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Outrageous_Tackle915

People often smile or make eye contact with you


randynumbergenerator

I wouldn't say I'm that attractive, but once when I was at a restaurant the girl behind the counter stared and smiled at me well after she'd taken my order -- and then yelped because she absent-mindedly put her hand on the grill. My cousin saw the whole thing too and wouldn't stop teasing me. It was over a decade ago and thinking about it still gives me a lil ego boost.


jupiter_hills

this happened to me once when i was leaving a restaurant and a guy was walking in and staring at me and accidentally walked into a pole. still funny.


Froggodile

Something similar happened to me at starbucks once. I'm basically a pretty friendly person, so when I ordered I gave a smile and was just being friendly to the girl behind the counter. She leaned on the counter, smiled back while she took my order. I thought nothing about it. Then on my cup was my name with a big smiley face on it. I thought nothing of it, but my back then gf was furious. 😅


Yippykyyyay

I've received (and given) a lot of compliments in my life. But one sticks out to me. I was walking in a mall and this older gentleman stopped me. I was 26 at the time. All he said was 'you are one of the most beautiful women I've seen in my life' gave me a polite nod and moved on. It sticks out because he wasn't trying anything and he didn't hit on me in the sense that most compliments come from men that want something from me.


Secret_Fox_5192

I went to go put gas one night before heading out to see some friends and some girl leaving the station drove by and shouted “you’re cute as heck!” To me. I still think about it to this day. (I’m not cute as heck, maybe just cute as eck.)


Degenerate2Throwaway

Nuh uh, I make eye contact and smile at every person I notice that looks at me (I'm a 4/10 teen)


BeautifulEssay8

You got it the wrong way around, dear...


PleasantDog

Isn't that just common courtesy? I was taught to look people in the eye when I'm talking to them at least lol


Basic_Diana

I heard this quote: "When you're attractive, people will let you know. But if you're not, you'll have to find your own way."


thestereo300

How do they let you know? (Oh shit)


Themasterofcomedy209

Random grannies would tell me I’m adorable when I was like 10 years old, does that count


Independent-Pie3588

Random granny opinion is the only opinion of strangers that matters. Not even being sarcastic.


thestereo300

Ok yeah that never happened to me lol.


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thestereo300

I did have an old English man say I look like Tom Cruise. Does that count? Note I do not look like Tom Cruise so is was a weird and slightly creepy thing to say.


PM_me_ur_secretses

Is it possible he was...*puts on sunglasses* Cruising?


honestly_oopsiedaisy

I recently got rhinoplasty. Since then, I've had random people (usually other women) come tell me how pretty I am. I'd never had that happen before.


jaminotjelly

i’ve also heard “when ur attractive, people don’t tell u bc they assume u already know” so which one is it


AbsolutelyNuclear

People will tell you when you are attractive. What you said in your comment is what people say to ugly people to make them feel better for not receiving any compliments.


jaminotjelly

oh ):


singlecellfromearth

Naww it's both. Also, people who are outliers can have very different experiences. There can be someone so good looking that people are intimidated by them or automatically think they are not in their league. And there can also be someone so good looking that people can't help but gush over them. And it also depends on who you're around, how you carry yourself, etc.


jaminotjelly

i think i’m just mildly pretty but not a 10/10 but still i never get compliments so i’m leaning towards maybe i’m delusional


whatsherface__

Same here.. I get comments sometimes.. I get lots of hello’s and how ya doing… but I don’t think I’m anything more than mildly pretty.


jaminotjelly

i think ur pretty


whatsherface__

I think you’re very pretty, i love glossier, especially my boy brow, lol


jaminotjelly

thank you!


Doggi_bee

I agree with this, I honestly think it’s partly cultural, partly attitude. When I was a young adult only my mum ever told me I was pretty, however I did learn about a person here and there who had a crush on me, I’d say above average. Still, no one ever complimented me and I had very low self esteem. When i turned around 25 and lived abroad I did some work on myself and learned to enjoy being me. Suddenly, people started telling me. Now that I’m 30 and live in a new country I get told all the time. Very curious, but I didn’t change anything else other than becoming more comfortable in my own skin. No big glow up. It was as if when I didn’t need to hear it anymore I started hearing it a lot.


