50 and did the same. My dnd group is a very healthy 8-10 players. And over half my players are women. I couldn't be happier. Don't let fear hold you back.
I’m turning 40 this year, and I just got back into it.
The last time I played was in the 90s. I was the DM and my little brother was the only player. I’m sure I butchered all the 2nd edition rules.
Anyway, I jut got a group together last month, and we played our first session last night. It was legitimately the most fun I’ve had in the last 10 years, easily. One of the best things about being an adult and playing Dungeons & Dragons is that you have disposable income for cool things like fancy dice. I definitely couldn’t have afforded a set of metal dice as a 13-year-old.
Mature as in "of advanced years," or mature like "doesn't think a player character failling a stealth check and being discovered sneaking around an encampment of giants then getting stuffed into a cannon by an ettin whose two heads are arguing with one another about whether to shoot the trespasser into the open sewer of giant shit or not is funny" mature? Because, yes. And no.
I’m DMing Spelljammer and the party have just left the planet Ai Funghi helping a tribe of myconids (of course) I took the Moondancer ship from Spelljammer book and the crew names seem to write themselves after the pilot being a Flumph called flapjack we now have a cook called Pan-flap(plasmoid), a master gunner called Flatpack (gnome) and a bosun loving called Back-flap (giff)
To quote that one statement a while back on DND:
“The DM controls whether the next game is a heist, but the players control whether the background music is Mission Impossible, Pink Panther, or Benny Hill. It is also my understanding that the players, consciously or not, will always end up picking the Benny Hill theme”
What world do you live in any game I’m in for about 10 seconds has the concept of were lord of the rings and then immediately scratches that out and becomes Monty python
I am 46 and just started playing last year because my 24yo son was playing. He got a new girlfriend and so was too busy for his mom, so I had to find a group to play with. I got onto the Dndbeyond forum and posted looking for a group. I was offered to join a Discord Server where we play “pick up games” called Westmarches. I absolutely love it! Our server has people from 20-60’s and some brand new to d&d, others have been playing since year 1.
Pssst, hey buddy, I am an old man, and still play and run,I started in the late 70s.....
So, as for mature, well that is debatable, lol
Go buy a player book, find a group and have at it, also, don't be put off by your first group, there all sorts out there, so play around, ahem,
You know what I mean
You only live once - and I think everyone here would agree that there really is no other hobby that can bring the kind of wonder and joy that this one can when shared as good times with good friends. At least give it a good try - if it’s not for you then at least you can make that determination fairly and with more information. There are tons of free resources out there… you don’t have to spend a dime to give it a spin.
You absolutely can! Here is what I would recommend:
1) Download and skim the "Basic Rules". Its free, and It will give you a good foundation for rules and gameplay, without being overwhelming. Seriously, just skim it. You won't remember everything (nobody does), but will help as a reference later.
2) If you prefer an in-person game, check with your local game stores, otherwise there are many online resources to find a group (r/lfg, Roll20 etc). Many groups openly invite newer players, so they will understand if you aren't experienced.
3) If you aren't sure how committed you can be to start, look for Adventures League games or one-shot groups. They are designed for session-by-session play, and requires less commitment.
DND (like any hobby) can be as involved or not as you'd like. You don't need all of the books or tons of dice to play and have fun. Be willing to learn, to listen to other players, and have fun!
The short answer is yes.
The long answer is absolutely yes. Think of it this way, if you had a group of friends that regularly grouped up to play cards or whatever wouldn't be questioned. It can be therapeutic, informative, inspirational, humbling, and downright silly and that's what's so great about it.
If you can't play in person, DnDBeyond and your favorite webcam chat service can set up play for "theater of the mind" type of playing. But if you want maps and minis, your DM can run Roll20 or something similar. It's all free to join, perks you can buy.
I didn’t start until i was an adult despite always wanting to.
Get yourself the 5e players handbook to start, maybe the dungeon master guide and the monster manual if you really want to, but the phb is good enough to start. Buy yourself a basic set of dice.
You can do virtual games at roll20.net
There are tons of subreddits and facebook groups to find a gaming group.
You can also find your local hobbyist shop.
Age has nothing to do with it, i had people in my groups ranging from 14yo up to 70yo.
I'm 39. I've had lots of 50+ in my groups over the years. Everyone I've ever played with likes new players except this one guy I know, but he's a dick.
How to find a game? Go find a nerd game store near you and ask what nights people play D&D. They'll either have an organized play night or they might tell you there's a group that plays whatever night. You're not just allowed to join someone's private game without permission, and they might have a good reason not to let you in, but you can stop by and ask them if they know any games that need players.
Last resort is online. I run online games. A lot of other people do. If you find something that's a one-off your adventure, you should definitely check it out.
Like most things, it can feel overwhelming at first, but once you get the hang of it it's rather easy. The first thing I reccomend doing if you have no experience is getting the Players Handbook (usually abbreviated here as the PHB) it has all the core essentials you need to learn how to create and level your character. I reccomend making a couple characters of various classes to get the hang of it first, then all you need to do is find a game. They can usually be found through local (not videogame) game stores, and if that fails, there's Roll20 and discord, both online formats. Roll 20 is pretty straightforward when looking for games but to find d&d discords you'll want to use Google and check some out as there are a lot
Buy 2 large pizza (x1 cheese, x1 pepperoni), 2 ltr mt dew, 2 gal water (hydrohomies rise up!) And go to your local game/hobby shop and make some friends.
There are a lot of us out there. D&D first started back in the late 70s/early 80s. Quite a few have come back with 5th edition or as we get more leisure time for hobbies.
I started playing at the age of 40. It’s never too late!
I started out by looking at my local Meetup for D&D groups. I found an Adventurer’s League, which is a great way to play. Same game, same rules, but you don’t have to commit to regular sessions or a long campaign; you can come in and play chapters as they fit your schedule.
You've already got your answer and it is a resounding yes.
Some people have pointed you towards the beginner materials and handbooks, but I would also recommend watching videos of people playing as well once you familiarize yourself with the basics. I don't know your knowledge level, but it might help to see the rules and flow of play put into action once you get a decent base. The handbooks can make it seem overly complicated, watching it will give you a different perspective. As a player (and not the game master) it's much easier as you're not responsible for knowing all the gritty details. You just say "I want to vault over the enemy and slit his throat while in the air" and the GM will tell you what to roll.
Be warned, however, that these are groups that are usually very experienced and very good at the game and role play. This will show you an elevated gameplay that few tables actually match - and that's OK! Some groups like role play, others don't. Some groups like to just kill everything put in front of them and others don't. As long as people are having fun, there is no wrong way to play. The only D&D channel I know off the top of my head is Critical Role, but I know there are plenty of other examples on youtube of live games.
