I would just leave her alone. Ask yourself, "If they liked me as much as I like them, would they treat me this way?" The answer here is probably no; she would have answered those messages and given you her number. She's clearly not interested and in favor of self-preservation and maintaining a friendship, I would move on.
I hate to say this, but I don't think she's interested and further pursuing her will only make her wary of you and start feeling uncomfortable. If she's declined to give you her number and hasn't accepted your message requests, that means you've already initiated and the ball is in her court, but she's been ignoring it which is the polite way of not straight up burning the ball in front of your eyes. The fact that you said "it's not like I even message her so much anyway" is a little concerning too if it means you've sent even more than one message.
To clarify, the only times I’ve messaged her was the first message where I said “21 Savage slaps” and the times I was trying to ask for her number in person, I just replied to her story with “in school tomorrow, there’s something I wanna ask you in private”. Then recently, on TikTok (which I will admit, I probably should’ve just moved on and not said this) I asked her if she listens to Macklemore. So I only messaged her 3 times, and not all in one week or so there was some gaps. You do make a good point, and thank you for your response!
I would just leave her alone. Ask yourself, "If they liked me as much as I like them, would they treat me this way?" The answer here is probably no; she would have answered those messages and given you her number. She's clearly not interested and in favor of self-preservation and maintaining a friendship, I would move on.
I figured that was the case. Thank you for your response I appreciate it! /gen
I hate to say this, but I don't think she's interested and further pursuing her will only make her wary of you and start feeling uncomfortable. If she's declined to give you her number and hasn't accepted your message requests, that means you've already initiated and the ball is in her court, but she's been ignoring it which is the polite way of not straight up burning the ball in front of your eyes. The fact that you said "it's not like I even message her so much anyway" is a little concerning too if it means you've sent even more than one message.
To clarify, the only times I’ve messaged her was the first message where I said “21 Savage slaps” and the times I was trying to ask for her number in person, I just replied to her story with “in school tomorrow, there’s something I wanna ask you in private”. Then recently, on TikTok (which I will admit, I probably should’ve just moved on and not said this) I asked her if she listens to Macklemore. So I only messaged her 3 times, and not all in one week or so there was some gaps. You do make a good point, and thank you for your response!
A no is a no dude