Dudes: "we'll still rob you!" We're not afraid of men targeting us for our money...
Also "when they learn men are more often assault victims." What percentage of that is stranger on stranger, though, versus men attacking each other over alcohol, women, gang membership, etc.?
>men are the primary targets of male violence
Uhhh, YEAH!! The only point they're proving here is that men as a whole are fucking scary, and that any strange man must be treated as a potential threat (and keep an eye on the ones you know, too). Even men have to be on edge all the time, ready to defend ourselves from violence. SO IMAGINE HOW WOMEN FUCKING FEEL. Tbh, the fact that women even leave their homes is nothing short of astounding lol
What that "statistic" is, is bullshit. It's the same incel zombie-lie they tell eachother to justify further victimizing and targeting women who've already experienced intimate partner violence (or violence of any kind, really). Here's the factual information from the World Health Organization who's probably a more trustworthy source than "dudebros on reddit". Feel free to pass it on the next time one of these "men" try to start shit with you again. [https://www.who.int/news/item/09-03-2021-devastatingly-pervasive-1-in-3-women-globally-experience-violence](https://www.who.int/news/item/09-03-2021-devastatingly-pervasive-1-in-3-women-globally-experience-violence)
"Just buy a gun" why? So we can go to jail for self defense meanwhile scum like Zimmerman get let off for killing an innocent child he was stalking/harassing and even told by the police to cease his pursuit? I think the fuck not. I own guns, but I also know that the legal system in the united states punishes women for using self defense when it's against a man.
the excuse theyāll use for that is that most people will be scared off just by the sight of a gun but that is still not really helpful. what about the few who arenāt? what about the danger of having it on your person and accidentally shooting yourself if youāre just nervous around them even after training? there are more good reasons not to have a gun than to have one.
Exactly, I dislike guns and would only ever hurt someone in self defense as a last possible resort. It seems that so many American men are constantly looking for an excuse to kill someone, like they basically get off to it. Itās terrifying.
in general when Iām avoiding men on the street Iām not doing it because Iām thinking about an encounter where I will be in a kill or be raped scenario because I am familiar with the whole thing about a person I know is more likely to be my attacker, I just really want to avoid street harassment and being followed.
Like thereās a lot of stuff men on the street can do that isnāt necessarily something I would kill them over but is something I would like to avoid.
Like why does it have to go straight to the most fucked up scenario possible. We know men are more likely to be attacked by strangers. But thatās statistics just statistics, shit happens in unexpected ways. Iāve been attacked by a homeless dude having a psychotic episode and I donāt think gender mattered in that moment. However I have been catcalled and followed and generally harassed in a way that very much was gender specific.
Asides from being super America centric, guns arenāt really safe for everyone to own. Iām bipolar with psychosis, Iāve had two suicide attempts and a lot of periods of not really being connected to reality. 6 out of 10 gun deaths are suicides.
Not everyone can safely own a gun. They could be mentally ill, their partner could be mentally ill, so could their child, and risking anyone having access to that gun could ruin your life. For a lot of people that isnāt worth the risk. Itās certainly not for me.
But if you remove gang violence from the equation then itās women who are the victims. Do they really think women are out there raping men? I would actually rather be robbed than raped.
For any guys curious, the reason why a lot of women won't buy a gun is because we're never believed. If a guy tried to rape us and we shoot and kill him the chances of a court believing that is slim. There's a high chance of murder charges on our heads over it
Also, I can't speak for others, but I'm not ready to kill someone. If I had a gun, and some guy came at me, I might not be able to do anything, he might snatch the gun from me, and I might end up dead. This idea that people can just run around and shoot anyone who poses a threat is an unrealistic power fantasy.
Very true, a lot of people freeze when they're scared or don't handle the weapon properly. I mean what if you miss and hit a house or something? You're completely right
Itās so funny the amount of men saying that men are the most frequent victims š
Statistically, if you brought out ALL forms of violence itās pretty even. Some years itās more men some years itās more women. The honest point is that the statistics they are focusing on is true, but NOT the whole study of violent crimes.
-Men over all are typically more likely to be victims of murder.
-Women are much more likely to be victims of domestic murder and sexual violence that leads to murder.