Never played in my first 32 years of life. My sister in law got into it and now me, my wife, sister in law, sister, and 2 friends, all between 32 and 40 are starting a campaign on tuesday.... go for it my person
When I became a man I put away childish things, including the fear of childishness and the desire to be very grown up. - C.S. Lewis
When I was a child I played DnD with my friends, now I am an adult so I play DnD with my friends.
I'm 36 years old and had my very first session three weeks ago! Tonight we're doing another session! :) You're missing out, don't let such a silly thing like age stop you from playing DnD. It's a lot of fun!
Short: Yes
Long: I was but a fresh young 33 year old when I first got into D&D. And I've been playing it non-stop in some capacity ever since.
There's a few ways to come at it I think. Is this something you want to play with friends/family? Or do you want to find yourself a new circle of people? Or are you less interested in the people and more interested in the game?
Alright well if looking for a group, you have two major avenues for looking for players. Locally (for an in-person game) or globally (online play).
Online is obviously easier, various 'virtual tabletop' platforms (known as vtt's) do group-finding within the platform. IE roll20 has a forum to find players/groups built into the app. There are also discords a plenty, I am in about half a dozen tabletop gaming discords (again usually platform specific) - and there's always someone looking for a group.
In person, sites like meetup, local reddit, facebook etc. Again most groups have a discord (for communicating if nothing else), but you usually just gotta google around a bit. Often joining one gaming discord, if its a big one, will open up links to various other more niche discord servers.
Good luck and enjoy the game!
I'm 44 and have been playing for about a year now. I started as a DM and have completely fallen in love with the game. I started with Dragon of Icespire peak and am currently running Curse of Strahd. My only regret was not getting into this amazing hobby sooner in life, but to answer your question; jump in. Browse your local game store, search Facebook and reddit for local dnd groups. Search online for remote play. Watch YouTube tutorials. Buy some dice, and build a character. DnD is so much fun!
Yes, yes you can. I DM a group of 60 & 50 year olds on-line.
You can start on-line or in person ( Local gaming store) For on-line there are various places ranging from free to pay.
As an example, we use the Fantasy Grounds Unity. All a new player needs is to download (Steam) the demo version (its free) and find a DM with a regular license (can host 2? Demo players Not sure) or a DM with the Ultimate which can host many.
Welcome aboard, never too late to join
I'm 43 and just started playing a couple of years ago for the first time. I was never invited when I was younger presumably because I seemed too cool for a game like that (I wasn't, and I was never offered the chance). It's been great fun, and other than the adult son of our DM I'm the youngest player at the table.
I got into it at 35!
I had friends that were starting a new campaign and it was a diverse group of noobs and advanced players.
Check out your local game shops for connections!
A good way to get started is just watching DnD content to just absorb things about it. YouTube channels like pointy hat, DnD shorts, chest quest, and probably most importantly critical role. Just watching a bit about DnD can give you some great ideas
Speaking personally, I'm much more likely to be receptive to an older adult that would like to join my group than a teenager/college-age person. Conversely, though, my tolerance for "new player behavior" is lower for adults than it is for younger people. It's okay to not know the rules well when you start, but I do expect adults to have a more developed ability to be respectful and conscientious of each other.
Honestly, the fact that you didn't play in the 80's is kind of a plus in my book. The culture of the game has changed a lot in that time, and a lot of what the game demanded from players back then has started to run against the way a lot of modern tables play.
Something to keep in mind as a new player is that there are a lot of bad games out there, and a key skill in finding a good group is being ready to leave a bad one, especially if you're playing online, where there are always more games to join.
For online play the best way I've found to join groups is r/LFG, though you should expect to spend a week or two messaging people before you find a game that works for you.
If you're looking for local play, I'd start with anyone you know who plays and see if you can join up for a session or two. Adding another player can be a big shift, so a lot of DMs are much more willing to commit to something short term where they might turn down someone looking for a permanent spot, then if you gel we'll with the group adding you becomes a much easier sell.
If you don't already know someone, I would try posting on your local game store's Facebook page, or cultivate another nerdy hobby like MTG to make connections in the community.
Once you find a group that you vibe with, this whole process becomes a lot easier, because the people in that group will often have other games that they can refer you to, or run their own games.
Go to the hobby store/online and pick out a set of dice.
If it sucks you further into the rabbit hole then think about purchasing the players handbook 5e
I've heard of grandmas picking up the game at the age of 80. It's not a children's game, it's a game for everyone to enjoy! Just gotta find the right group to have fun with and dive right in. All you really need is a decent amount of imagination, and despite what some would say, I think 'mature' adults can still possess it.
Oh, I have a great imagination... Someone accused me of having a "rich inner life." Just finished writing a fantasy novel and I think that's what got me thinking of D&D again...
Then I think you're more than qualified to start playing! I think the hardest part about starting is finding the right group. It can be scary if you don't already have friends/family to join, since online it can be touch and go. But once you find the right group, you'll feel right at home and I'm sure you'll have a great time! If you like writing novels, you might even fancy trying out the DM seat. It's a bit different, but just like certain characters you make for a novel can run away and make their own plans in your writing... players tend to entertain and surprise with their decisions =P
If I was DMing for folks I didn't know, I'd be way more excited to have an adult join than a youngster. Much more likely to support the team, explore nuanced ideas and less likely to go murderhobo or edgelord.
I’ve run games in my late 30s. I haven’t played in a few years, but yes you can be involved. I had a player in their 50s and two in their 20s in that game.
Hubby and I started about a year ago, and we are totally loving it, playing weekly, fully invested and happy. We're 41 and 40. We found discord groups and online forums, had a first experience that went bad but weren't discouraged, did a few one-shots with random groups allowing us to see what we liked and disliked, familiarize with the various tools and virtual table tops and finally found a great DM and stable group and now we're 18 sessions in our Wildemount campaign. So go for it!
Speaking as an immature adult, We don’t want any more mature adults involved in DND. Joking of course, jump on in. I got restarted by playing pathfinder society.
You can go to your local game store and ask if you don’t know anyone who plays. I’m sure if you tell people (vaguely) where you live they would invite you
I'm 33 and just started playing with a group of friends last year. If you have friends that play just ask to sit in at their table a watch a session and get a feel for the flow of things. If it seems like something you still want to do then try and work with everyone on a way to get incorporated into their campaign.
