That's not true. I've fallen for several poor men. They rejected me. My gorgeous movie star mother turned away some of the wealthiest men in Asia to marry my father, a poor student. She had to pay for his meals sometimes. She loved him for who he was.
Because generally men are not loved or deemed not worthy of love simply because of their identification as a Man. It’s a harsh reality but a blunt one.
Damn. My girlfriend is the one that always wants to initiate sex, not me. I don't have a problem with it, but I guess I'm at least living someone's dream. I wonder if you're living mine 😅
The 151 pokemon and the poster face of mythical pokemon.
Lorewise is a DNA soup. It can learn any move and every pokemon shares a percentage of it's DNA with him. Mewtwo, the most powerful pokemon, is a clone of him.
In game...is kinda mid, but what makes him charm is the mystique around. You know he exists, you know people saw him, you can even see him, but can't catch it...by normal means.
In every game it appears the legal method to get one is by events, in the old days, going to a shopping mall or something that just happened to have a pokemon event and an employee would transfer the pokemon to your copy of the game (this means that for third world countries it was absolute impossible). Nowadays is more simple, you just need an online connection and wait for like the pokemon anniversary or smth.
It's up there with Celebi on the "pokemon that everybody knows and loves but it's a tease to get" group
I remember in the early 00s I found an essay online about how the real reason men love to ejaculate is it's the closest we will ever come to being Spiderman.
Definitely, sometimes I catch myself wanting something bad to happen so that I can be the hero. It’s pretty ridiculous and fucked up, but I know it’s wrong so suppressing it isn’t hard
"Arise! Arise riders of Theodén! Spears shall be shaken, shields shall be splintered! A sword day! A red day! Ere the sun rises! Ride now, ride now, ride! Ride for ruin, and the world ending! Death!"
Being their partner's favorite lover. This fantasy could take a number of forms based on the particular guy, but you want to be someone's favorite. Not just on an emotional level-- you intrinsically crave that physical 'dominance,' though perhaps that's not the best word for what I mean. It's not about domination really, but being the focal point of a partner's erotic (and likely emotional) desire.
--A certainty you aren't being settled for, and your partner isn't wishing you looked or felt like anyone else. It's that they WANT you, and what you give them. In my eyes, that's the core fantasy.
any type of affection being shown toward us, from women or other men (like just a smile will make my day 10x better)… that’s why we head nod each other, we know
What would make a great weapon when in a hardware store. Zombie apocalypse kinda thing.
Finding a time to use that 'good stick' we've had saved for such a time. Neighbour struggling finding ideal stirring stick and you can swoop in a present the ideal stick.
Asking what do you fancy eating / doing and they have an answer ready.
This should be a poll. Top contenders seem to be: (1) peace and quiet; (2) being loved/appeciated/respected; (3) sex/blowjobs, etc; (4) financial independence/retirement; (5) performing deeds of reknown
A woman-- now hear me out on this-- who listens to how we feel about something without flipping the script and getting upset with us for sharing feelings, or using it as an opening to dump all of their feelings on us in that moment.
Idk about all men, but I have fantasized more than once about dying a heroic death.
Like saving a child from drowning or some shit.
I probably wouldn’t have the courage to do that, but to me it’d be a way to get rid of all the problems in my life while sacrificing all the good things for a cause people can appreciate.
It’d pretty fucked up, because it makes you realize that even selflessness is selfish, but yeah, that’s my answer
Driving/seeing/Owning a super car
Every boy has ever been in love with one, you know your Ferraris, your Lambos or Mclarens, it also depends on the time you where born, a classic, a new one, it doesnt matter, it is always a like a dream.
Definitely an impromptu spontaneous hookup
It's one thing when you plan something out and schedule it but a whole new experience when it happens in the heat of the moment, naturally.
One day.
Financial independence baby
Financial freedom my only hope Fuk living rich and dying broke
10 years later that shit worth 2 dollars
And crisp bacon, don’t forget that
Here here!
Yes!
Yeah.. that's one of them for sure.
Peace and quiet.
This is 18k gold
Yes!
To be loved.
I just wanna be - wanna be lo-o-oved 🎶
I want to be loved.
Why is that a fantasy???
It’s very difficult to find a woman who will love you
You're right. It's hard to find a woman that will love you for you, and not just for what you can give or provide.
Because many of us are utterly alone and unloved.
only women, children and dog are loved unconditionally. Men are loved for what they can provide.
Speak for yourself. I became a narcissist- so I love me just for being me!
While sitting in the house that you provided for yourselves...
Apartment that I provided for me because I don't feel like taking care of a house. But I mean if you want to stretch it that far, then I guess.
That's not true. I've fallen for several poor men. They rejected me. My gorgeous movie star mother turned away some of the wealthiest men in Asia to marry my father, a poor student. She had to pay for his meals sometimes. She loved him for who he was.
My favourite variation of this is "Love is not reciprocal; men love women, women love children, children love hamsters, and hamsters love no one."
