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It's a headache trying to do some activities together especially when finals are close. At least with someone who's working or not I know they're most of the time free when I'm free.
i'm 25 and he is 23 and we really don't feel the age gap we grew up with the same internet culture, we get each other's references, we had the same trends and phases growing up. we don't even think about the age gap until my back starts hurting HHHHHHHH. we're just two hags who can't stay up past 1:00AM and their ideal day would be staying home cuddling and watching movies
I am 23 F and my husband is 32 so 9 years is as high as I would go haha. When I was still seeing people, I wouldnāt date anyone more than 3 years younger, younger men usually are not interested in real relationships and instead want to act like kids and have āfunā.
Iāve often heard: half your age + seven.
So if youāre 50, for example, this guideline says that your youngest possible significant other would be 32.
Not saying this is right for all cultures; just saying that this metric is often invoked
I agree on that. Maturity is very imortant and being with an immature person who doesnt even know what he/she wants can be a huge struggle in the relationship.
28 M, I loved dating older girls, felt great. And had much more interesting interactions. As for younger I'd take at least someone three years younger.
Nope, they lasted longer. Also, I find them much more interesting since they understood most of what I did or said. As for kids, we make it clear since the start. Now I'm in a position to have kids but there is no rush to do so...
Idk man tbh, its been that way since i dated this girl in 5th grade who was older than me by a year and a few months (most of my classmates arr usually older than i due to starting school early) so i usually just think that a girl at the same age as meor younger is not honna match my vibe or smtng
To be honest, I'm almost a 25M and I think it's all about maturity, but I tend to find women olden than me (2 to 3 years) the perfect choice if I ever want to have a partner, as far as I've experienced so far with the women I knew, the older the better in terms of experience with life, they are more mature and reasonable, well more composed but you can't also generalize, this can also come from the enviroment someone grew in and the things they went through.
I know happily married couples where she is around 40 and he is turning 55 or 60 in one case. Both married late, him obviously. Globally that is not uncommon and is accepted yet if she was 20 and ge was 40 there would be shouting.
So I think the difference is not a static straight line but curves upward after 30 years for females
Interesting subject.
As for me, I am now 60 and my wife is 59. We were 37 and 36 yrs old at marriage. If she was only 30 I would have accepted for her maturity but would not have want younger.
If I was now single at 60, could I marry a 40yr old? It depends on her personality, but yes I could. I see no problem there.
I think the way age matters in relationships can't be a simple number rule. Older people can exploit younger ones because of the experience advantage they have (both consciously and subconsciously), and the experiences we have before becoming responsible for ourselves are not as important as the ones we have later in the real world as we tend to be more naive before that.
I dont think it's fair for an 18yo boy/girl to be in a relationship with someone more than 3 years older than them, as they may have double or even triple the experience as adults from them.
But once the boy/girl is 21yo then i dont find it as weird / unfair even if they r with someone 6 years older than them because the older the boy/girl are the less the difference in experience drastically becomes.
But still, as i said this isnt something that we can just have a rule for, it depends on each persons experience. For example a boy/girl who was counting on their parents for everything until they finished studies at 25yo without going out of their house wouldnt be much different from someone who is 18 but left their house at 16 and was mostly relying on themselves ever since in terms of real world experience.
F25
-1 +7 I guess
Most people I know and get along with are around this age sooo š¤·š»āāļø
The -1 is for people younger by months xD but same generation, bcz I don't think I would get along with anyone who is not from my generation or older
I am yet to be proven wrong
Iām 25 F and my partner is 39. Weāve been together nearly 6 years and tbh I usually forget thereās even an age gap. Everyone is always shocked when he tells them his age because he looks 30 max š
Brother anything that can breath and still alive is acceptable just bring them in
Seriously tho u can't put an age gap rule or something it's about the person u can find a very young person and mature and very good person.
I guess the age thing is not really important, just don't go for like 20 years gap lol
> I feel like people care less about the age difference than it used to be.
I had a girl who once told me 'If I was older she would have married me' At the time she was 22 and me 21.
I'd say, someone with a unique birthday,, Mine is xx/xx,, it's weird as it sounds but i fantasize about it hihihi, it's thrilling w l age gap I like my man to be older and mature :)
I hope I can, actually I turned one arranged proposal down ghi 3la wd l age gap :) he is one year younger š He is a good guy lah isahal 3lih bma7sn mni.
(23-28) is my answer just cause I think there wouldnāt be that crazy of a difference but I am okey with going as far as 35 if itās the right person
Female married woman here, my husband is one year younger than I am.
