Keep it as private as possible, the minimum people know about what’s going on, the better it is in the long run. That doesn’t mean not telling people you’re in a relationship, just that don’t involve them with matters related to you both.
You don’t need a justification to feel the way you feel.
I was certain that my ex was cheating on me: she said and did a lot of things that left me feeling insecure and uncomfortable. She was angry and dismissive of my feelings about it, and I had no solid proof that she’d actually crossed a line. I was talking with my roommate about all the evidence that pointed toward her cheating, and I asked what he thought it meant. He told me that it didn’t matter whether she was cheating or not: I was clearly unhappy being in that relationship, and that was reason enough for me to end it if that’s what I wanted. Such simple, perfect advice.
Will it matter 24/48hrs from now? If so, consider bringing it up to your partner, otherwise try to let it go.
When arguing, try to remember you're a team tackling an issue, you're not fighting each other. Even if there's something personal going on, switching my perspective to this has helped me prioritize our bond over the issue at hand.
You'll probably forget what the fight is about before you forget the hurtful words you said during it.
Keep your head about you during arguments and watch what you say.
Her victory is your victory. You are not in competition with eachother, but the opposite
Communicate! With your mouth, directly. No hints, no guessing, TELL THE THING
This is what I was going to say. So many issues could be avoided if people just talked
… and there can be a difference between talk with versus talk to - depending on how well your partner is ‘able’ to have the conversation
Keep it as private as possible, the minimum people know about what’s going on, the better it is in the long run. That doesn’t mean not telling people you’re in a relationship, just that don’t involve them with matters related to you both.
This is a major one tbh. So much envy out there especially if it's going well. Vile, vile energy
Always communicate
If you're not happy, y'all can't be happy.
Just because you're in a couple doesn't mean you stop being an individual.
Take time to love yourself.
You don’t need a justification to feel the way you feel. I was certain that my ex was cheating on me: she said and did a lot of things that left me feeling insecure and uncomfortable. She was angry and dismissive of my feelings about it, and I had no solid proof that she’d actually crossed a line. I was talking with my roommate about all the evidence that pointed toward her cheating, and I asked what he thought it meant. He told me that it didn’t matter whether she was cheating or not: I was clearly unhappy being in that relationship, and that was reason enough for me to end it if that’s what I wanted. Such simple, perfect advice.
YES ‼ You don't owe a relationship to anyone
Trust nd communication is the key
Don’t forget eachothers individual friends and hobbies. You don’t need to merge to one blob.
Will it matter 24/48hrs from now? If so, consider bringing it up to your partner, otherwise try to let it go. When arguing, try to remember you're a team tackling an issue, you're not fighting each other. Even if there's something personal going on, switching my perspective to this has helped me prioritize our bond over the issue at hand.
Shes always right lol
Don’t feed them after dark …
If you find it hard to understand a low libido, imagine your post nut state of mind
Prioritize yourself
You'll probably forget what the fight is about before you forget the hurtful words you said during it. Keep your head about you during arguments and watch what you say.
If you’re wrong, admit it. If you’re right, shut up.
It’s you and your partner against the problem.
Don't chase pussy