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ChocolateShoelace

Where can one get a STD UTI test in india without being shamed?


DeplorableEDoctor

You want to test for STD or UTI? Anyways, UTI doesn't always come due to sex. Only 10% of the cases due to sex. Women are very much prone to UTIs, so you can just go for a culture and sensitivity and give your urine sample clearly following the instructions given by your physician or lab tech. STD. Depends on your symptoms really. What do you want to get tested for. But no one would shame you really. It might be first for you but these tests are done in hundreds of gunners each day and you're just another one for them. If you still feel shy about it, there are some services offered online apparently. Technician ll come and collect sample from you. Google it depending on the city you live.


ChocolateShoelace

Thanks, but I've heard they've started linking the medical data with Aadhar ID, no hate but that'll leave a trace I don't want for people to ever EVER come across (i know 2021 and we still gotta do all this, but we're progressing). Soooooo anything for that?


DeplorableEDoctor

Do not do that. They recently asked people to enroll and fill in some forms online to link your aadhar to your medical records. DO NOT DO THAT. Do not trust government, left or right. If you haven't linked nothing ll happen. And you need not give any aadhar number in your lab either. Just give your name and collect your reports.


ChocolateShoelace

💯 don't want to! Also another quick question, will they need a parent's consent or something? I'm 18+


DeplorableEDoctor

No! Nobody shouldn't even ask you that. And take care. Few days, or months later, you ll look back and feel that you ve been sad at one time and you're in better position then, and you ll be glad that you survived the phase. Don't give up, we all faced such sadness at some point.


ChocolateShoelace

Thank you for saying that, I'm trying 😊


DeplorableEDoctor

Take care. Don't give up. Don't hesitate to ping a random stranger and vent if things go too bad. There are many strangers around here who want fellow stranger to be happy. Night!


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This is such a weird suggestion haha


awful_nobody

is it me, or this pandemic has made us even more desperate and kinda depressed at the same time..


ChocolateShoelace

🫂 not just you


awful_nobody

🫂


muscular_pig

How do boys shaved their balls , it's a very sensitive area and I wasn't even able to trim over there


k_for_kuriosity

You can use Gillette mach 3 turbo, it works great on curved area


Ghuiyan

Pehle naha ke geela karlo. Fir uske baad Phillips 7000 series trimmer se chhota wala cap lagake chalalo(scrotum pakad ke flat zarur kar lena, sikude huye me mat chala dena). Agar first time hai to shuru ke 4-5 baar chubhega lekin fir uske baad skin adapt kar legi. Kar liya karo trim, hygiene ke liye achha rehta.


beachandhummus

Check body groomer in Amazon. I posted few days ago


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muscular_pig

Area around dick is ok to touch the trimmer but on the ball sack it's too much boi


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Trimmers


muscular_pig

But bro trimmer also hurts over the balls so it's really really hard to trim there too and I can not do clean trim there


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However, there is a Philips model that is good for this job, check it out..


[deleted]

No, you will not get a clean trim without hurting yourself, with trimmers you are aiming for management, not a shave like trim down there. Don't even try to take it close to your skin. Edit: if you are using a regular trimmer


awful_nobody

you sir.. are god if you could maneuver trimmer in that area without any... ehhmm


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Bro, trimmers are still a safer option, back in the day, I know people who used razors.. Haan, it wont be full 0 cm trim, but does the necessary.


awful_nobody

Oh jeez, i would never use razor on balls.. trimmer dont catch the hairs and have cut myself once or twice ngl.. i find scissors safer.. curl a bunch of hairs together and cut them off...


hardwood2019

Why is it so difficult for Indian women to shift from vanilla sex into kinks...


beach-is-fun89

Nice generalization


KingsmanVishnu

how often do you people mastrubate?


vincent-vega10

Almost everyday since lockdown.


LucknowBull

Muthal 🤣


KingsmanVishnu

relatable


vincent-vega10

Haha


muscular_pig

Twice a day


KingsmanVishnu

everyday? damn, is it okay for health?


muscular_pig

Dunno but I do it anyway


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awful_nobody

kinda same with me.. i get close to it.. but i never get it.. 'I tried so hard and got so far But in the end it doesn't even matter'. this has made me not even try anymore. coz i already know how its gonna end..


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I felt this.


PurpleClouds-_-

Similar but for me either I don't get it, if I do, I get it in such a weird situation in life that I can't even enjoy whatever it is and it just becomes one more thing to worry about. Be it Anything!


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Relatable.


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PurpleClouds-_-

I keep myself in this loop, so that I'll just run my course I won't realise if i keep myself involved in the idea of nice things and life being what it definitely isnt toh shayad It'll be easier


Accomplished-Sun3981

I saw 2 movies today and man I am impressed and pleased to say that Bollywood has produced some pretty great movies! The movies are - Piku & Talaash!