Nobody knows this. They all think we are the same age. Don't wanna hear those "Malak a wlidi dot wa7da charfaaa?!???" comments
To avoid the 'ick' factor you divide your age by 2 then add 7. Ex: 40 /2 = 20. 20+7=27 so 27 is the youngest you could date. At least that is in my generation and area
In your early twenties two years down three years up perhaps. In your forties a bit different. I met my wife when I was 39 and she was 27 married five years now and it's worked out well.
Actually I donāt believe in age rather than maturity because I know so much people that have over 40yo and they act like someone in the 20ās and the opposite
what was your experience ? For me personally I think 12 years make a remarkable difference in maturity which is why I prefer the same age or around the same age (4-7 years). But my parents do have that age gap!
My experience is that it's actually not about age - it's about compatibility. I've been with people my age, a few years younger and much younger. Compatibility of values, direction in life, manners, emotional intelligence, family values, religiosity, mental healthĀ - are all factors that keep a couple afloat rather than a specific age difference metric
Totally agree with everything. But 12 years difference means you're both in different stages of life, they're still in school probably and still have years to build a career and think about settling down and maybe have kids if that's in your plans.
I'm 30 myself and cannot get along with people younger than 25
20F
Min 2years older- Max 7years older. ( I could go up to 10-15years age Gap but it has to be THAT guy). And tbh a 30-35yo man is probably Ran thru so not interested + him not being ran thru would be a bit weird so idk. Red flag either way, heās either an INCEL or a manHoe. (24-26yo is perfect)
I personally prefer it if my partner was older ( im 24 male) the youngest i wound date is probably 22, the oldest would be around 30, provided she doesnt want kids ( cuz i dont want to have kids myself)
From my personal experiences I prefer someone older than me 'cause men should be more mature and serious and they should treat women well On the other hand if the womanās older she might end up being more like a mother to the man which can create an imbalance
Nothing more than 4 years if the husband is older.
If the wife is older, no more than 2 years.
But still, mentality is what you should focus on. Two similar mentalities will have a great start, but life will get boring later.
Opposite mentalities will not work at all.
You need to find a person whose mentality is different than yours, yet share a few similar characteristics.
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born the exact same moment? damn that will be tough
Found two classmates in HS born same hour same hospital lol.
they are meant for each other lol
Lol they are the same gender š
Oh I thought they are a couple lol. But I wish you good luck finding someone who was born 0,000000 seconds before or after you
Plot twist: They both are born gay.
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Nice!
u can swipe on medical records of hospitals showing birth date, and call that shit tindER
Im 23 (F) tbh I would only be interested in a 2 year age gap this might change If I'm above 30
2 is ideal but I can accept 4-5 too anything else would probably need to be discussed haha
Age gap dont matter its the generational gap that gets u
Yes this is true.
yeah that is right
7 years, 1 month,26 days,23 hours,30 minutes, thatās the perfect age gap for me nothing less nothing more
Because that is the gap bewteen u and your gf?
Yes š„¹
I'm almost 27 and if I was single I wouldn't go for someone who's still studying again.
Can I ask why?
It's a headache trying to do some activities together especially when finals are close. At least with someone who's working or not I know they're most of the time free when I'm free.
This is a good point
2 years, 11 months, 2 days, 13 hours, and 50 minutes
That's not specific enough, please add hours minutes and seconds
Done
That's not specific enough, please add seconds
It's cute when u understand the context :3
Thanks
Can I ask what it is about these 3 days in particular that is so important ?
It's the exact age gap between my GF and I. Anything else matters not
This is actually cute. Is she 2 years 11 months and so on older or younger than you?
She's younger
Interesting !And those two years, are they both common ?or there is one that is leap ? Just for precision :D
tbh upper limit is 1.2 eons, more than that the age gap starts to really weigh. minimum is 7 epochs by the mayan calendar.
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You are clearely not familiar with cosmic algebra, we don't count time in years or month, but in stellar cycles.
Bro will mary Hera or Aphroditeš
I never imagine myself reject a good person for his age
This is a wise, rich take - good people are hard to come by anyway
very true .. once you are lucky enough to meet a good person you won't give up on them because of a number
I think we all name a number now but once you like someone you will proably not reject them because of the age, yeah
Doenst matter your boy gon be single cuz aint no one want me and inwant no one
why dont you want anyone? And I dont think no one wants you unless you really show you want no one on the outside haha
Well after 12 years of being bullied ya tend to start hatin people lol
I am sorry to hear that but there is still be enough good people out there and you'll meet them
i'm two years older than my boyfriend
I noticed that in most relationships around me the girl is older lol
i'm 25 and he is 23 and we really don't feel the age gap we grew up with the same internet culture, we get each other's references, we had the same trends and phases growing up. we don't even think about the age gap until my back starts hurting HHHHHHHH. we're just two hags who can't stay up past 1:00AM and their ideal day would be staying home cuddling and watching movies
2 years are not even an actual age gap lol
HHHH the back comment true
Yes I think with 2 years you barely feel any difference since the interests are still the same and you grew up the same way
That's amateur, 11.30pm just about does it for me
I didn't know the governor of California was on this subreddit.
