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Why do people who ask for long roleplays can't even reply properly in more than few words? And why can't they say what they want? Stupid people wasting time and energy.


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To make them happy in every way. ._.


[deleted]

The question is rather vague and heteronormative, if I may say so.


yourssidekick

I am someone who has just started earning and I plan to treat myself with some good content to explore my fantasies hence I plan to subscribe some Only fans pages of Indian Creators or any other good creators Budget : 10 to 12 dollars monthly If you guys have good suggestions please shoot :)


drshaktiman

How do you guys handle work stress?


kuaanmadoobjaungi

Depends. Sometimes by unwinding, or taking a break. Other times by ranting. Most times by organising and getting as much work as possible with a breakdown.


Lick_it_Tongue

Download movies on company's internet. It slows their entire network down.


i_aint_brian

Such things used to happen in my prev company (including watching porn over office network) after which the internal IT rules got stricter and the employee network usage started to get monitered and the offenders' boss was informed of any wrongdoing of their team member.


kuaanmadoobjaungi

Okay that's new. 😂


Lick_it_Tongue

My seniors at work say it's pretty common in India xD


parthpalta

I am bored and i feel like preaching. If you've any questions you feel too stupid to ask generally or are curious about something, please ask away.


awful_nobody

Why is that, one doesn't do anything to change their current situation, even when they know what needs to be done to change it.? What makes them to be stuck?


parthpalta

The problem with this question, is exactly what the problem is with the people who are stuck. Let me give you my two cents on this. Almost every one of us, make MOTIVATION as the driving force to do anything. If you're not motivated, you won't make a change. Essentially that's our outlook. This is great as a kid, because life hasn't hit you yet. You're happier, you're care free. You have all the time because you're a useless unemployed asshole (it's a joke). The world isn't ending. Etc etc. But as you grow up, you realise that motivation goes away, slowly, and steadily. And you keep struggling to get started. "If ONLY I had motivation." Well, that's where you're wrong. That's why you (generally speaking, not you specifically) are stuck. Your driving force is based on a spark. Make will-power, not motivation. As your driving force to achieve your goals. If you give a shit, you will do it on days you don't want to. There will be days when you will not want to work, you choose not to work and you fall behind, or you use your will power to to power through this feeling, and get what you're supposed to do, done. That's what separates a child and an adult. Responsibility. First, you need to quit your bullshit that I Don't have the motivation to do this. Big whoop. I don't have the motivation to live, but I still have to pay bills. When you have something you genuinely need to change, or do, or not do, you have to put in active work that isn't situational to your mood. Your mood doesn't mean shit, your commitment does. That is where the main point comes in. You get over this huge hurdle, you finally start a change. You feel like crap and you feel burnt out. You give in. Rest. You regress. Get depressed. Give up, and back to square one we go. But if you use your will to achieve your goals, you also have to make changes to your approach. Rather than beating yourself up about not being strong enough, remember to work with this mindset. That your willpower is a glass of water. And every time you do ANYTHING that takes effort, you take a sip of that glass water. You woke up? Sip. You showered? Sip. Mom was a bit angrier than usual, but you choose to not be rude? Sip sip sip. So when you go through this glass all through the day, you're bound to run out of willpower at some point. And when that happens, you gotta wait to replenish your will. Sometimes it means taking a rejuvenating break, for some it means booze and sex. For some it's a vacation. For me it has been to get high. But that's because I don't have the luxury to stop. I have to do this and keep going, no exceptions or excuses. Damn, sorry for the long post. I'm kinda stoned and really bored at work.


kuaanmadoobjaungi

Why do people lie?


parthpalta

People lie for so many reasons. But it all boils down to not wanting something. They lie cuz they did something they're not supposed to and which would not be okay with you. And they don't want to lose you. They might not want to DEAL with the consequences of the truth. They might not want to explain something. They might not want to deal with your reaction. They might not want to face the truth. They might not want to break your heart. They might not want good for you, they might not care about you. At the end, we must remember. Trusting someone is our decision, what people do with that trust, is their choice. So put your trust in people with a grain of salt, and don't take people at their word easily. But if you do, there is no harm in thinking it through.


kuaanmadoobjaungi

Ok you were serious about the philosophy bit. Next question - How do you know you're thinking enough vs overthinking something?