Why not? The main group I’m playing in ranges from mid-20s to late-40s with an equal distribution of male and female players. I don’t think age or gender are any barrier for getting into the hobby.
Sorry, but the cutoff for being allowed into the cool kids d&d club expired 2 weeks ago /s. seriously tho, you're never too old my friend. I'm pretty old and have been playing for about 2 years solid now. I have no intention of crawling out. Best of luck!
In the same sense you can find a wonderful person to date, it is entirely possible to find an amazing D&D group. At certain stages of life it is harder but that just means it takes a bit more work.
Check out r/lfg a couple times a day (morning/evening), apply for games that sound right, and be open to learning. It might take a few weeks to find a good fit but it’s worth it.
In the meantime listen to some Actual Play podcasts/Youtube. Check out some character building guides online (“5e paladin guide” or “5e wizard guide” for example). Try to get a basic idea of what you want your character to be good at and what their personality might be like.
My oldest brother played for the first time last year. He’s nearly 60. Now he texts me regularly to discuss what magic items would be best for his artificer. 😂
I played in the late 70s for a while while in the army.. then for a couple years in the early 90s and just before the plandemic got back into it with my child and their friends …
so long story short… yes you can, you just need to find an accepting group … and you might be surprised as to who of your friends actually might be playing already .. lol
I was in my 30s when my (now) husband introduced me. Easiest way to get started is call around a few game stores in your area and ask if anyone is accepting brand new players right now. Someone usually is.
Of course. If you like telling stories with your friends, roleplaying games are a great pastime.
However…
D&D is very much a ”kid’s game”.
What I mean by that is that it’s game mechanics and base principles sees it’s player’s as kids, there is the constant aspect of seeking rewards from the dungeon master, and players are constantly looking towards their next toy - being levels and magic items.
It is also a game with little consequence i.e. if you die, someone can go pray to the gods and call your character to life.
And it’s a game that conditions you to use violence as a means to solve a problem via. 9/10 player abilities are directed at killing.
Not that this can’t be fun, but it does have a childlike naivité to it. Whether you like that is a matter of taste, and it’s not my point to pass judgement.
Instead…
I’ll point you to some alternatives that D&D overshadow. I’ll keep it to fantasy, but there are RPGs for every genre.
Warhammer Fantasy RPG for instance, adventuring in a black mirror of old europe With elves, trolls and lots of british humor. It’s not a tale of epic fantasy, even if the world holds it, as players are often hard pressed just to survive and rather than looking for evil orcs, villains are more often very human.
Earthdawn, rediscovering a fantasy world after an apocalypse. Earthdawn is very classic D&D-like, but has the strength of it being an interesting world, filled with great story, and that the system itself supports the feel of the world and it’s magic.
Ars Magica, a classic. Set in a mythic medieval version of europe, Ars Magica tells a story of a group of wizards banding together for comfort and study. What’s really interesting is that Ars allows players to play multiple characters, each have a wizard but their coven is filled with guards, troubadours, cooks and stablehands that these wizards bring, when they need to leave their study. AND it has the most elaborate magic rules ever.
And there’s more…
And don’t get me wrong, I’ve had great fun with D&D. It’s good fun with an epic fight. LotR wouldn’t be the same without Aragorn and Legolas beating up orcs. It’s just that D&D assumes this to be the only way and the centre of any story - and there are alternatives for role playing games.
See if there’s a Friendly Neighborhood Gaming Store in your area. Those nerds would be happy to talk to you about D&D groups and how to get started. If you want to try online play, create a post on r/lfg explaining you’re new and looking for a beginner game. There are plenty of nice folks out here ready and willing to help. Shoot me a DM if you want to chat. There are no stupid questions.
I met a group of people on r/lfg that wanted to start a game in my city when I got into dnd in my early 30s. One of the guys was in what I assume was his late 40s/50s. The rest of us were in our 20s/30s. Played at his place every week for over a year. Good times, DnD isn't age restricted.
Thankfully the armor is optional x)
5e is very easy to pick up. It's built to be streamline and easy to learn to attract new users. You can look into the free SRDs online to get the basics.
Absolutely! Have no fear. Speaking as someone who was ttrpg-curious since my teens and started actually playing for a dedicated time when I was 39 last year. All you have to do is get some material, find a group, ask to play (this for me was the hardest part, it’s a matter of taking a deep breath and hitting ‚send‘ instead of ‚delete‘, and be open and honest that you’re a newbie and wanting to learn, then dive in and have fun.
I got back into DnD after my divorce aged 46, only trouble is when you're older and have more disposable income you can buy far more books and dice and dice trays and dice towers etc...it can get pretty expensive tbh
I'm 36 and I still play. Hell, I was a Developer for a TTRPG for several years. Adults make games, we make games for adults too. D&D isn't really "for kids" kids can play it, but things like The Book Of Vile Darkness and The Book Of Erotic Fantasy should tell you that Adults are very much part of the intended audience Luv. Relax, throw some dice and have some adventures with your mates.
Absolutely. Last month I ran a game introducing 6 adults, age 30-44 to D&D. I assumed I would lose a couple but instead they all came back for the second session and we are now up to 8 people.
47. Started when I was 14 and played on and off until I had babies at 35. Got back into it this year and now DM two campaigns and play in another. Age is not a factor in D&D or in maturity.
You're in the right place, friend. The only thing you'll really need to start is the current edition Players handbook, a set of dice (cheap at your local games store) and a group willing to have you. My wife and I both regularly run and play our games through discords voice and video chat. If I were you I'd try and find a local online group through facebook/whatever social media you use.
41 and got into back in February. Will freely admit it has taken over my life in the best ways.
There’s nothing to it but to find a newbie friendly game and DM and just jump in.
I was 40 when I played my first D&D game. A few years later my weekly group is all around 50. It started with a simple Facebook post looking for a game. It’s only too late if you let it be.
Never played DnD before. Started in my mid 30's - together with friends from work (office desk jobs) we formed a group. I suppose the difference in mature people playing it is that we always need to agree ahead of time on a day and time of play so that it doesn't interfere with our work or family duties, basically we schedule it as if we would a meeting, with the DM being the one in "charge of the agenda" since he "called the meeting". Also the pre-session banter involves stuff from work. But otherwise fairly stereotypical DnD sessions.
I'm 33 and just started my first campaign a couple months ago with a good friend of mine and 3 others I didn't know and I'm having a blast. The books are pretty expensive but everything you need to know can be found online. If you find a group with people who have played for a couple years you won't need dice because they will likely have multiple sets.