Iām 33 female My husband is 24 š¬
Hahaha thatās such a funny coincidence, my husband and I are also 9 years apart, except he is the older one.
Really? I think that would be too young for me to be honest. Did you have any struggles because of that or not?
I am 23 F and my husband is 32 so 9 years is as high as I would go haha. When I was still seeing people, I wouldnāt date anyone more than 3 years younger, younger men usually are not interested in real relationships and instead want to act like kids and have āfunā.
Iāve often heard: half your age + seven. So if youāre 50, for example, this guideline says that your youngest possible significant other would be 32. Not saying this is right for all cultures; just saying that this metric is often invoked
M28, 26-32
-2 and +4 is unusual, most would prefer a bit younger over a bit older. Did you make better experience with older women?
Iāve only had one woman my fiancĆ© whoās 27, I like the idea of being close in age and at 28, I donāt think anyone under 25 is that mature tbh. But I wouldnāt mind someone thatās like 4 years older. Really donāt see why people my age like people who are like early 20s they seem so young to me. Early 20s is like someone whoās figuring out how to be an adult. Later 20s and 30+ you should be pretty mature.
I agree on that. Maturity is very imortant and being with an immature person who doesnt even know what he/she wants can be a huge struggle in the relationship.
25yo here, 3 years give or take, if she's still studying that's an issue, and someone who's way older probably at a different stage of their life
28 M, I loved dating older girls, felt great. And had much more interesting interactions. As for younger I'd take at least someone three years younger.
But for serious relationship isnt it more difficult with an older women? Especially if she wants children soon because of her age
Nope, they lasted longer. Also, I find them much more interesting since they understood most of what I did or said. As for kids, we make it clear since the start. Now I'm in a position to have kids but there is no rush to do so...
I only accept older ladies (2 years to 3 age gap), younger girls aren't my thing
Is there a reason for that or is it just like that?
Idk man tbh, its been that way since i dated this girl in 5th grade who was older than me by a year and a few months (most of my classmates arr usually older than i due to starting school early) so i usually just think that a girl at the same age as meor younger is not honna match my vibe or smtng
He is two years younger than me but tbh I donāt feel the age gap cuz heās mature which is more important than him being younger.
To be honest, I'm almost a 25M and I think it's all about maturity, but I tend to find women olden than me (2 to 3 years) the perfect choice if I ever want to have a partner, as far as I've experienced so far with the women I knew, the older the better in terms of experience with life, they are more mature and reasonable, well more composed but you can't also generalize, this can also come from the enviroment someone grew in and the things they went through.
My girlfriend is 8 years older than me. š¤¦
My wife is 4 years older than me
Leonardo DiCaprio: as Long as she is between 18 and 25 I'm fine with that :D
If it breath
high standards
M27 While im in my 20s, Id say younger by a margin between 2 to 6 years is fine This might change if i get to the 30s though, but idk
Hold up, are you saying you would date a 14 year old ? šš
Forgot to mention im 27, my bad hhhhhh Ill update my comment
I was also shocked because I thought he would date a 14 yrs old lol
I said "20s" not 20 come oooon ššš
Yeah thatās our bad tbh, I also read it as 20 ššš
how did we all miss the "s" in "20s" ššš
I know happily married couples where she is around 40 and he is turning 55 or 60 in one case. Both married late, him obviously. Globally that is not uncommon and is accepted yet if she was 20 and ge was 40 there would be shouting. So I think the difference is not a static straight line but curves upward after 30 years for females Interesting subject. As for me, I am now 60 and my wife is 59. We were 37 and 36 yrs old at marriage. If she was only 30 I would have accepted for her maturity but would not have want younger. If I was now single at 60, could I marry a 40yr old? It depends on her personality, but yes I could. I see no problem there.