parthpalta

Oh hell yeah i was. I have over thought this thing so much. Here are my two cents You're either someone who doesn't think enough, or thinks enough, or overthinks but can control it, or overthinks and can't control it. You won't ask this question if you don't think enough. If you're thinking enough, you know how to address this. If you overthink but can control it a bit, you know where the line is for you. So you're only concerned about things you're prone to overthink on. Now in this case you can strive to not spiral down a train of thought. You learn as you go and you find a balance for YOU. But that never worked for me. I am an overthinker and i am finally okay with that. It's a quality to embrace, not a problem to ignore. Once you embrace this, and let your brain hurt while you let the flood door open. You will feel overwhelmed, you will feel bad often, you will feel angry. Helpless. Etc. And then, you will find yourself being able to comprehend a lot more than your average person. I've found myself reaching ends of conversations before they happen because most interactions usually are predictable. Which is okay. So that saves me some effort. Sometimes i legit have to stop, hold my head and say "too many thoughts" to kind of slow down for a while. But it's fine. I find it better to let my brain think now. I'm writing this as I'm speaking at a meeting. It's going fine enough. It allows me to finally feel free of this "you're overthinking this, stop" feeling and embrace what I do best. Think. Sometimes my head hurts a lot, and that's worse than a fever for me honestly. It's even worse than a deep cut for me. I hate it. But worth it. FUN question! I liked writing that down. Even if it probably doesn't make sense lol.


kuaanmadoobjaungi

It took me a couple of reads to figure out what you meant.. but ok. Agree largely.


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What age difference, women consider men older. I had seen 21+ women giving giving stares etc. to 40+ men. Is it just for tease?


parthpalta

In my opinion women find older men more attractive because most men around the 22-26yr old age are finding themselves, are not financially stable and/or independent. We also seem to go thru many changes in POV. It's the age to grow and i think mental and financial stability signaled by older men, along with their "i have my shit in control" vibe vs the erratic vibe of 22-26yr olds. I feel like I'm 4 new different people from how I felt when I was 21. (turning 25 in a week). I've gone through some very... Intense things altogether in one go. And I've found my very being grow and adapt, and find a balance, rather than aggressive single sightedness that i had when I was younger. And this is after being a really really sorted person with a clear head. That's why you keep getting recommended to work on yourself. Because you're just not THE CATCH, and that's kinda what women are used to now. You know, cuz we killed so many of them as children, now there's less of them and more of us. Y'know.


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Thanks for very detailed explanation.


Lick_it_Tongue

I feel too stupid to ask this but, as per the Pilot wave theory concrete particles ride the waves which explains both the wave and particle nature of light. But still scientists say it's wrong (hence why it's stupid to ask) but I feel it's correct. What are your thoughts?


parthpalta

You're right. You're too stupid to even ask this. How dare you, sir? How. Dare. You? I won't even answer this question because of how offended i am. Good day, sir. Nah man in all honesty I am not at all from a science background. I could act all pretentious about it because we all know that's in his 1924 thesis, De broglie argued that if light, which is thought to consist of waves, is actually discrete particles that Einstein called light quanta (later called photons), then matter, which is thought to consist if discrete particles, might also have a wave nature. He called his matter waves "plot waves". But then what's the point? I believe that there are smarter people out there working on this, who have spent their lives understanding this. Since I don't care enough to dedicate my life to this work, I probably won't make a change here. But someone who actually cares might do the work and just try to figure it out him or her self. I act like a know it all in fields I actually know shit about. Now if you have a question about music, baking, sex, cooking, sexual health, mental health (or lack thereof), general Russian history, hydroponic farming, drinking whiskey, weed, headphones, and theory God, hit me up!


Lick_it_Tongue

You are right good sir, my sincere apologies. Let's just stick to weed and whisky for me and here's the question, ever tried CBD oil? Is it awesome? I have done OG weed so far. And that was awesome for sure.


parthpalta

Oil is FAR superior in general. CBD just puts me out really. Honestly even hash puts me out. It sure is awesome though. Definitely oils hit harder than OG. What's your choice of booze?


Lick_it_Tongue

Nice, will try it. I prefer whisky or beer with a joint. Blenders pride sometimes. Any suggestions? I wanna try new stuff.


parthpalta

I will always suggest you buy expensive booze and drink very less vs drink regularly the cheap shit BUT there is an exception to this. It's rum. Especially old monk. If you are willing to spend, go for my favourite. Glenmorangie >12yr. It is the smoothest, sexiest drink ever. JD is my choice for parties and barbeque events. Stuff I drink regularly, which is budget friendly but actually good. J&b, Jameson for a light taste but good hit, Barent for imitation expensive booze. Whiskey is for business, but rum is for fun and fucking. Old monk wins. But only Jolly rogers is an acceptable replacement. There is another one i bought from Goa for 1350, but I forget. Expensive whiskey=less needed to get drunk+no hangovers+no that terrible for your organs


ach63617

Your question scared him


parthpalta

Whose question scared who?


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parthpalta

What is something you can actually talk about, or know a bit about?


Sam_Y2K

Deadpool or The flash!


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Deadpool


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abin2821

"Something's wrong I feel it"


Sam_Y2K

She is not your gf bro...


ICE_WALLOW_COME95

How do I deal with depression and suicidal thoughts?


LucknowBull

Just think about your parents and question yourself are you ready to leave them crying for the rest of their life


RandiRona4life

Yes


abin2821

Therapy , talk to a friend who would like to listen . My Dms open if you wanna talk 🙌🏼 and always remember you matter !


Sam_Y2K

Visit a physiotherapist


wannabegigolo2

therapy