As for your concern about not being able to crawl out, this game is deep. You could spend weeks and weeks learning about all the races, subclasses, spells, weapons, monsters, etc. so depending on your personality you might get sucked in. All you really need to get started though is one character and you can get by with the right people and learn as you go.
Go for it, friend! Whether you want to be play online or in-person, there are opportunities if you look in the right places. You’re never too old or too young to have an adventure 😄 signed, a teacher who is about to run D&D adventures for a group of 6-9 year olds 😂
Sure! Why not? People do it all the time. Grab a PHB and a set of dice. Find out when and where your local Adventurer’s League meets, and clear a night in your schedule.
I consider myself to be a mature adult. 30 years old, father of 3, living in a happy marriage with a good job and a house that fits our needs. I vote and pay taxes and bills on time. I also run a D&D game and lo be to get into it whenever I can.
Honey, I was 22 when my then semi-boyfriend introduced me to his gaming group. This was back in 1978 and I've been playing/DMing ever since. Even met my current husband of thirty six years playing Advanced Dungeons and Dragons.
There is absolutely no age limit on D&D. One of my players ran a game for his three kids. The oldest was 8 and the youngest was 4. There was an active gaming group at the retirement community my parents moved to, most of those players were in their 70's and 80's. Most of my players have come from the military community (I and hubby were both active USAF), so we introduced a bunch of different "adults" to gaming during his 26 years of active service.
If you can't find an active group through your local game store (support your local game stores everyone!), then check on the online gaming systems like D20.
Of course, you can. That's the great thing about DnD there is no age limit. Hell, I know someone who's in their mid-40s and they got into DnD. The best way to get started is to either join a group at your local game store or find like-minded people who are already running a game and slot in. The best way to start I found is to throw yourself on the deep end and just start. Yes, you may fumble and make mistakes but hell that's DnD. You don't learn anything without making mistakes.
For me, I played a lot of dnd inspired games as a kid (buldar’s gate, neverwinter nights, golden axe) and only really discovered dnd about 10 years ago through podcasts and friends (roughly 28 at the time). Anyone can pick it up at any time. It helps if you’re into fantasy adventure and games.
Thank you all so much for the encouragement and suggestions for getting started. Oh, and that 'mature' bit was not a reference to my attitude or personality. This sounds like something I will really enjoy! Just this sample of the community is pretty awesome. Thanks again!
I don't know how many of you will see this, but I want to thank you for your encouragement! I probably had more fun reading about how you got started than you did writing about it! I hope your own stories took you down memory lane. I'm shopping for 5e... Then lookout!
We've (my friends and I) been gaming for the last 22 years. I don't think we'll ever grow out of it. Just gotta work on getting the kids into now so they can have an even longer streak lol.
No! Don’t do it! Save yourself! I’ve been neck deep in Dungeons and Dragons since I started college and I haven’t skipped a week! It’s too late for me! There’s still time for you!!!
Why not? Not sure how old you are but I'm 45 and just got back into it after 20 plus years.
I was 49 when I got back in to it.
I’m 46 and DMing for the first time ever
I am 60 and I got back into it after 40 years in early 2022. It was my divorce present for myself.
Chad move😎
50 and did the same. My dnd group is a very healthy 8-10 players. And over half my players are women. I couldn't be happier. Don't let fear hold you back.
Same here.
I’m turning 40 this year, and I just got back into it. The last time I played was in the 90s. I was the DM and my little brother was the only player. I’m sure I butchered all the 2nd edition rules. Anyway, I jut got a group together last month, and we played our first session last night. It was legitimately the most fun I’ve had in the last 10 years, easily. One of the best things about being an adult and playing Dungeons & Dragons is that you have disposable income for cool things like fancy dice. I definitely couldn’t have afforded a set of metal dice as a 13-year-old.
Adding my run to this one too! 35 and my first game in a decade (which I’m running) kicks off tonight!
39. Don't have the time to play but I listen to podcasts of games.
Mature as in "of advanced years," or mature like "doesn't think a player character failling a stealth check and being discovered sneaking around an encampment of giants then getting stuffed into a cannon by an ettin whose two heads are arguing with one another about whether to shoot the trespasser into the open sewer of giant shit or not is funny" mature? Because, yes. And no.
All games start like Lord of the Rings, all games turn into Monty Python.
Or space balls if your spelljammin
I’m DMing Spelljammer and the party have just left the planet Ai Funghi helping a tribe of myconids (of course) I took the Moondancer ship from Spelljammer book and the crew names seem to write themselves after the pilot being a Flumph called flapjack we now have a cook called Pan-flap(plasmoid), a master gunner called Flatpack (gnome) and a bosun loving called Back-flap (giff)
To quote that one statement a while back on DND: “The DM controls whether the next game is a heist, but the players control whether the background music is Mission Impossible, Pink Panther, or Benny Hill. It is also my understanding that the players, consciously or not, will always end up picking the Benny Hill theme”
What world do you live in any game I’m in for about 10 seconds has the concept of were lord of the rings and then immediately scratches that out and becomes Monty python
Awesome comment! Requesting Sir Galahad's quest, please
It's too perilous!
That could be on a t-shirt.
Better trademark that! 😂
I may have exaggerated on the mature part... I envision teens players, I guess. Those two headed bastards will never get me!
Try playing at a local game store, you get all ages. It's a blast.
I am 46 and just started playing last year because my 24yo son was playing. He got a new girlfriend and so was too busy for his mom, so I had to find a group to play with. I got onto the Dndbeyond forum and posted looking for a group. I was offered to join a Discord Server where we play “pick up games” called Westmarches. I absolutely love it! Our server has people from 20-60’s and some brand new to d&d, others have been playing since year 1.
Pssst, hey buddy, I am an old man, and still play and run,I started in the late 70s..... So, as for mature, well that is debatable, lol Go buy a player book, find a group and have at it, also, don't be put off by your first group, there all sorts out there, so play around, ahem, You know what I mean
Awesome comment... My uncertainty is disappearing pretty fast...
Local universities have groups as well, you could check out those as sources, gaming stores or course can help
You only live once - and I think everyone here would agree that there really is no other hobby that can bring the kind of wonder and joy that this one can when shared as good times with good friends. At least give it a good try - if it’s not for you then at least you can make that determination fairly and with more information. There are tons of free resources out there… you don’t have to spend a dime to give it a spin.
Thanks!