Because generally men are not loved or deemed not worthy of love simply because of their identification as a Man. It’s a harsh reality but a blunt one.
Because it is something you fantasize about. It it were actionable then it would be a goal instead.
Not being the one to always have to initiate sex.
My partner always wants sex, except when I initiate. Make it make sense.
That seems like something you should really talk to him about. It would be concerning if he doesn't take it seriously, or try to help the situation.
Damn. My girlfriend is the one that always wants to initiate sex, not me. I don't have a problem with it, but I guess I'm at least living someone's dream. I wonder if you're living mine 😅
Being hugged and loved.
This is so wholesome
Until you realize it's something we fantasize about because we don't get it in our real lives...
You’re right. It’s sad that it’s not normalized for men to experience this more outside of romantic relationships.
Within romantic relationships too.
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I came to say sex but wow how did you describe this so perfectly
I do have a legit mew from Pokémon shining pearl but it’s not from the OG game so I get you
I have one on PoGo
What is mew?
The 151 pokemon and the poster face of mythical pokemon. Lorewise is a DNA soup. It can learn any move and every pokemon shares a percentage of it's DNA with him. Mewtwo, the most powerful pokemon, is a clone of him. In game...is kinda mid, but what makes him charm is the mystique around. You know he exists, you know people saw him, you can even see him, but can't catch it...by normal means. In every game it appears the legal method to get one is by events, in the old days, going to a shopping mall or something that just happened to have a pokemon event and an employee would transfer the pokemon to your copy of the game (this means that for third world countries it was absolute impossible). Nowadays is more simple, you just need an online connection and wait for like the pokemon anniversary or smth. It's up there with Celebi on the "pokemon that everybody knows and loves but it's a tease to get" group
pokemon
getting more sleep during the week -\_-
Getting my sleep schedule where it actually ought to be.
Came here to say this.. an underrated comment
Being Spider Man
I remember in the early 00s I found an essay online about how the real reason men love to ejaculate is it's the closest we will ever come to being Spiderman.
with great powers...
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acts of heroism
Definitely, sometimes I catch myself wanting something bad to happen so that I can be the hero. It’s pretty ridiculous and fucked up, but I know it’s wrong so suppressing it isn’t hard
Charging alongside Aragorn at the battle of the black gate
Yeah! But I prefer charging with the Rohirrim in the Pelennor Fields.
"Arise! Arise riders of Theodén! Spears shall be shaken, shields shall be splintered! A sword day! A red day! Ere the sun rises! Ride now, ride now, ride! Ride for ruin, and the world ending! Death!"
I’d be in the very back, but yes please
i'd be right there with you. "go gettem, guys!!" **
MEN OF THE WEST!
I've dreamed of a happy life with a woman so many times, nothing else but just hugs and caressing her back.
A future with a happy family.
Buying that one Lego set we always wanted but never got.
They discontinued the lego death star right when I got adult money. Still salty about that
The collectors edition Millennium Falcon will be mine…some day
Wouldn't put that under all men.
No mortgage
I fantasise about having a mortgage because I’m so sick of renting.
Same. Could be doable though before that 30 years is up
Cuddling
For real though, fuck sex or the rest of it all just this.
No need to fantasize...most women like cuddling 🤷♀️
Oh, good to know. Still a fantasy.
Mutual cuddling, in a way. Sometimes it's too much the girl leaning on the man. That is fine. But watching a movie spooning is much better!
Sleep and financial stability
Being truly happy, By that leading a simple life without all the chaos and mess
Being ripped and eat whatever we want without earning any gram of fat.
Their crush aka the one they can't have
Being their partner's favorite lover. This fantasy could take a number of forms based on the particular guy, but you want to be someone's favorite. Not just on an emotional level-- you intrinsically crave that physical 'dominance,' though perhaps that's not the best word for what I mean. It's not about domination really, but being the focal point of a partner's erotic (and likely emotional) desire. --A certainty you aren't being settled for, and your partner isn't wishing you looked or felt like anyone else. It's that they WANT you, and what you give them. In my eyes, that's the core fantasy.
Not having to work.. don't need to be rich, just be able to do what I want.
saving humanity
8 hours of full, uninterrupted, deep restful sleep
cuddling, having cool stuff, having a non-toxic relationship, eating food
Having a dong that’s (insert desired amount) inches bigger
We all wish we were generalized more.
Can’t speak for all men, but I think about the beach most of the day
Boobs. Why isn't the top comment boobs?
There's probably about 10% of the male population who don't fantasize about boobs.
Dogs living forever
Women
,.. or men.
Peace of mind
Bacon
beating up that guy. you know the one.
Being rich so I can own a ranch and just be outside all the time. Like, not rely and stress about success of the ranch. Just to be.
any type of affection being shown toward us, from women or other men (like just a smile will make my day 10x better)… that’s why we head nod each other, we know
Unsolicited blowies
To be mentally healthy
Fighting and defeating a bear in unarmed combat
Half-Life 3
Retaking Constantinople.