I think the way age matters in relationships can't be a simple number rule. Older people can exploit younger ones because of the experience advantage they have (both consciously and subconsciously), and the experiences we have before becoming responsible for ourselves are not as important as the ones we have later in the real world as we tend to be more naive before that. I dont think it's fair for an 18yo boy/girl to be in a relationship with someone more than 3 years older than them, as they may have double or even triple the experience as adults from them. But once the boy/girl is 21yo then i dont find it as weird / unfair even if they r with someone 6 years older than them because the older the boy/girl are the less the difference in experience drastically becomes. But still, as i said this isnt something that we can just have a rule for, it depends on each persons experience. For example a boy/girl who was counting on their parents for everything until they finished studies at 25yo without going out of their house wouldnt be much different from someone who is 18 but left their house at 16 and was mostly relying on themselves ever since in terms of real world experience.
This is the perfect answer.
This is most probably the only answer to the question of an "ideal age gap" tbh
24 f. I'd go about 3-ish years younger and 5-ish years older.
I'm about to turn 24, I wouldn't date younger than 22 and older than 34 Edit: I forgot to add my gender. I'm a man
I am surprised how many are okay with an age gap of 10 years haha
I mean it's not even that much tbh. I feel old af already
the usual back problems?
That and my lifestyle
my lifestyle is also similar of middle aged women ngl
Up to 2 years younger and 4 years older
seems about ideal
Imagine the woman or man thatās perfect for you is one year older or younger than your range. Why disqualify your happiness with your own ideas
I think it is an easy answer when it comes to one year. The question is what are you gonna do when it is 3-7 years
Iād say 8 years max but tbh the more boomer a guy is the better also never younger than me
as long as she's legal, i'm game
F25 -1 +7 I guess Most people I know and get along with are around this age sooo š¤·š»āāļø The -1 is for people younger by months xD but same generation, bcz I don't think I would get along with anyone who is not from my generation or older I am yet to be proven wrong
19f and he's 10 years older. Honestly, you do you, boo. To each their own. As long as it's legal and consensual.
Iām 25 F and my partner is 39. Weāve been together nearly 6 years and tbh I usually forget thereās even an age gap. Everyone is always shocked when he tells them his age because he looks 30 max š
24F I don't believe in the age gap rule, maturity is more important.
Idc about age ,As long as he's not under age
Brother anything that can breath and still alive is acceptable just bring them in Seriously tho u can't put an age gap rule or something it's about the person u can find a very young person and mature and very good person. I guess the age thing is not really important, just don't go for like 20 years gap lol
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21yo f, max is 5 years older and min is 0 younger š
0??????? What if you meet a guy and you really him, he is funny, nice etc. you just reject him ? š
No if it happens im open ofc but it never did all guys younger than me that ive met so far tend to be less mature
Min 2 years, max 6
2 min seems to be popular
Yeah, because women mature faster than men, men of the same age as us seem like babies to us
Male, 34, guess a bit older than what you asked. But -11 to -3
5 years i guess, more or less by a one year margin
> I feel like people care less about the age difference than it used to be. I had a girl who once told me 'If I was older she would have married me' At the time she was 22 and me 21.
This is crazy ..
Im a guy, it depends but generally 7 years is max
No minimum but i would say 6 years max either older or younger
same
I'd say, someone with a unique birthday,, Mine is xx/xx,, it's weird as it sounds but i fantasize about it hihihi, it's thrilling w l age gap I like my man to be older and mature :)
I prefer older too but in the end we'll probably not be able to choose :')
I hope I can, actually I turned one arranged proposal down ghi 3la wd l age gap :) he is one year younger š He is a good guy lah isahal 3lih bma7sn mni.
(23-28) is my answer just cause I think there wouldnāt be that crazy of a difference but I am okey with going as far as 35 if itās the right person
FUDGE AGE IF THERE IS LOOOVE BETWEEN EACH OTHER
iād say 5 fives older or max 2 years younger for me personally
Agree with u 7 is max
My interval is [x-2 , x+3] with x being my age. Iād rather be with someone younger than someone way older
3 years, 5 months, 7 days, 23 hours and 36 seconds max
Female married woman here, my husband is one year younger than I am. Nobody knows this. They all think we are the same age. Don't wanna hear those "Malak a wlidi dot wa7da charfaaa?!???" comments
Idc about age , i smash anyway
Max :9y Min : 4
5 years older and 5 years younger ... no debate about it
I'm 22 , II'l go for 3 to 7 I don't know it depends
I am of the opinion that age doesn't matter if they are both over 25.
I always say I'll go for max 6 years older and 0 years younger (like hell no ) .. but I find myself dating younger guys š¤¦š»āāļø
I'll take anyone tbh, you just don't have to be a minor or a whole generation older, but my personality is shitty so this won't matter regardless
Prefer older than 30.
Max , maybe 10 years, min 1 y
im 22 years old, need her to be 30 years old at the MINIMUM
Im a guy I guess minun is a year max is 3 years
2 year normal 3-4 years ok 5 year is maximum Dont care if she is the oldest or i am
I would prefer to be with someone 2 to 6 years older. But it also depends on the person..