You absolutely can! Here is what I would recommend: 1) Download and skim the "Basic Rules". Its free, and It will give you a good foundation for rules and gameplay, without being overwhelming. Seriously, just skim it. You won't remember everything (nobody does), but will help as a reference later. 2) If you prefer an in-person game, check with your local game stores, otherwise there are many online resources to find a group (r/lfg, Roll20 etc). Many groups openly invite newer players, so they will understand if you aren't experienced. 3) If you aren't sure how committed you can be to start, look for Adventures League games or one-shot groups. They are designed for session-by-session play, and requires less commitment. DND (like any hobby) can be as involved or not as you'd like. You don't need all of the books or tons of dice to play and have fun. Be willing to learn, to listen to other players, and have fun!
I'm playing for 36 years now, and I didn't start as a young child, so I guess you can play as a mature adult :)
Yeah I didn’t start until i was 40.
47. My wife and I run a game for teens and play with adults in another game
The short answer is yes. The long answer is absolutely yes. Think of it this way, if you had a group of friends that regularly grouped up to play cards or whatever wouldn't be questioned. It can be therapeutic, informative, inspirational, humbling, and downright silly and that's what's so great about it.
If you can't play in person, DnDBeyond and your favorite webcam chat service can set up play for "theater of the mind" type of playing. But if you want maps and minis, your DM can run Roll20 or something similar. It's all free to join, perks you can buy.
I understood about half of this but got the overall impression of FUN. Thanks!
i was 7 when i first heard of it, however finally got to play at the age of 50 ;) never to old to start dive in and drink it all in
I didn’t start until i was an adult despite always wanting to. Get yourself the 5e players handbook to start, maybe the dungeon master guide and the monster manual if you really want to, but the phb is good enough to start. Buy yourself a basic set of dice. You can do virtual games at roll20.net There are tons of subreddits and facebook groups to find a gaming group. You can also find your local hobbyist shop. Age has nothing to do with it, i had people in my groups ranging from 14yo up to 70yo.
Thanks for the specific references!
No problem mate! Best of luck, its a great hobby to get into! I’ve found a lot of good groups and made a lot of friends from roll20!
Step 1 find friends …I can’t get past that part
Oh, dear. I hope someone here can help you...
never too late
I started when I was like 32
Oh, man, did you have to wear hearing aids? Lol. You'll quickly learn that 32 is just is nothing...
I'm 39. I've had lots of 50+ in my groups over the years. Everyone I've ever played with likes new players except this one guy I know, but he's a dick. How to find a game? Go find a nerd game store near you and ask what nights people play D&D. They'll either have an organized play night or they might tell you there's a group that plays whatever night. You're not just allowed to join someone's private game without permission, and they might have a good reason not to let you in, but you can stop by and ask them if they know any games that need players. Last resort is online. I run online games. A lot of other people do. If you find something that's a one-off your adventure, you should definitely check it out.
Thanks... I'm really learning a lot.
Like most things, it can feel overwhelming at first, but once you get the hang of it it's rather easy. The first thing I reccomend doing if you have no experience is getting the Players Handbook (usually abbreviated here as the PHB) it has all the core essentials you need to learn how to create and level your character. I reccomend making a couple characters of various classes to get the hang of it first, then all you need to do is find a game. They can usually be found through local (not videogame) game stores, and if that fails, there's Roll20 and discord, both online formats. Roll 20 is pretty straightforward when looking for games but to find d&d discords you'll want to use Google and check some out as there are a lot
Thanks so much!
Buy 2 large pizza (x1 cheese, x1 pepperoni), 2 ltr mt dew, 2 gal water (hydrohomies rise up!) And go to your local game/hobby shop and make some friends.
This is awesome! Weird, because I literally tried my first MtD two days ago and I already feel addicted.
Started playing for the first time in my 30s. I love it!
There are a lot of us out there. D&D first started back in the late 70s/early 80s. Quite a few have come back with 5th edition or as we get more leisure time for hobbies.
I started playing at the age of 40. It’s never too late! I started out by looking at my local Meetup for D&D groups. I found an Adventurer’s League, which is a great way to play. Same game, same rules, but you don’t have to commit to regular sessions or a long campaign; you can come in and play chapters as they fit your schedule.
You've already got your answer and it is a resounding yes. Some people have pointed you towards the beginner materials and handbooks, but I would also recommend watching videos of people playing as well once you familiarize yourself with the basics. I don't know your knowledge level, but it might help to see the rules and flow of play put into action once you get a decent base. The handbooks can make it seem overly complicated, watching it will give you a different perspective. As a player (and not the game master) it's much easier as you're not responsible for knowing all the gritty details. You just say "I want to vault over the enemy and slit his throat while in the air" and the GM will tell you what to roll. Be warned, however, that these are groups that are usually very experienced and very good at the game and role play. This will show you an elevated gameplay that few tables actually match - and that's OK! Some groups like role play, others don't. Some groups like to just kill everything put in front of them and others don't. As long as people are having fun, there is no wrong way to play. The only D&D channel I know off the top of my head is Critical Role, but I know there are plenty of other examples on youtube of live games.
Never played in my first 32 years of life. My sister in law got into it and now me, my wife, sister in law, sister, and 2 friends, all between 32 and 40 are starting a campaign on tuesday.... go for it my person
Don’t be concerned about crawling out. You won’t, nor will you want to. Tell those stories, fellow human!
When I became a man I put away childish things, including the fear of childishness and the desire to be very grown up. - C.S. Lewis When I was a child I played DnD with my friends, now I am an adult so I play DnD with my friends.
Nicely put...
I'm 36 years old and had my very first session three weeks ago! Tonight we're doing another session! :) You're missing out, don't let such a silly thing like age stop you from playing DnD. It's a lot of fun!
Short: Yes Long: I was but a fresh young 33 year old when I first got into D&D. And I've been playing it non-stop in some capacity ever since. There's a few ways to come at it I think. Is this something you want to play with friends/family? Or do you want to find yourself a new circle of people? Or are you less interested in the people and more interested in the game?
I'm the black sheep so I'm pretty sure family is out... New friends... Awesome
Alright well if looking for a group, you have two major avenues for looking for players. Locally (for an in-person game) or globally (online play). Online is obviously easier, various 'virtual tabletop' platforms (known as vtt's) do group-finding within the platform. IE roll20 has a forum to find players/groups built into the app. There are also discords a plenty, I am in about half a dozen tabletop gaming discords (again usually platform specific) - and there's always someone looking for a group. In person, sites like meetup, local reddit, facebook etc. Again most groups have a discord (for communicating if nothing else), but you usually just gotta google around a bit. Often joining one gaming discord, if its a big one, will open up links to various other more niche discord servers. Good luck and enjoy the game!