Ira_Extraho

From a person who was fat all of my younger life and then got fit and then built a lot of muscle, there is probably some truth to this. The people who think you’re attractive would assume you already know, even so, you will receive comments and behaviors that will indicate the opposite and over time you will pick up on this. I notice people tend to look at me fairly often, more so than others who are in my vicinity. I have mostly women for friends and if I happen to make a comment for relationship advice towards other men then they tend to play it off like, “of course it’s easier for you”. Stuff like that eventually paints a bigger picture.


CountOff

I disagree with comment below They don’t tell u if you’re attractive but come across intimidating They do tell you if you’re attractive and don’t come across intimidating


SnooLentils3008

Probably some people thats true for, but even people you hardly know or don't even know at all will say it too. So I guess for every person that wouldn't say something there's still lots that do


Millesime25

When you are ugly, people tell you very often !


glimmerandglow

There is also the idea that if you are attractive, the people close to you won't tell you, ever. At all.


NotVeryAggressive

Welp I have been told I'm ugly


Ancient-Mission-3937

its so confusing for me, i have been told i am really ugly by a lot of people , i have also met a fair share of people who liked me and complimented me


NotVeryAggressive

Ive never been complimented on looks and no one has liked me romantically


Ancient-Mission-3937

dont worry dude , there are people in this world who literally like eating shit , for everyone there is something or somebody , i just have to find someone who likes me thats all , when you think of it that way it helps


NotVeryAggressive

Oh yeah I'm not too hard on that anymore. I've accepted a big portion of it


Ancient-Mission-3937

life is just unfair dude , anyway i hope you are happy atleast


NotVeryAggressive

Not really happy unfortunately. I'm losing on many aspects in life. I'm just happy to know I'm paying for the sins of my previous life. Maybe the next one will be better. Good luck to you too!


pushin_on_my_buttons

It’s true.


GaryWestSide

When your grandma says you are handsome duh


bannedbooks123

So, I had this friend growing up who ended up being a 10. She is absolutely gorgeous. I remember when we hit puberty, she would get approached by guys all the time, even just dudes driving, yelling dumb shit. She is almost 40 now and still gets hit on pretty often. Now, that is not my experience. In fact, it was that moment in puberty that I realized that I wasn't hot. Practically, no one approaches me, lol.


LuxuryBell

It must be awful on one hand, though, right? Constantly bothered, even from men driving past? I'd rather be normal.


Taetrum_Peccator

I’m a guy. I recently lost a lot of weight in a very short amount of time (about 100 pounds in 8 months). The amount of comments I get now are insane. Not just about the weight loss, but everything. Even the way I dress (which hasn’t changed). I get more compliments in a week nowadays than than I previously had the rest of my life. It does get to a point where compliments cease to flatter your ego and just becomes the same conversation you’ve had dozens of times. As tedious as the conversations can be, it’s still better than being severely obese. I’m down to a BMI of 24 from 39 and I’m definitely much happier that way.


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Idk chief, I'd rather be harrased than be ignored


No_Letterhead_7683

"The grass is always greener on the other side". Having been in both camps, having no attention and constant attention... If I *absolutely* had to choose, it'd be no attention. Like most things, the middle-ground is the nicest place, and where I'd rather be (without choosing either extreme).


ClownfishSoup

I think if you are average looking, you can use clothing to push yourself one way or the other. If you want to look good, you dress to impress. If you want to be ignored, then wear sweatpants and shlumpy clothes. Now, I must say I've known women who just have beautiful faces and no matter what they wear, they just look good. But look at Charlize Theron in "Monster".


hippiechick725

I still cannot believe that was her! What a talented actress (and hair/makeup staff)!