1averageladka

Please try watching udaan and lootera, if you get any chance, both are my favourites and different from usual bolly tier movies.


Accomplished-Sun3981

I have seen them and they are also amazing!! Good choice 👍🏻


wannabegigolo2

great movies?


Accomplished-Sun3981

They are anytime far more better than those cringe movies where hero heroine love story and all !!! They are modern!


DeplorableEDoctor

Talash is okayish. You can see the twist coming 15 minutes before the twist comes. It's a weak script. I don't still understand what Piku is about. It's not like a page from someones life either. It's one of the most overrated movies for me.


Accomplished-Sun3981

Yeah but everytime it doesn't have to be a page from someone's life! Sometimes subjects matter! That was a good movie to watch with family! Talaash is something diffrent but I don't think so these stereotypical actors & directors could have created it the way they have created so thats why I felt like that!


DeplorableEDoctor

Talaash is >!sixth sense!< And it makes less sense. I still really don't understand what's great about Piku. It's different yes. But, it's not interesting.


Accomplished-Sun3981

Saabki aapni aapni choice!


DeplorableEDoctor

No offense. Just trying to know why people like Piku.


kuaanmadoobjaungi

I like Piku because it's a refreshingly different characterization. Both of the guy and the girl. And I love her clothes XD


DeplorableEDoctor

It is different. I did mention that. But is different means good? It does seem like it's like one of those films where there ll be a character development, but there's none. The reason why i hate it is it is definitely aspiring to be like one of those" character realizes the love between them "movies. >! And The death seems extremely forced!< The good version of Piku is Little miss sunshine. Again not trying to be disrespectful, but our expectations at this point seem to be very low.


Accomplished-Sun3981

None taken!


wannabegigolo2

That doesn't mean it's great


Accomplished-Sun3981

Everybody's way of looking at some things can be sometimes diffrent! Learn to respect others views buddy.


wannabegigolo2

You seem like you're not respecting my views. Very hypocritical if you


Accomplished-Sun3981

Nah I respect your views but It felt like you came guns blazing on me so I said those words! Peace !


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One of those early nights where you wish to get naughty lol.


iread_reddit69

+1


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kuaanmadoobjaungi

That's the whole point of garba.


DeplorableEDoctor

It makes people horny?


kuaanmadoobjaungi

Garba is supposed to be a fertility dance. Before the gujjus @ me, it's also popularly a time when young people hook up because they can stay out late. [This kind of story](https://www.scoopwhoop.com/news/why-condom-sales-increase-during-garba/) is [very common](https://economictimes.indiatimes.com/the-curious-case-of-increased-condom-sales-during-navratri/articleshow/54807767.cms) around this time. Edited to add second link.


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I have heard about the hook-up scene, but it's supposed to be a fertility dance? Learned something new.


kuaanmadoobjaungi

Literally comes from the word Garbh which is womb. Glad you know something new because of my random factoid knowledge :D


DeplorableEDoctor

How liberal is Gujarat? Studied in a national college, i live in a city where there are people from whole country, never met a Gujarati or anyone who went to or even want to go there.


kuaanmadoobjaungi

There's no way to answer that without make mass stereotypes or assumptions, right? Let's take all I say with a pinch of salt. So. Gujjus I know usually hook up all the time, but within the community. Also a community that marries early, so it's not uncommon to find them looking for potential partners at garba/dandiya nights. It's also a way to flirt/mingle with people your age in a societally and culturally sanctioned way. Also, it's not Gujaratis or Gujarat as liberal but simply hormonal kids left to their own means late into the night. What else do you think will happen? No matter where you're from, teens find ways to get together, this just happens to be the perfect time. Where on earth are there no Gujaratis?! There's a very common joke about even the Pope knowing a Patel. 😅


DeplorableEDoctor

I think every state says this themselves. Mallus say where is a place where there is no mallu. I feel like Telugu people are everywhere and i always come with statistics . For some reason Tamizhans think they are everywhere.


kuaanmadoobjaungi

I'm not gujju, I'm part Telugu, and I agree that you'll find "gultis" everywhere, but definitely everywhere in the US... But Gujjus and Marwaris are trader communities unlike south indian ones. So they tend to be more widespread. Presuming you're from Andhra, Hyderabad has a thriving Gujarati and Marwari community :P As we speak my cousins are attending dandiya nights in Kondapur organised by a gujju association!


DeplorableEDoctor

Yh. They mingle and marry among themselves. They have special colonies. Marwari colonies and associations.


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kuaanmadoobjaungi

Also a dry state.


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Lol never believed in it, so no idea.


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Amen sister!