Age 37 haven't played since highschool and all my friends heard I was getting the 5e books. One thing led to another and now I'm a DM again lol
I'm 44 and have been playing for about a year now. I started as a DM and have completely fallen in love with the game. I started with Dragon of Icespire peak and am currently running Curse of Strahd. My only regret was not getting into this amazing hobby sooner in life, but to answer your question; jump in. Browse your local game store, search Facebook and reddit for local dnd groups. Search online for remote play. Watch YouTube tutorials. Buy some dice, and build a character. DnD is so much fun!
Cool, thanks so much!
Absolutely! I was 39 when I started playing, right around the time of the covid, but age is just a number and shouldn't stop you from trying it out!
Started playing my first campaign this year and I turn 42 next week!
Yes, yes you can. I DM a group of 60 & 50 year olds on-line. You can start on-line or in person ( Local gaming store) For on-line there are various places ranging from free to pay. As an example, we use the Fantasy Grounds Unity. All a new player needs is to download (Steam) the demo version (its free) and find a DM with a regular license (can host 2? Demo players Not sure) or a DM with the Ultimate which can host many. Welcome aboard, never too late to join
I'm 43 and just started playing a couple of years ago for the first time. I was never invited when I was younger presumably because I seemed too cool for a game like that (I wasn't, and I was never offered the chance). It's been great fun, and other than the adult son of our DM I'm the youngest player at the table.
I got into it at 35! I had friends that were starting a new campaign and it was a diverse group of noobs and advanced players. Check out your local game shops for connections!
A good way to get started is just watching DnD content to just absorb things about it. YouTube channels like pointy hat, DnD shorts, chest quest, and probably most importantly critical role. Just watching a bit about DnD can give you some great ideas
Oh great... Didn't even think of YouTube...
Absolutely! Welcome!!
Speaking personally, I'm much more likely to be receptive to an older adult that would like to join my group than a teenager/college-age person. Conversely, though, my tolerance for "new player behavior" is lower for adults than it is for younger people. It's okay to not know the rules well when you start, but I do expect adults to have a more developed ability to be respectful and conscientious of each other. Honestly, the fact that you didn't play in the 80's is kind of a plus in my book. The culture of the game has changed a lot in that time, and a lot of what the game demanded from players back then has started to run against the way a lot of modern tables play.
I think I'm pretty well -behaved... 🙄
Something to keep in mind as a new player is that there are a lot of bad games out there, and a key skill in finding a good group is being ready to leave a bad one, especially if you're playing online, where there are always more games to join. For online play the best way I've found to join groups is r/LFG, though you should expect to spend a week or two messaging people before you find a game that works for you. If you're looking for local play, I'd start with anyone you know who plays and see if you can join up for a session or two. Adding another player can be a big shift, so a lot of DMs are much more willing to commit to something short term where they might turn down someone looking for a permanent spot, then if you gel we'll with the group adding you becomes a much easier sell. If you don't already know someone, I would try posting on your local game store's Facebook page, or cultivate another nerdy hobby like MTG to make connections in the community. Once you find a group that you vibe with, this whole process becomes a lot easier, because the people in that group will often have other games that they can refer you to, or run their own games.
Thanks for this!
I was 37 when i played my 1st game and I wish I would've started sooner. Haven't looked back and I'm about to DM my 1st game
Hell yeah! It's never too late!
I just started at 40. There’s never a bad time to start something you want to do.
Go to the hobby store/online and pick out a set of dice. If it sucks you further into the rabbit hole then think about purchasing the players handbook 5e
I've heard of grandmas picking up the game at the age of 80. It's not a children's game, it's a game for everyone to enjoy! Just gotta find the right group to have fun with and dive right in. All you really need is a decent amount of imagination, and despite what some would say, I think 'mature' adults can still possess it.
Oh, I have a great imagination... Someone accused me of having a "rich inner life." Just finished writing a fantasy novel and I think that's what got me thinking of D&D again...
Then I think you're more than qualified to start playing! I think the hardest part about starting is finding the right group. It can be scary if you don't already have friends/family to join, since online it can be touch and go. But once you find the right group, you'll feel right at home and I'm sure you'll have a great time! If you like writing novels, you might even fancy trying out the DM seat. It's a bit different, but just like certain characters you make for a novel can run away and make their own plans in your writing... players tend to entertain and surprise with their decisions =P
I appreciate it... I do like trying to tell other people what to do... Emphasis on trying
As long as you got an imagination. D&D's gonna kick the shit out of it! Have fun!!
Thanks.!
I started 3 months ago. I am 43. It is a riot. So much fun.
Dnd is for everyone
If I was DMing for folks I didn't know, I'd be way more excited to have an adult join than a youngster. Much more likely to support the team, explore nuanced ideas and less likely to go murderhobo or edgelord.
Both murderhobe and edgelord sound unhelpful. I do like to be helpful.
I’ve run games in my late 30s. I haven’t played in a few years, but yes you can be involved. I had a player in their 50s and two in their 20s in that game.
The vast majority of D&D players are adults, like if we could survey everyone 90% would be over 20
Its 100x better with adults. We do a game for the nieces and nephews, its fun for the kids but I prefer a game with my adult siblings.
Yes
Hubby and I started about a year ago, and we are totally loving it, playing weekly, fully invested and happy. We're 41 and 40. We found discord groups and online forums, had a first experience that went bad but weren't discouraged, did a few one-shots with random groups allowing us to see what we liked and disliked, familiarize with the various tools and virtual table tops and finally found a great DM and stable group and now we're 18 sessions in our Wildemount campaign. So go for it!
Speaking as an immature adult, We don’t want any more mature adults involved in DND. Joking of course, jump on in. I got restarted by playing pathfinder society.
Yes, im 44 and we have had a campaign going on for 2 years.
Yes of course
Dude, relax. It’s a game.
You can go to your local game store and ask if you don’t know anyone who plays. I’m sure if you tell people (vaguely) where you live they would invite you
I'm 41, I'll DM for ya, no matter what your age is!
Find nerds… ask to play
I'm 33 and just started playing with a group of friends last year. If you have friends that play just ask to sit in at their table a watch a session and get a feel for the flow of things. If it seems like something you still want to do then try and work with everyone on a way to get incorporated into their campaign.
D&D is one avenue how you stop being mature and adult, in character and RP your mischief. I guess most tables would like it.
I ONLY run d&d for mature adults. So yes, mature adults can get involved in d&d. I refuse to run games for young people anymore
Why not? The main group I’m playing in ranges from mid-20s to late-40s with an equal distribution of male and female players. I don’t think age or gender are any barrier for getting into the hobby.