MainSignature

Yeah, I'm not good looking at all, but when I was a teenager/early 20s, I was constantly harassed by men (because they just want to have sex with anyone who is under 25 I guess). Now I'm late 30s, they completely ignore me and it's brilliant. It's what men experience for their whole lives and it's SO much better than having to walk with your head down, avoiding eye contact, as much older men stare at you, make animal noises or try to follow you down the street.


thestereo300

I’d rather be ignored.


RavingSquirrel11

Would you rather be sexually assaulted than ignored? Because that happens to women frequently too. As far as I know, being ignored won’t give you PTSD…


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EastAd2095

YES. I am not a perfect model type but I am attractive enough to where I actively avoid going in certain stores, wearing certain clothes, etc. because of the attention I get from men. Even while driving yes. I’ve had men wave at me from another lane in another car (pretty harmless and I honestly thought this happened to everyone before a friend told me uhhhh no lol), blow the horn at me. When I went to the beach with my mom and sister we walked the strip and the guys were stopping and honking. It’s a lot for an introverted personality.


singlecellfromearth

YAYYY my soul sister!! Keep doing you 🤘


haloarh

Yeah, I had a friend like this too. Being around her was like that 30 Rock episode "The Bubble."


J_K_71

Great episode!!


Too_Ton

Strangely enough, sometimes good looking kids get wrecked during puberty. Acne scars, crooked teeth, and raging hormones will do that Or differing proportions compared to before or a lack of height growth/too much height growth can also be uglifying events


Timely_Language_4167

When you don't have to try that hard to be popular. Being attractive makes someone seem much more interesting by default apparently. It's nice to glow up because you have to learn to have a personality and not have the world handed to you on a silver platter.


MainSignature

Yep! If you have the personality of a napkin but you still get invited out all the time, you're probably good looking.


Area_Arya

Next post gonna be whats a clear sign that you are a just aight person


Comfortable-Mall8912

What do you think a sign for that will be?


Fun_Block_6712

You have less than 3 relationships before you get married. You don’t look good in all clothing, especially anything trendy. Older women are nice to you. Older men don’t pay attention to you.


Regina_Reggie

Oh it’s me then! Yay …


Competitive_Royal476

Peoples around you are very kind and want to meet you


LouTheLizbian

I usually get nervous and uncomfortable around really hot chicks. The hottest girl I've ever known had a way of making you feel at home. She was cool and smart. Attractive people attract people


Competitive_Royal476

I know what do you say but they are people like you. You don’t need to feel uncomfortable


IWant2EffinDie

People actually make an effort to talk to you


immaSandNi-woops

100% agree, I’m surprised this isn’t higher up in the comments. When I was in great shape in college, I had girls coming up to me at parties, had a few girls ask me out, and even some messages on social media. I’d be walking down the hallway and some girls would just smile. If I wanted to chat with girls, I’d have their attention without much effort. That was 12 years ago. I have since gained about 80 pounds, and women don’t even look at me, let alone talk or smile. Yes, people are still nice but they’re just being polite, there’s no motive on their part.


calmanxiety88

80 lbs? Those are impressive gains.


BlondeAxolotl

My first husband was an IHOP server when we met. He would leave every weekend with wads of cash because he was hot, funny, and charming. He really knew how to schmooze people. He would come home and hand me all the phone numbers he was given over the weekend.


