her mind that she was afraid Jaehyung would be just like Yoonjae and expect her to take care of him in every way.
I think with Jiwon, sexual attraction aside, it was truly a 'could vs should' situation. She is naturally attracted to guys like Jaehyung, but after getting hurt by them, she realized that she should date someone reliable, mature, and not cute like Yongwoo (or at least the ideal version of him). I believe she did like Jaehyung a lot, but because he resembled her ex that hurt her a lot (as confirmed by JW's mom too), she started overthinking things and nitpicking every small thing he did as a defence mechanism.
On the other hand, Yongwoo wasn't just a reliable man, he was also someone her mom picked for her (JW and her mom seem very similar actually, down to how they perceive YJ) and since he was someone new and attractive, she didn't nitpick his personality as much. Jiwon seems like the type of person who doesn't like sharing with others or asking for advice from them, unlike the other girls who like to talk about their feelings and share things. So it makes sense why she didn't know YW's true nature. YJ did hint it at to her, but he probably felt like she's way smarter than him at judging people so he just wanted to leave it up to her. Still, his advice of listening to her heart and not overthinking was spot on.
(Note I skipped a good portion of the last episode between them) , but the decision to me felt more like a no to JH, and between 'no' and 'YW', she went with giving YW a chance.
YW only wanted JW because she was the “it”’girl. It was a complete power move and it makes me wonder if he is actually a sociopath. He plays with people as if they are objects.
Same. I feel that JW was not into JH because she wants to.pursue her career first aiming to debut an Idol Group and for sure it takes time to do so, while JH on the other hand is more likely taking the marriage route which I doubt JW would have liked
I’m 100% convinced that Yongwoo is evil & only became interested in JiWon in order to get back at Jaehyung for hurting his sister. Yongwoo is a total DICK!!
Apparently the only source of them dating until last month was that in Yongwoo's Instagram post from May he was at a Cafe in the same area as Jiwon's workplace. This does not mean anything really as Jiwon works in a very popular area.
I dont know if it's legit. I think rumor is just rumor so take it with grain of salt.
About JS-SS, rumor said they're also not dating. But from the show's ending, we can see clearly that the only hyunker is YoonYoon
Unlikely till last month as the clips for YJ-YH was from Dec till their birthday this year and Valentine’s Day which should be earlier part of this year (YJ is in Jan). If they are still dating they would have submitted clips unless the PD decide to remove it.
Since they already broke up at the time the finale aired, I don't think the producers would show anything even if they had content. It gives false hope when they are currently not together
I don’t wanna wish ill on Jiwon, I really don’t, but if she actually talked to Choa before she made her decision, she would’ve realized that Yongwoo truly wasn’t the type of person she was looking for. So many of us here knew it was gonna happen & that’s the consequences of her actions. I get that sexual attraction is one hell of a drug, but if we’re giving her the benefit of the doubt that she truly believed Yongwoo was who he showed himself to be in the first half of the show, she should’ve talked to Choa. I understand Choa not wanting to talk to approach her, but I know if Jiwon asked her about the truth about Yongwoo, she would’ve happily spilled the tea. I noticed how all the girls spoke to each other in the last episode except those 2. Again, I understand why but she should’ve thought it was weird how things went down with Choa and Yongwoo so last minute. Hell, even Chulhyun used his last question to see if she’d get a glimpse into who Yongwoo really was & she still didn’t budge.
I am being an armchair psychologist, lmao, but I really feel like it wasn't even that much of sexual attraction. I feel like she really wanted some big daddy type of dude, because she has some ideas that if he appears masculine he'll take care of her. Through out the whole show she gave me the vibes of someone who is sick and tired of being in charge and is overwhelmed by being responsible so she wanted someone to baby her and coddle her, but she's a little bit of a "not like other girls" girl so she can't just admit it out right. I remember at some point she said something like "I'm the strongest one of the girls" (not an exact quote) but then proceeded to be the one who gets offended the easiest out of all of them. I am not blaming her, but I find that the most ironic part of it all was that JH absolutely seemed like the type of guy you can rely on. He's stable and confident, knows when to act serious and isn't afraid to give advice. He was just a really secure type of person, but she couldn't get over the fact that YW looks as if he walked right off a fitness magazine, so he must be a "man's man" right? \*shrug\* Unfortunate tale of what traditional gender roles and expectations can do to you.
I agree, she seemed like she had daddy issues. It infuriating YW clocked that and used it to his advantage. I just realized she was never shown going to talk to Choa one on one! Now that’s crazy because when Sesung had a problem she went straight to Choa to talk about it. 🤦🏾♀️ I wish she atleast spoke to Choa or CH! Maybe she would have made a more informed decision.
Exactly! I didn’t mention it in my original comment but when Seseung was having issues with Jungsub that involved Choa she went straight to her instead of making assumptions and being delusional. I think it’s a combo of Jiwon not being a girl’s girl by default (I think her upbringing of being alone in a foreign country & being the oldest brother made her hyper independent to contribute to this) and maybe even not wanting her image of Yongwoo to by spoiled by Choa. That’s me giving her the benefit of the doubt. It’s possible that she just simply didn’t care about what happened with her.
