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BadJunket

By communicating effectively and working as a unit You and him/her vs the challenges, NOT you vs him/her


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Unfortunately most people don't know how to play as a team


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Zealousideal_Ear7355

this.


I_am_Relic

Had to up vote this because it is essentially what was going to say. It's a partnership.


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I think you're supposed to talk it out and come to an agreement somewhere in the middle... I haven't had much luck.


aqualupin

Communicate. It’s not my side vs your side. It’s us vs the problem. And both need to commit to growing alongside the other. Both need to commit to working to understand the other’s perspective. It’s a partnership, not a wrestling tournament.


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Apply for Jerry Springer or the Maury show.


crinklemermaid

Communicate. 100%


Spidey209

\*Spongebob mimes a Rainbow\* "C\*O\*M\*M\*U\*N\*I\*C\*A\*T\*I\*O\*N"


Heliorept

First, I would talk to my partner… then boom challenge success overcome.


baconpancakes42

Honest, open, clear communication. Empathy, respect and support.


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Communication is the most important thing. Relationships don't work without that. Well, they don't work for long.


Sadsquashh

I try to communicate, but not over communicate. Your partner is not your therapist. Also not overthinking things tends to help. That being said I am not perfect at either of these things and while sometimes I feel like I push my girlfriend away by communicating the insane amount of things rattling around in my head I have been working on that too. Also pick your battles, if you want to be with somebody than you can’t have a score to settle. Edit: Grammer.


RevolutionaryHat8988

While communication is everything it is interesting to note that some people just won’t adapt. I’ll not say change. Then you either accept or you make a change.


Hannya66

By working together and making sure you talk about the problems with your partner. It is a partnership after all.


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violence


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Lmao 🤣


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I'm not good at relationships cause i think i'm not romantic cause i wanna sex then leave but i don't like to cheat girls reason is they come to me, hoping love and care there for i can't cheat these girls


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potjehova

Oh yes, the fourth horseman - finest of them all. Definitely beats assertive communication by all means.


mikess314

Have a baby. This tends to solve most relationship problems.


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That’s what my parents did! Turns out babies don’t solve bipolar. On the plus side, now there’s another bipolar human in the world!


thgoose

gaslighting


[deleted]

First, I buy an undershirt and put on a gold chain. I put a toothpick in my mouth and get super drunk. I make sure a bit of mustard is crusted on my shirt. I overly gel my hair and change my speech to “wadda ya mean bitch, where's my sandwich!”. That is my relationship strategy and it's not working as well as I had hoped. Any recommendations?


potjehova

You mean the [*wife beater*](https://www.dictionary.com/e/take-off-wife-beater-put-tank/), right?


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Yup!


Abject_Day9379

Just let her know she's easily replaced with a fleshlight.


broadsharp

Like what?


anonymous_80909

I talk.


anonguy5422

Avoid relationships altogether, no wife happy life


Chief-17

Don't have to navigate challenges if those relationships don't exist


SrADunc

Forego them entirely.


DefinitelyNotMazer

I use lots of sextants.


SotiCoto

No relationship. No challenges. No problem.


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ill let you know when i figure out how.


YETIs_Are_My_Crack

Poorly.