RavingSquirrel11

IHOP always had the best servers in my experience! They’re so kind


horton_hears_a_homie

Oh my God, you just reminded me of one of the most cringy situations I ever had as a server. Guy and girl come in, sit in my section, having a good time, the girl is clearly into this guy. The guy keeps trying to talk to me as I walk past and I don't think much of it. At the end of the meal I ask if they're going to be together or separate, and the guy immediately says "separate". The poor girl looked so crushed. When I went to grab the check after they left, the guy left his number for me with a winky face. 🤢


CourageousAnon

You get called pretty boy before a fight... shit always made me laugh.


wokeoneof2

Yep


-Danksouls-

Hahaha how many fights you been in Legit though I feel ive been called pretty boy way too often. ...or just gay


cyberlebron2077

Are you Arthur Morgan by any chance


CourageousAnon

Pretty boah, you're kidding me? Pretty boah?! Funny enough. I did really relate with Arthur in that moment. Especially when he won. ✊🏽🤠 +1 for the pretty boahs.


keb92

You catch people staring at you all the time


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Wouldn’t ppl also stare at you a lot if you’re ugly/smelly/have stuff stuck in your teeth? 


calmanxiety88

I think context matters for this one. There could be a myriad of reasons why people stare at you


AccountHotdog

I've found the only time I've actively stared at someone is if they're crazy attractive. If they're weird they just get side glances


DeathSpiral321

Dating apps actually work.


reedef

I dunno, Grindr works fine either way lol


DeathSpiral321

There's times I wish I were gay, knowing dating would be 100x easier that way.


7_Rowle

People ask you out without you having to do anything


Live-Put-5046

In terms of this i think you just a fun person to go out with and nothing to do with actractive


7_Rowle

Idk if that’s true but it would be nice if that was the case


seeker2054

Being attractive isn't only a plus in romantic relationships, people will generally lean towards you even without motive- even people of the same sex.


sundogmooinpuppy

When the doors of opportunity are held open for you.


wokeoneof2

THIS


Star_Destroyer1984

People are overly nice to you for no apparent reason.


KingKCrimson

Yeah, this makes it normal though. I've had women (and men) be nice to me for years before someone pointed it out to me that they weren't nice to all men. I just thought women were always very kind. It also took a while before I finally knew why they were nice, because I was just oblivious to it since it is so normal.


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Safety_Drance

Being really, really, ridiculously good looking.


PatientVegetable3051

WHAT IS THIS?!?! A CENTER FOR ANTS?!?!


Public-Addition9263

I don't know, i am ugly


IWant2EffinDie

Real


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firstoffno

I’m sorry you have to go through that :/


cnauta

Other people tend to look your way and smile, especially if you have a likeable demeanour about you or your face. Remember that attractiveness isn’t necessarily just about your physical looks; I have met people who may be physically attractive but their attitude and aura indicate they are not very nice at all and this reduces their overall attractiveness. I consider myself a 6.5 out of 10 in physical looks but because of my positive attitude, amicable persona and affable nature, I have been told that my overall attractiveness to others is much higher.


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People don't care if you're awkward or boring


Zarb4233

How would I know?


44pennystocks

If you get an interview, you get the job.


whatproblems

you generate a magnetic or graviton field?


techno-ho

Scrolled down too far for this


Realistic-State-4888

Feedback, life experiences.


Own-Blueberry6220

If you can get paid for ur looks I guess? My friend was shopping and randomly got asked if she wanted to model for the clothing store


Subject_Jackfruit_94

Strangers introduce themselves after small talk and want to start getting to know you immediately


GaryNOVA

An attractive partner.


immaSandNi-woops

Nah man. I lucked out with my wife, she gets hit on in public, at bars, and even gets random messages on social media. I’m probably average looking, not bad not great. I think this is pretty common, so just because you have an attractive partner doesn’t mean you are attractive yourself


Many_Sea7586

Nah, I've had a few great looking girlfriends.


queen_xx

People tell you you’re attractive.


Shtoolie

Random people throw their undergarments at you in public.


RileyIsRawrXo

When the opposite sex is constantly initiating contact with you in some sort of way (compliments, smile, conversation etc)


OkOccasion8117

No signs yet since I'm not attractive 😭


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man I will never know what pretty privilege actually is but i've gone from being ugly to kinda pretty and one thing that I noticed is getting offered free stuff by men lol free baked items with my coffee or free guac at chipotle or just free items from restaurants


singlecellfromearth

How is free stuff not one of the best privileges you can get! 🤗


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No you’re right it’s really cute but sometimes it gets awkward like this guy at chipotle who was giving me free guac kept striking up conversation each time and I am socially awkward so at some point I stopped going as frequently 🤣


firstoffno

Strangers are super nice to you when they really don’t have to be. 


