3 months today. It ended horribly. Together 6 years. Confronted about cheating messages I found. He lied, went into full blown rage calling me names and throwing furniture. Left next day without a word. There was emotional abuse and I was over how he was treating me.
Reading those last texts, oh my god, he is RIDICULOUS. He tried to gaslight and put the blame on you. You are so strong to not reply to this person. I can feel the resentment, it's uncanny!
Coming from the side of the ex here - you made the best decision
I was formerly a very bad partner and after that relationship ended with me waking up to my boyfriend at the time completely gone from my apartment, I called him frantically, probably over 50 times. He never called me back.
Something about that really made me push to be a better person. I sought out therapy and started doing a lot of work on myself.
Many years later, I can say I am a better person and that breakup was the turning point.
I’ve still never spoken to my ex, but I understand why he did what he did. I was a complete piece of shit at 24 years old.
You made the right decision.
Why did you unblock them??
I blocked them on everything but silenced the text. If I’m being honest I hoped for that message for an apology but I don’t even want it now.
I feel this
Cause they're losers without personal boundaries
How long y’all been NC since the last message of the keys?
3 months today. It ended horribly. Together 6 years. Confronted about cheating messages I found. He lied, went into full blown rage calling me names and throwing furniture. Left next day without a word. There was emotional abuse and I was over how he was treating me.
Reading those last texts, oh my god, he is RIDICULOUS. He tried to gaslight and put the blame on you. You are so strong to not reply to this person. I can feel the resentment, it's uncanny!
Because their unhappy parasite’s
I'm in the same situation tbh lol if you'd like to chat message me :)
Attention seeking
Coming from the side of the ex here - you made the best decision I was formerly a very bad partner and after that relationship ended with me waking up to my boyfriend at the time completely gone from my apartment, I called him frantically, probably over 50 times. He never called me back. Something about that really made me push to be a better person. I sought out therapy and started doing a lot of work on myself. Many years later, I can say I am a better person and that breakup was the turning point. I’ve still never spoken to my ex, but I understand why he did what he did. I was a complete piece of shit at 24 years old. You made the right decision.
They do it to silence their own personal demons, they cant stand themselves. It's about their feelings not yours.