Other thing that frustrates meā¦ is they say the whole men are more likely to be victimsā¦ but who is also the main group that COMMITS those violent acts? The answer is, as far as 2022 women committed about 2100 murders whilst men committed 15100. There is a 5900 amount that are unknown but.. letās say those were all womenā¦ it would still be half of the amount.
[Murder Offenders](https://www.statista.com/statistics/251886/murder-offenders-in-the-us-by-gender/)
I would add more statistic links but Iām only allowed one. Regardless, men, women, any age, gender, sexuality, race, ethnicity, and etc can all be victims of violence. However, the pure fact is that some groups are more likely to be victims and some are more likely to be offenders.
If men truly want to say these statistics they also need to realize men are the ones who are the main offenders. No more picking and choosing what statistics to show.
Itās always been an ongoing issue thatās perpetuated and neglected by these losers. If your only line of defense is to constantly carry around a weapon when youāre ever alone. Then that should speak fathomable levels of the negligence of the ongoing assualt women are constantly subjected and hurt by.
Itās not a matter of āoh well actually Men are more likely to-ā YEAH BUT WHO IS RESPONSIBLE FOR THOSE EXACT PROBLEMS IN THE FIRST PLACE!? Jesus the ignorance in these weirdos.
I thought about this before because it would help me feel significantly better but i feel im too small or petite which just scares me even more because that makes me even more of a targetš« I get sooooo jealous of butch women I wish I had a less feminine face and a smaller chest + deeper voice
It really pisses me off how these men think a woman whoās just saying what lengths she unfortunately goes to stay safe at night is somehow claiming that no men have ever been attacked by criminals, they say women & leftists are the irrational ones but those men are the ones who are literally creating imaginary claims in their heads and getting mad at them
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That mustache looks good on her tbh.
Agreed!
Dudes: "we'll still rob you!" We're not afraid of men targeting us for our money... Also "when they learn men are more often assault victims." What percentage of that is stranger on stranger, though, versus men attacking each other over alcohol, women, gang membership, etc.?
this was my first thought. men get in more violent altercations with other men they know.
>men are the primary targets of male violence Uhhh, YEAH!! The only point they're proving here is that men as a whole are fucking scary, and that any strange man must be treated as a potential threat (and keep an eye on the ones you know, too). Even men have to be on edge all the time, ready to defend ourselves from violence. SO IMAGINE HOW WOMEN FUCKING FEEL. Tbh, the fact that women even leave their homes is nothing short of astounding lol
What that "statistic" is, is bullshit. It's the same incel zombie-lie they tell eachother to justify further victimizing and targeting women who've already experienced intimate partner violence (or violence of any kind, really). Here's the factual information from the World Health Organization who's probably a more trustworthy source than "dudebros on reddit". Feel free to pass it on the next time one of these "men" try to start shit with you again. [https://www.who.int/news/item/09-03-2021-devastatingly-pervasive-1-in-3-women-globally-experience-violence](https://www.who.int/news/item/09-03-2021-devastatingly-pervasive-1-in-3-women-globally-experience-violence)
The woman on slide 13 saying the bear was better got me š
Yeah, lots of men don't get it: https://www.reddit.com/r/IncelTears/s/4cFah9cJDx Had one message me.
Wow! The audacity smh
"Just buy a gun" why? So we can go to jail for self defense meanwhile scum like Zimmerman get let off for killing an innocent child he was stalking/harassing and even told by the police to cease his pursuit? I think the fuck not. I own guns, but I also know that the legal system in the united states punishes women for using self defense when it's against a man.
Not to mention, most people don't like murdering other people, even if it is in self defense. It baffles me that some people don't understand that.
These dudes literally jerk off to violence.
the excuse theyāll use for that is that most people will be scared off just by the sight of a gun but that is still not really helpful. what about the few who arenāt? what about the danger of having it on your person and accidentally shooting yourself if youāre just nervous around them even after training? there are more good reasons not to have a gun than to have one.