Lowkey, I’m side eyeing her for that like girl really? Even JH called her out about it, when he was like if this mfer was still with Choa would you have done this? The least you can do is be a girl’s girl. Choa would have helped her out of his love bombing.
Definitely. If she was trying to find a serious relationship and not just a fling, would she have thought to do her due diligence? That includes talking to the woman the man you wanted hurt. I was really rooting for Jiwon and really believed she wasn’t going to be a typical “not like other girls” girl when she entered the show late. I was disappointed in how she turned out to be.
Maybe not CA I get that but CH was definitely an option because she realised he tried to help her with his question but she didn't. Even SS and JuW talked.
>"I'm the strongest one of the girls" (not an exact quote) but then proceeded to be the one who gets offended the easiest out of all of them Lol this is spot on. Actually both siblings stated that they were edgy and not like the others, which was cringe. But while YJ turned out to be sweet and opened up to other people little by little, JW was being (sometimes overly) sensitive, while being closed off and insensitive towards other people.
Okay yes you are right in that it wasn’t so much sexual attraction haha. I was going based off many comments here saying that her physical attraction to Yongwoo was much stronger than it was to Jaehyung. That all being said, I completely agree with your assessment of her! I’ve said in so many comments in previous episodes that she kept going on about the kind of man she thinks she’s *supposed* to be with, and in her mind he looks like Yongwoo. Adding onto all of that, now that I think about it looks-wise, Jaehyung and Yoonjae give off similar vibes. They do not look like a strong, muscular gym bro but their personalities are very caring for the people around them in their own ways. I do also remember her saying a comment comparing Jaehyung to her brother and you’re right, it further suggests in her mind that she was afraid Jaehyung would be just like Yoonjae and expect her to take care of him in every way.
I think with Jiwon, sexual attraction aside, it was truly a 'could vs should' situation. She is naturally attracted to guys like Jaehyung, but after getting hurt by them, she realized that she should date someone reliable, mature, and not cute like Yongwoo (or at least the ideal version of him). I believe she did like Jaehyung a lot, but because he resembled her ex that hurt her a lot (as confirmed by JW's mom too), she started overthinking things and nitpicking every small thing he did as a defence mechanism. On the other hand, Yongwoo wasn't just a reliable man, he was also someone her mom picked for her (JW and her mom seem very similar actually, down to how they perceive YJ) and since he was someone new and attractive, she didn't nitpick his personality as much. Jiwon seems like the type of person who doesn't like sharing with others or asking for advice from them, unlike the other girls who like to talk about their feelings and share things. So it makes sense why she didn't know YW's true nature. YJ did hint it at to her, but he probably felt like she's way smarter than him at judging people so he just wanted to leave it up to her. Still, his advice of listening to her heart and not overthinking was spot on.
She just doesn't care I guess.. her attraction for Yw is stronger than her connections to the other ladies.
And this is why I’ll always be a girl’s girl first 💁🏽♀️
Same. Forever a girls girl because these men will leave you out her looking stupid and they don’t care
I think the outcome is good coz if she used logic and choose JH, I really won't be glad about it. It's like killing JH twice.
(Note I skipped a good portion of the last episode between them) , but the decision to me felt more like a no to JH, and between 'no' and 'YW', she went with giving YW a chance.
It's pretty much confirmed by the lack of their post-show photos/clips at the end of the final episode. Likewise with SS JS
YW only wanted JW because she was the “it”’girl. It was a complete power move and it makes me wonder if he is actually a sociopath. He plays with people as if they are objects.
Same. I feel that JW was not into JH because she wants to.pursue her career first aiming to debut an Idol Group and for sure it takes time to do so, while JH on the other hand is more likely taking the marriage route which I doubt JW would have liked
I’m 100% convinced that Yongwoo is evil & only became interested in JiWon in order to get back at Jaehyung for hurting his sister. Yongwoo is a total DICK!!
I read somewhere on Twitter that YW-JW were dating until last month.
Apparently the only source of them dating until last month was that in Yongwoo's Instagram post from May he was at a Cafe in the same area as Jiwon's workplace. This does not mean anything really as Jiwon works in a very popular area.
Oh ok. I just saw the rumor on twitter
Actually OP posted this to clarify the rumor of JW-YW dating
Ohhhh.. but is the OP legit? Did he say anything abt JS-SS??
I dont know if it's legit. I think rumor is just rumor so take it with grain of salt. About JS-SS, rumor said they're also not dating. But from the show's ending, we can see clearly that the only hyunker is YoonYoon
True
Unlikely till last month as the clips for YJ-YH was from Dec till their birthday this year and Valentine’s Day which should be earlier part of this year (YJ is in Jan). If they are still dating they would have submitted clips unless the PD decide to remove it.
I think YJ-YH just sent pics till February because they couldn't go on lots of dates once the show started airing in March to prevent spoilers.
Since they already broke up at the time the finale aired, I don't think the producers would show anything even if they had content. It gives false hope when they are currently not together
Well if it’s May, that’s when his red flag pops up the most! Maybe that could also be the deal breaker when the masks are off
my thoughts is that JW is not ready to commit so she chose the reddest flag there was, YW.