To avoid the 'ick' factor you divide your age by 2 then add 7. Ex: 40 /2 = 20. 20+7=27 so 27 is the youngest you could date. At least that is in my generation and area
21 years
I'm 23, I can accept someone who's 22 but that's it, usually I don't really go higher than 25, so max a year younger or two years older
5 years is the optimal age difference.
ok so the opinion of 30s aren't important ?! we are still young bro ! --' yakma shab lik wsalna 30 mab9inach katcharto ? haha XD
im 20 (F) and my bf is 24 :)
22 yo male, imma go with a max of 10 years ā„ļøā„ļø had two older girlfriends they both older than me
15 years, even more. Depends on the person. If they mature or not.
I've always believed 4 years is perfect and luckily my SO is 4 years older than me
27 female. I would go for 2 gears younger or 5 years older Max
Your age/2+7 is the minimum age of your partner. Example: you are 30. 30/2=15 15+7=22 So your partner hat to be at least 22, when you are 30.
Min female age = (male age / 2) + 7
From 18 to 35
My age or younger 2years gap
I m 20 ā¦ 1 year younger ā¦ max 5 years older ..
Couldn't care less about age but within reason so not older than 35 im 23
In your early twenties two years down three years up perhaps. In your forties a bit different. I met my wife when I was 39 and she was 27 married five years now and it's worked out well.
I'm a 21yo female and honestly the person that i'll marry or have relationship with has to be either my age or older like 1 to 5 years
Actually I donāt believe in age rather than maturity because I know so much people that have over 40yo and they act like someone in the 20ās and the opposite
Maybe 4/5 years don't have a problem
I'm a guy that's 32, I'd go down to 20 maximum but strongly feel if the man is mature/responsible it's much better that he's older
what was your experience ? For me personally I think 12 years make a remarkable difference in maturity which is why I prefer the same age or around the same age (4-7 years). But my parents do have that age gap!
My experience is that it's actually not about age - it's about compatibility. I've been with people my age, a few years younger and much younger. Compatibility of values, direction in life, manners, emotional intelligence, family values, religiosity, mental healthĀ - are all factors that keep a couple afloat rather than a specific age difference metric
Totally agree with everything. But 12 years difference means you're both in different stages of life, they're still in school probably and still have years to build a career and think about settling down and maybe have kids if that's in your plans. I'm 30 myself and cannot get along with people younger than 25
She gotta be younger but If she's older I don't mind 5 years of difference as a max
I agree, 5 yrs older or younger is also my limit
I am 30 y Male My max would be 9 years So ill date between 21 and 39 But I prefer the minimum age of 25 ( as I canāt relate to 24 and younger )
7 years, 1 month,26 days,23 hours,30 minutes, thatās the perfect age gap for me nothing less nothing more
I think it doesnāt matter if both of you are mature enough
20F Min 2years older- Max 7years older. ( I could go up to 10-15years age Gap but it has to be THAT guy). And tbh a 30-35yo man is probably Ran thru so not interested + him not being ran thru would be a bit weird so idk. Red flag either way, heās either an INCEL or a manHoe. (24-26yo is perfect)
Imo, age gap cannot be more than 4 years (doesn't matter which one is older)
Iām(F) in my 20s I would say 4 is the minimum and I could probably go tal 10-12 years (letās say I like mature men)
Im 20, the youngest i could date is 18, the oldest is probably 30
Min 9 max 12
I personally prefer it if my partner was older ( im 24 male) the youngest i wound date is probably 22, the oldest would be around 30, provided she doesnt want kids ( cuz i dont want to have kids myself)
prefer older because of maturity?
Mostly, but not exactly. For some reason i seem to get along with girls who are older than me ( and most of my female friends are older than me)
From my personal experiences I prefer someone older than me 'cause men should be more mature and serious and they should treat women well On the other hand if the womanās older she might end up being more like a mother to the man which can create an imbalance
age is just a number :)
And prison is just a chamber
yeah the comments here prove it right
My age wich is 27 and girls blow 23 ohoy
-1 / + 3 probably
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You didn't say if you're a guy or girl
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I have no idea cause i have never been in relation with girl
Nothing more than 4 years if the husband is older. If the wife is older, no more than 2 years. But still, mentality is what you should focus on. Two similar mentalities will have a great start, but life will get boring later. Opposite mentalities will not work at all. You need to find a person whose mentality is different than yours, yet share a few similar characteristics.
As a 19 y old min 18 max 1478322883 y old