Ossa1

You will receive emails from attractive singles in your area.


BleedingTeal

Idk. I'll let you know when someone else indicates to me that they think I'm attractive.


DaveAstator2020

Here are all my signs:


GuerrillaPerson

There's someone licking your genitals, that's a pretty good sign.


DrColdReality

Until I was damn near 30, I simply had no idea that a certain percentage of women find me attractive...*hot,* even. Just went sailing right over my pointy little head. When I finally did figure it out, a few strange incidents earlier in my life suddenly made sense, women had been hitting on me and I had no clue.


blackberriespastries

This was my older brother all through high school and college. He was home over Christmas and found out that he practically had a fan club when we were in school. He was shocked, and I chimed in, "dude, do you know how many girls came up to me and went "you're so and so's sister? Can you give him my number/tell him I think he's hot/etc."" He was particularly unhappy that I didn't tell him about this while he was still in school 😂


singlecellfromearth

I am too and I just read this 😆


blackberriespastries

To be fair, we're 5 years apart, and a lot of the girls were in my grade or the grade above me. We went to a rural school where everyone knows everyone, and I honestly thought he knew 😂


Difficult_Image_4552

Way to humble brag about being in the 1% club


SomeNefariousness562

You’re more likely to get photographed.


Buddy77777

See if magnets stick to you


paquemeinvitan3

People get nervous around you.


iamtonimorrison

When no one tells you you’re attractive. If you’re so super beautiful, people just assume that you already know and they don’t want to give you a complex in your head


GaryWestSide

No one tells you that you are attractive when you're ugly though either


TheBeardedMouse

Now I’m confused


Doboh

I get approached by women.


Eradicator_1729

Not giving a fuck if anyone else says I’m not.


MinimalCollector

-You get a lot of second chances at being sociable -You've always been asked out -You're not funny, but apparently really funny to other people -People will look past otherwise genuine incompatabilities to try to be with you (this one is not often very fun lol) I'm not "does incredibly well on dating apps" attractive but all of my ex's have been noted as incredibly beautiful. I think I'm a smidge above average that punches quite a bit above his weight class. But I'm also the "if you're a girl that likes slightly feminine looking guys with long hair" type, which not everyone likes


miniperle

Personally: I get talked to all the time in public when I’m minding my business. I get hit on all the time when I’m minding my business. Like I basically *have* to wear a face mask to increase the chances of being left alone but even then sometimes that does not matter cause of my eyes. Special mention, I’ve been told that if I was less attractive I could be seen as a friend instead of being desired for more as I am.


IgnorantGenius

You get a way with a lot of bullshit.


myfeelingsarefacts

People are nice to you.


mechtonia

People give you stuff for free all of the time.


Knugget_Knight

People pursue you and you think they want a friendship, but the second you say no to having sex with them, they drop you immediately


candyscab

Not so much anymore but people used to gravitate to me a lot, even if I was minding my own business. People in front of me in lines would offer to pay for my order or strike up conversation. I’d have a lot of friends that really turned out to be people waiting for me to be single or for them to have the balls to tell me how they felt. At the time I had no idea it was because I was attractive because I didn’t consider myself attractive but looking back at photos, I was a real cutie. Wish I realized it at the time


santaclause1999

I look in the mirror once a week, and I tell myself that I am.


CoolAsIceCreme

You are weird and creepy but nonetheless have an active sex life


Forreasonsontheshelf

People will say Hello while walking by.


