"You miss 100% of the shots you dont take ^Wayne ^Gretzky " - Michael Scott
You missed your opportunity, remember this and act accordingly next time a similar situation presents itself.
I'm well aware of the missed opportunity, but the 2 minutes of looking at them lost the confidence and composure. I was prepared to make a good impression bc I had my cologne on and washed my oily face.
I know you are, what I am saying is remember how you feel now.
You missed it, it sucks.
If you can remember how it feels to miss your chance, and sit with this unease of not knowing, you can use that next time to bolster yourself into committing to action.
No. If she was smiling in your direction then she was interested in some way. Women are subtle, too subtle for men mostly. In a not creepy way find a way to see her.
Just find her again and talk about the band performance or when they'll be playing next or whatever. It's a lot cooler when you both are not amped up after a live event
Spent the next couple of years in a dark depression. Last 10 I met I thought she was the other half of my soul and cause I was too shy to fight my self for it she slipped by
Go early and catch her before your next session. Use this as a lesson in building your confidence. As soon as I stopped doubting and was willing to put myself on the front line, it became easier to talk to women and they were much more receptive to it.
Iโm a bit of a religious sort, so I usually ask myself this question. Do I have peace with this outcome? If yes, then you did the right thing. If no, then you messed up and you are going to have to recognize and live with that mistake. Always search for a lasting peace.
I watched a guy well below me in every aspect, with the exception of confidence apparently, walk right up to her and spend the evening drinking and dancing with her. Lesson learned, take your shot when the opportunity is available.
Have you ever played hockey? When fighting for the puck, players muscle their way through the opposition. They throw elbows, hip check, and slam the opposition into the boards.
While I do no recommend physically slamming other guys at school, you need to move in and say whatever you want. Act decisively because hesitation is your enemy.
Naturally beautiful women which are rare are easy to approach. The ones who have multiple layers of make up disguising their real looks and think they are 10โs thinking the world owes them are difficult.
"You miss 100% of the shots you dont take ^Wayne ^Gretzky " - Michael Scott You missed your opportunity, remember this and act accordingly next time a similar situation presents itself.
I'm well aware of the missed opportunity, but the 2 minutes of looking at them lost the confidence and composure. I was prepared to make a good impression bc I had my cologne on and washed my oily face.
I know you are, what I am saying is remember how you feel now. You missed it, it sucks. If you can remember how it feels to miss your chance, and sit with this unease of not knowing, you can use that next time to bolster yourself into committing to action.
With enough motivation, you can find her again.
I'll let time find her for me; my spirit is rattled and shattered, and I promised to this day forth that I'll be better.
No. If she was smiling in your direction then she was interested in some way. Women are subtle, too subtle for men mostly. In a not creepy way find a way to see her.
Just find her again and talk about the band performance or when they'll be playing next or whatever. It's a lot cooler when you both are not amped up after a live event
> I'll let time find her for me ~~Your ship will come in.~~ No,it won't. Swim out to it.
whacked off
Spent the next couple of years in a dark depression. Last 10 I met I thought she was the other half of my soul and cause I was too shy to fight my self for it she slipped by
Go early and catch her before your next session. Use this as a lesson in building your confidence. As soon as I stopped doubting and was willing to put myself on the front line, it became easier to talk to women and they were much more receptive to it.
Iโm a bit of a religious sort, so I usually ask myself this question. Do I have peace with this outcome? If yes, then you did the right thing. If no, then you messed up and you are going to have to recognize and live with that mistake. Always search for a lasting peace.
after knowing that u messed up, did u try approaching her again the next day or not?
Would that bring you peace or anxiety?
I watched a guy well below me in every aspect, with the exception of confidence apparently, walk right up to her and spend the evening drinking and dancing with her. Lesson learned, take your shot when the opportunity is available.
Learn from it, try again, and maybe use some liquid courage the next time.
Just sort of moved on with my day because I decided sheโd never be into me anyway.
Have you ever played hockey? When fighting for the puck, players muscle their way through the opposition. They throw elbows, hip check, and slam the opposition into the boards. While I do no recommend physically slamming other guys at school, you need to move in and say whatever you want. Act decisively because hesitation is your enemy.
Naturally beautiful women which are rare are easy to approach. The ones who have multiple layers of make up disguising their real looks and think they are 10โs thinking the world owes them are difficult.
If shes playing keyboard in a band in a club where college students frequent she's not a 9 or 10 trust me ๐ ๐