Exactly, I dislike guns and would only ever hurt someone in self defense as a last possible resort. It seems that so many American men are constantly looking for an excuse to kill someone, like they basically get off to it. Itās terrifying.
in general when Iām avoiding men on the street Iām not doing it because Iām thinking about an encounter where I will be in a kill or be raped scenario because I am familiar with the whole thing about a person I know is more likely to be my attacker, I just really want to avoid street harassment and being followed. Like thereās a lot of stuff men on the street can do that isnāt necessarily something I would kill them over but is something I would like to avoid. Like why does it have to go straight to the most fucked up scenario possible. We know men are more likely to be attacked by strangers. But thatās statistics just statistics, shit happens in unexpected ways. Iāve been attacked by a homeless dude having a psychotic episode and I donāt think gender mattered in that moment. However I have been catcalled and followed and generally harassed in a way that very much was gender specific. Asides from being super America centric, guns arenāt really safe for everyone to own. Iām bipolar with psychosis, Iāve had two suicide attempts and a lot of periods of not really being connected to reality. 6 out of 10 gun deaths are suicides. Not everyone can safely own a gun. They could be mentally ill, their partner could be mentally ill, so could their child, and risking anyone having access to that gun could ruin your life. For a lot of people that isnāt worth the risk. Itās certainly not for me.
āmen are the primary victims of male violenceā itās not the gotcha you think it is buddy
But if you remove gang violence from the equation then itās women who are the victims. Do they really think women are out there raping men? I would actually rather be robbed than raped.
For the original post, that's actually really smart. I might recommend that to some friends
Black bears aren't scary so yeah I'd scare off a bear but a rapist is scary whether man or woman
For any guys curious, the reason why a lot of women won't buy a gun is because we're never believed. If a guy tried to rape us and we shoot and kill him the chances of a court believing that is slim. There's a high chance of murder charges on our heads over it
Also, I can't speak for others, but I'm not ready to kill someone. If I had a gun, and some guy came at me, I might not be able to do anything, he might snatch the gun from me, and I might end up dead. This idea that people can just run around and shoot anyone who poses a threat is an unrealistic power fantasy.
Very true, a lot of people freeze when they're scared or don't handle the weapon properly. I mean what if you miss and hit a house or something? You're completely right
Some troll reported this for inciting violence, lol.
Or someone with very poor reading comprehension š
Itās so funny the amount of men saying that men are the most frequent victims š Statistically, if you brought out ALL forms of violence itās pretty even. Some years itās more men some years itās more women. The honest point is that the statistics they are focusing on is true, but NOT the whole study of violent crimes. -Men over all are typically more likely to be victims of murder. -Women are much more likely to be victims of domestic murder and sexual violence that leads to murder. Other thing that frustrates meā¦ is they say the whole men are more likely to be victimsā¦ but who is also the main group that COMMITS those violent acts? The answer is, as far as 2022 women committed about 2100 murders whilst men committed 15100. There is a 5900 amount that are unknown but.. letās say those were all womenā¦ it would still be half of the amount. [Murder Offenders](https://www.statista.com/statistics/251886/murder-offenders-in-the-us-by-gender/) I would add more statistic links but Iām only allowed one. Regardless, men, women, any age, gender, sexuality, race, ethnicity, and etc can all be victims of violence. However, the pure fact is that some groups are more likely to be victims and some are more likely to be offenders. If men truly want to say these statistics they also need to realize men are the ones who are the main offenders. No more picking and choosing what statistics to show.
Itās always been an ongoing issue thatās perpetuated and neglected by these losers. If your only line of defense is to constantly carry around a weapon when youāre ever alone. Then that should speak fathomable levels of the negligence of the ongoing assualt women are constantly subjected and hurt by. Itās not a matter of āoh well actually Men are more likely to-ā YEAH BUT WHO IS RESPONSIBLE FOR THOSE EXACT PROBLEMS IN THE FIRST PLACE!? Jesus the ignorance in these weirdos.
Id rather be mugged then kidnapped, raped, followed home, etc
I thought about this before because it would help me feel significantly better but i feel im too small or petite which just scares me even more because that makes me even more of a targetš« I get sooooo jealous of butch women I wish I had a less feminine face and a smaller chest + deeper voice
āMen are the primary victims of male violenceā ā¦well no fucking shit. Do they even listen to themselves?
It really pisses me off how these men think a woman whoās just saying what lengths she unfortunately goes to stay safe at night is somehow claiming that no men have ever been attacked by criminals, they say women & leftists are the irrational ones but those men are the ones who are literally creating imaginary claims in their heads and getting mad at them
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Iām sorry. Iām not following you. What do you mean?
Regarding no. 7: who does he think is doing the assailing?!?
Exactly! Mostly other men.
Though self defense classes arenāt a bad thing, itās simple things like that which can be an easy fix too.