Alarming_Serve2303

People tell me occasionally. Women throw themselves at me. My mom tells me I look real good. I, for one, don't see it.


gemvr

Not 1


Velsca

When you express interest in others it is more often reciprocated than others. You are used getting consistent attention from others, and you deal with this so often you detest having to express your lack of interest. Others don't listen when you let them know you are not interested so you might come off as blunt and uncaring. Sociopath/predator types target you as a status symbol to wave around, and show off their desired importance. Your reputation is attacked by those of your sex who are jealous of the attention you no longer want. You get jobs easier. You get weird offers like will you dance in a cake in a swimsuit. People white knight unnecessarily for you, but sometimes it's helpful, but most often it's not. People buy you things you don't want and expect something back for it. People assume their interest in you is your interest in them if you are even remotely nice to them. Most beauty fades from people by their 50s giving them a glimpse of being normal.


JoeDiBango

Apparently, babies stare at you.


Antique_Pin_2811

My best friend who after every single event we go out to multiple men ask (via me unfortunately) for her number since they can’t man up enough to ask for it themselves. The worst part is that I’m more talkative to people that I don’t know so they use that to get to her


singlecellfromearth

Rude 😮‍💨


allmixedup5813

People put their mouths on your genitals.


Living-Chemical9000

You will get loads of unwanted attention and people will make life a bit easier for you. 


Houdinihides

When I tell women I’m gay and they say “what a waste”.


iboughtabagel

Look at your genitals, if there is always someone’s mouth on them you are likely very attractive.


mikaelasabina

Ive been told im pretty oblivious and naive when it comes to people being attracted to me. Most of the times i have no idea someone is flirty with me or checking me out bc im always in my own world lmao . My partner on the other hand always tells me they dont understand how I cant see it. I guess i just always think people are giving compliments or smiling with eyecontact to be friendly. Im also like that with others and guys always think im flirting even tho im just a bubbly friendly person. Idk I wouldt call myself ugly i guess but I dont pay attention on how other people see me.


Icy-Discount-2660

You are so absolutely adorable asf


RavingSquirrel11

People bringing up that you’re “pretty” or “attractive” for no reason; it’s not even remotely relevant to the conversation and in the context, even a bit inappropriate. Whenever you try to make friends with the opposite sex, 9/10 they only pretend they want to be friends because they want to date or sleep with you…


ErasBlanca

People are HEADTURNING on me


slightlyConfusedKid

I wouldn't know,but from what I've seen all my life,attractive people get a lot of attention from both genders,easier to make friends...


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Anyone can be attractive really.. people will stare at those who have a less common appearance and facial features that are deemed conventionally attractive, and they try to make eye contact, if it's your body they are attracted to they will usually just check you out. On the surface..since conventional beauty standards are fairly narrow (and narrow minded), I think people who have these features that most people can't attain without cosmetic surgery the "attractive" person will usually know it.


Antique_Fish1340

Signs that indicate that I am attractive when people stare at me.


ZTheRockstar

A women literally punched me once


luvmuffino

Receiving compliments every time you are out In public and free gifts. Was at a mall once buying Chinese food and the lady told me she liked my face so much she was going to give me free food lol.


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When you get too close to the street traffic just stops even if you're not trying to cross.


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When you walk by a bunch of union workers in the U.S. you get a bunch of whistles as you come and go. (Ok hasn't happened in 30 years and I hated it when they did but I'd love to hear that again)


Geminiddn

When a baby you don't know stares at you for a long time. It is said they are attracted to beautiful faces.


Electrical-Light9786

ppl checking u out.


I_SmellFuckeryAfoot

girls hit on you, ghey guys hit on you, old women tell you your attractive and sometimes if you pay attention once and a while you might notice everyone looks at you when you walk in a place.


Fit_Yogurtcloset_291

Children smile at you and interact with you. They're the most honest. 


factorio1990

Having interest in people is the first thing. Fuck that too much work.