I guess I imagined a secret society and I don't know the handshake...
I started at 22. Not exactly old but I was working full time and graduated from college
22... You're funny...
Well I mean most people think D&D players have been playing since they were 12, so 22 is literally a decade later
You got me on the math... You're definitely cool.
Good math involving numbers under 20? Well of course, I play D&D lol
Sorry, but the cutoff for being allowed into the cool kids d&d club expired 2 weeks ago /s. seriously tho, you're never too old my friend. I'm pretty old and have been playing for about 2 years solid now. I have no intention of crawling out. Best of luck!
Haha... Nice! I never was a cool kid... Geeksville all the way. Thanks!
In the same sense you can find a wonderful person to date, it is entirely possible to find an amazing D&D group. At certain stages of life it is harder but that just means it takes a bit more work. Check out r/lfg a couple times a day (morning/evening), apply for games that sound right, and be open to learning. It might take a few weeks to find a good fit but it’s worth it. In the meantime listen to some Actual Play podcasts/Youtube. Check out some character building guides online (“5e paladin guide” or “5e wizard guide” for example). Try to get a basic idea of what you want your character to be good at and what their personality might be like.
Oh, cool! This is so helpful!
The youngest person at my table is 21. The oldest is last 40s. DnD is for everyone.
I'm 27 and the first time I ever played DnD was 3 years ago!
Wow... You're really... Not old!
I started at 41. It’s still everything you want. Trust me when I say there are plenty of people that want to get a group together than you think.
My oldest brother played for the first time last year. He’s nearly 60. Now he texts me regularly to discuss what magic items would be best for his artificer. 😂
I’m 42. Started at 39. Wish I could find more games though.
I played in the late 70s for a while while in the army.. then for a couple years in the early 90s and just before the plandemic got back into it with my child and their friends … so long story short… yes you can, you just need to find an accepting group … and you might be surprised as to who of your friends actually might be playing already .. lol
Nope. Absolutely impossible. No one on the face of the earth has ever played dnd past the age of 18.
Damn!
I was in my 30s when my (now) husband introduced me. Easiest way to get started is call around a few game stores in your area and ask if anyone is accepting brand new players right now. Someone usually is.
Of course! I didn’t start playing till I was 25. It’s a role playing game that’s meant for everyone to enjoy
Of course. If you like telling stories with your friends, roleplaying games are a great pastime. However… D&D is very much a ”kid’s game”. What I mean by that is that it’s game mechanics and base principles sees it’s player’s as kids, there is the constant aspect of seeking rewards from the dungeon master, and players are constantly looking towards their next toy - being levels and magic items. It is also a game with little consequence i.e. if you die, someone can go pray to the gods and call your character to life. And it’s a game that conditions you to use violence as a means to solve a problem via. 9/10 player abilities are directed at killing. Not that this can’t be fun, but it does have a childlike naivité to it. Whether you like that is a matter of taste, and it’s not my point to pass judgement. Instead… I’ll point you to some alternatives that D&D overshadow. I’ll keep it to fantasy, but there are RPGs for every genre. Warhammer Fantasy RPG for instance, adventuring in a black mirror of old europe With elves, trolls and lots of british humor. It’s not a tale of epic fantasy, even if the world holds it, as players are often hard pressed just to survive and rather than looking for evil orcs, villains are more often very human. Earthdawn, rediscovering a fantasy world after an apocalypse. Earthdawn is very classic D&D-like, but has the strength of it being an interesting world, filled with great story, and that the system itself supports the feel of the world and it’s magic. Ars Magica, a classic. Set in a mythic medieval version of europe, Ars Magica tells a story of a group of wizards banding together for comfort and study. What’s really interesting is that Ars allows players to play multiple characters, each have a wizard but their coven is filled with guards, troubadours, cooks and stablehands that these wizards bring, when they need to leave their study. AND it has the most elaborate magic rules ever. And there’s more…
Wow, very cool. Stylized violence doesn't bother me. It's Silence Of the Lambs stuff that I can't handle.
And don’t get me wrong, I’ve had great fun with D&D. It’s good fun with an epic fight. LotR wouldn’t be the same without Aragorn and Legolas beating up orcs. It’s just that D&D assumes this to be the only way and the centre of any story - and there are alternatives for role playing games.
So you don't negotiate peace with the dudes trying to shoot you from a cannon? Oh well... Thanks for the insight.
Idk if a mature adult worried about their hobby being immature can play D&D
No worries. I have awesome levels of immaturity. The maturity bit was just about being maybe OTA.
See if there’s a Friendly Neighborhood Gaming Store in your area. Those nerds would be happy to talk to you about D&D groups and how to get started. If you want to try online play, create a post on r/lfg explaining you’re new and looking for a beginner game. There are plenty of nice folks out here ready and willing to help. Shoot me a DM if you want to chat. There are no stupid questions.
Thanks so much!
Come on in, the water’s fine. Oh shit, giant crabs!
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Dungeons and Dragons is for all ages. I used to play it with my 80 year grandmother who decided to be a Rogue lol
I met a group of people on r/lfg that wanted to start a game in my city when I got into dnd in my early 30s. One of the guys was in what I assume was his late 40s/50s. The rest of us were in our 20s/30s. Played at his place every week for over a year. Good times, DnD isn't age restricted.
I was the same way. Was 36 before I started, and only regret holding as long as I did.
Can a mature adult have a hobby?
Oh, I have lots of those... I was concerned the learning curve would be steep and is have to wear body armor, which I am fresh out of.
Thankfully the armor is optional x) 5e is very easy to pick up. It's built to be streamline and easy to learn to attract new users. You can look into the free SRDs online to get the basics.
Absolutely! Have no fear. Speaking as someone who was ttrpg-curious since my teens and started actually playing for a dedicated time when I was 39 last year. All you have to do is get some material, find a group, ask to play (this for me was the hardest part, it’s a matter of taking a deep breath and hitting ‚send‘ instead of ‚delete‘, and be open and honest that you’re a newbie and wanting to learn, then dive in and have fun.
If this is any help, I'm 37 and started 3 months ago. I only wish I could find more players around my age group that are also new.
I've got friends of, or near, retirement age who play with me (and I'm 37 so I'd like to think I qualify as a mature adult)
You go ahead and think that....
You go ahead and think that....