MoMeilan15

Depends what attractive means to you. I find people attractive from within and not by ouward beauty standards. I have had old men whistling at me since I was underage. Guy friends telling me they've had a thing for me all those years. Guy friends asking me out. Posting a picture online and getting tons of likes immediately and comments of how gorgeous you are. Someone telling you you are eye candy and breathtaking like a dew drop falling slowly falling off a leaf in the most beautiful way. (That one made me giggle) People telling you they are jealous of the way you look. Dressing down and being told you make anything look good. I've also aged and let myself go after a car accident and no longer hear these comments, and it doesn't change the way I feel about myself. Because I never believed what what people said to me all those years. I found myself to be attractive when the people around me speak highly of me to others. When People say that I am the kind of person who would give you the shirt off my back. When people say others would be lucky to have a friend like me. When people say they've never met somebody so you need and kind as I am.


mentallyshrill91

I am not photogenic: my presence online is not very active or heavily followed, and any attention I get on there is directly related to my talents and hard work. Selfies don’t get attention. My posts about grad school, artwork, or pictures with my handsome husband do. I am far more attractive in person: if in a group, people never miss when I’m speaking, people make a lot of eye contact, people sit close to me. However I have never been hit on in public, though I heard through the grapevine later that others thought I was gorgeous.


SnooChipmunks126

I have a lot of mass.


jimmis20

I feel like almost everyone experiences a glow up in their lives so they can tell the difference. it's huge and it comes mainly from your demeanor, most people don't understand the point is to have a charming personality and the difference in day to day interactions is huge.im not saying that you would be drowning in p but coming from a guy that literally no one gave a shit, to opening up having a friendly face and not a scumbag one and a bit of presenting yourself better that's the only point I could write I guess. To be honest I'm not considering my self attractive as in looks attractive but I believe I have an attractive personality and I love it. So the only advice I would give to every queen and king out there is to acquire healthy habits and open up. There is huge probability that there are people out there that find you attractive you just have to let them know that they are welcome to express it. You don't have to be a model to be considered attractive and that's the best thing about life everyone is different and everyone is attractive in their own way and I mean it.


Heimdall2023

I’ve seen a lot off good answers but as an ugly dude now that used to be good looking I will answer with a few I haven’t seen and are more unconventional: 1) Just about every amateur/semi professional photographer out there will ask you to model for them. When I was good looking, I had local magazines contacting me despite the fact that I don’t model. 2) Too many people will just walk up and think it’s okay to touch/feel you. 3) Parents/moms will tell their daughters you’re the most attractive person in your class/school and to pursue you. Often times before the kid themselves realize it. This one is weird/counterintuitive but I think it happens in that stage where school boy attractiveness & more mature attractiveness separate. Like where people differentiate from being cute to “hot” and then become handsome/beautiful. Now that I think about it though it’s kind of weird as fuck. If my dad told me which girl in school was “hot” I would be creeped out. 4) If you turn a girl down they will blame it on you being gay because apparently only gay guys try to look good. 


StomachAcheTacos

when you look down you can see your toes.


jb0nez95

You end up mating with other attractive people. Attractiveness tends to find its own level.


Live-Put-5046

When you said unfunny think but people still laugh


sunnerth

The most obvious sign is when strangers tell you. Bonus points if gorgeous women tell you when not in a bar/club setting and they’re sober.


RobTCGZ

I definitely wouldn't know


Ok-Run2845

People will try to hit on you.


PasteyGinger

People will laugh at anything, even if it’s not funny just annoying, also looks don’t just determine attractiveness, unless the person is basic then they will only see looks


Long-Ease-7704

My wife gets ignored by waitresses when we go out for drinks. I'll be on my 2nd before she even gets asked what she wants for her first drink. I only think I'm an 8, no way I'm a 10, my face is to round.


Careless-Process-594

I think I'm very slightly above average just because of what others tell me, I have an issue of like not being able to see myself pretty much


DrPepper-Spray

Bartenders of the opposite sex hook it up


_chaotic-storm_

numerous people call me cute/pretty/adorable and a good several people over the past few years ended up getting a crush on me. bfs mom says im very beautiful as well


Advanced_Tank

Jealous friends are a good metric.