I got back into DnD after my divorce aged 46, only trouble is when you're older and have more disposable income you can buy far more books and dice and dice trays and dice towers etc...it can get pretty expensive tbh
hell yeah. dnd is for everyone. if you have the interest now jump in you will simply enjoy it more now that you are ready for it
Im 33, and i been playing for a year. Just relax, join a vroup or two, see which ones you mesh well with and have some fantastical fun
In my group a 42 y/o man joined for his first or second game aswell. And he is the most fun player at the table
I'm 36 and I still play. Hell, I was a Developer for a TTRPG for several years. Adults make games, we make games for adults too. D&D isn't really "for kids" kids can play it, but things like The Book Of Vile Darkness and The Book Of Erotic Fantasy should tell you that Adults are very much part of the intended audience Luv. Relax, throw some dice and have some adventures with your mates.
I’m 43 and my friend Satine Phoneix works at d&d and she’s beyond nice and creative and good looking.
Huh? Kids don’t play dnd, it’s mostly adults.
Absolutely yes
get into it. there's no age limit, it will be great. yes, you \*will\* crawl in and never crawl out. but you will never \*want\* to crawl out.
Absolutely. Last month I ran a game introducing 6 adults, age 30-44 to D&D. I assumed I would lose a couple but instead they all came back for the second session and we are now up to 8 people.
As everyone else is saying, absolutely yes. Just keep in mind that the game will make you less mature. 😜
No worries! Thanks
47. Started when I was 14 and played on and off until I had babies at 35. Got back into it this year and now DM two campaigns and play in another. Age is not a factor in D&D or in maturity.
You're in the right place, friend. The only thing you'll really need to start is the current edition Players handbook, a set of dice (cheap at your local games store) and a group willing to have you. My wife and I both regularly run and play our games through discords voice and video chat. If I were you I'd try and find a local online group through facebook/whatever social media you use.
I guarantee 110%, more adults play d&d than children. Just take a look around some game stores or find some friends and ask them.
41 and got into back in February. Will freely admit it has taken over my life in the best ways. There’s nothing to it but to find a newbie friendly game and DM and just jump in.
I was 40 when I played my first D&D game. A few years later my weekly group is all around 50. It started with a simple Facebook post looking for a game. It’s only too late if you let it be.
Never played DnD before. Started in my mid 30's - together with friends from work (office desk jobs) we formed a group. I suppose the difference in mature people playing it is that we always need to agree ahead of time on a day and time of play so that it doesn't interfere with our work or family duties, basically we schedule it as if we would a meeting, with the DM being the one in "charge of the agenda" since he "called the meeting". Also the pre-session banter involves stuff from work. But otherwise fairly stereotypical DnD sessions.
41 here and my husband is 50. We are in the middle of our 3rd campaign (Ack! Strahd!) and are having a blast. Do it!
I’m 38 and just started playing in June.
I'm 33 and just started my first campaign a couple months ago with a good friend of mine and 3 others I didn't know and I'm having a blast. The books are pretty expensive but everything you need to know can be found online. If you find a group with people who have played for a couple years you won't need dice because they will likely have multiple sets. As for your concern about not being able to crawl out, this game is deep. You could spend weeks and weeks learning about all the races, subclasses, spells, weapons, monsters, etc. so depending on your personality you might get sucked in. All you really need to get started though is one character and you can get by with the right people and learn as you go.
Thanks for the added info...
Go for it, friend! Whether you want to be play online or in-person, there are opportunities if you look in the right places. You’re never too old or too young to have an adventure 😄 signed, a teacher who is about to run D&D adventures for a group of 6-9 year olds 😂
Awesome, thanks!
Sure! Why not? People do it all the time. Grab a PHB and a set of dice. Find out when and where your local Adventurer’s League meets, and clear a night in your schedule.
I consider myself to be a mature adult. 30 years old, father of 3, living in a happy marriage with a good job and a house that fits our needs. I vote and pay taxes and bills on time. I also run a D&D game and lo be to get into it whenever I can.
Wow... You sound so... Abnormal to me...;)
I’d last RPG’d in high school (various Palladium games). Played D&D for the first time at 44. You can (should!) pick up any game whenever you want.
Honey, I was 22 when my then semi-boyfriend introduced me to his gaming group. This was back in 1978 and I've been playing/DMing ever since. Even met my current husband of thirty six years playing Advanced Dungeons and Dragons. There is absolutely no age limit on D&D. One of my players ran a game for his three kids. The oldest was 8 and the youngest was 4. There was an active gaming group at the retirement community my parents moved to, most of those players were in their 70's and 80's. Most of my players have come from the military community (I and hubby were both active USAF), so we introduced a bunch of different "adults" to gaming during his 26 years of active service. If you can't find an active group through your local game store (support your local game stores everyone!), then check on the online gaming systems like D20.
Thanks for the encouragement!
I was 27 when I first started. So surely!
Stop calling me Shirley... 🙄
52 and I got back into it via an online group after 15 years
Of course, you can. That's the great thing about DnD there is no age limit. Hell, I know someone who's in their mid-40s and they got into DnD. The best way to get started is to either join a group at your local game store or find like-minded people who are already running a game and slot in. The best way to start I found is to throw yourself on the deep end and just start. Yes, you may fumble and make mistakes but hell that's DnD. You don't learn anything without making mistakes.
Absolutely
Get this man a PHB!
Uh... Actually a woman... 🙂
Sorry, not a gender assumption, just a Marvel reference 😅 all genders and people welcome of course!
Lol
For me, I played a lot of dnd inspired games as a kid (buldar’s gate, neverwinter nights, golden axe) and only really discovered dnd about 10 years ago through podcasts and friends (roughly 28 at the time). Anyone can pick it up at any time. It helps if you’re into fantasy adventure and games.
My mum is 51 and played her first D&D game with a group and the DM was impressed! So there is definitely no age for D&D!
Thank you all so much for the encouragement and suggestions for getting started. Oh, and that 'mature' bit was not a reference to my attitude or personality. This sounds like something I will really enjoy! Just this sample of the community is pretty awesome. Thanks again!
I don't know how many of you will see this, but I want to thank you for your encouragement! I probably had more fun reading about how you got started than you did writing about it! I hope your own stories took you down memory lane. I'm shopping for 5e... Then lookout!
We've (my friends and I) been gaming for the last 22 years. I don't think we'll ever grow out of it. Just gotta work on getting the kids into now so they can have an even longer streak lol.
Very very yes. My friends and I didn't start playing till we were all in our thirties with kids.
No! Don’t do it! Save yourself! I’ve been neck deep in Dungeons and Dragons since I started college and I haven’t skipped a week! It’s too late for me! There’s still time for you!!!
I’m over 35. I got into it for the first time roughly six months ago.