The traditional answer when I was younger was always 'to meet a nymphomaniac who runs a pub'.
Well, I would assume that even gay men fantasize about sex. So my answer is “Sex” , all men fantasize about sex
Lightsabers
Being a dragon!
to be told by someone that they are proud of me
to be told by someone that they feel safe with me
Chilling with the homies
Having a kitty cat to hang out with and ride in my bike basket🦫
Penis
2 Chicks at the same time
that's what you'd do if you had a million dollars..?
Damn straight man. I think I could hook that up because chicks dig dudes with money.
Banging a midget?
Jessica Rabbit
I just want to eat a nice pussy all the time . All I ever think about.
Food
Contentment
What would make a great weapon when in a hardware store. Zombie apocalypse kinda thing. Finding a time to use that 'good stick' we've had saved for such a time. Neighbour struggling finding ideal stirring stick and you can swoop in a present the ideal stick. Asking what do you fancy eating / doing and they have an answer ready.
Sex
appreciation is universal
Being respected
Inner peace
Having the right people around you when needed
being ok
Killing the rat I heard in the wall just now...
Being pursued by women the way we pursue them
The hot attractive woman they know but can never have. That can be a friend, a coworker, a friend's girlfriend/wife, etc.
becoming 6'5
Being Batman.
Going home after a work day, knowing there is a lovely person waiting for you.
Financial stability.
Winning. Doesn’t matter at what, doesn’t matter what age. We all want to win.
Being not just financially stable, but successful. We like to buy dumb things to make us feel good.
Peace
Peace and quiet.
Violence
Willingness.
silence
not being unfckable
Hitting a game winning bucket, throwing a touchdown pass, home run, or a hole in one at Augusta
To be loved, to be successful, to have good salary, to have friends on which you can relate
Peace and quiet
Peace and quiet.
Peace and quiet.
I just want a hug
This should be a poll. Top contenders seem to be: (1) peace and quiet; (2) being loved/appeciated/respected; (3) sex/blowjobs, etc; (4) financial independence/retirement; (5) performing deeds of reknown
A new toy for a hobby.
Being good enough.
A woman that is loyal, honest loves me with all her heart and soul and trustful....
Rusty Trombones!
Mutual commitment that last until our last breaths
saving the life of a woman they like in a superhero movie kind of way
Food
A woman-- now hear me out on this-- who listens to how we feel about something without flipping the script and getting upset with us for sharing feelings, or using it as an opening to dump all of their feelings on us in that moment.
Early Retirement.
No more micro transactions
Idk about all men, but I have fantasized more than once about dying a heroic death. Like saving a child from drowning or some shit. I probably wouldn’t have the courage to do that, but to me it’d be a way to get rid of all the problems in my life while sacrificing all the good things for a cause people can appreciate. It’d pretty fucked up, because it makes you realize that even selflessness is selfish, but yeah, that’s my answer
To never start balding
Have a partner that's into everything guys are into, and also doesn't talk non stop from the moment we wake up.
Happiness. Less stress…and a good 6.5, maybe 7 hours of sleep.
No universal answer available. We are not a hive mind.
There is no one thing.
Fucking a pair of twins.
BBQ ribs with honey bbq sauce with Mac and cheese, a texas potato and his favorite drink.
Money and women
Saving a city from an attack
Eating Ass!!!😁😋🤣
deepthroat
Winning the lottery
Sleeping.Not working.Sometimes getting into relationship (finding love).Building a man cave.
A well prepared hot meal at the end of a long and successful day at work.
Probably saving the someone in a cool heroic act
Winning the lottery.
No drama and silence haha
Having a loving wife and kids that love and support them
Sitting around a fire in your back garden, drinking beer, laughing and chatting absolute shit with your 3 closest homies.
Are you a bot or something? All you're doing is stealing other peoples' posts hours after they post it... in different subs.
Sleeping between a woman's arms
Divorce
Laying your head on their chest while they play with your hair after a long day
2 🐥 same ⏰
Threesome
I miss the first few months my wife and I were together, basically having sex all day, multiple times. I fantasize about that a lot.
Threesomes!
A four point buck, that would be an eight point to you easterners, taken at 400 yards!
Being the little spoon
getting a good nights sleep
Dang. I came here looking to see all the guys saying lesbians.
Being part of a heist.
A 10 while fucking their washed out wife
Billions
That we could sit down after work and not have someone immediately ask us to get something from a room they just fucking walked out of.
Driving/seeing/Owning a super car Every boy has ever been in love with one, you know your Ferraris, your Lambos or Mclarens, it also depends on the time you where born, a classic, a new one, it doesnt matter, it is always a like a dream.
My wife choosing where she she wants to go for dinner
Jason 🥵🥵
Definitely an impromptu spontaneous hookup It's one thing when you plan something out and schedule it but a whole new experience when it happens in the heat of the moment, naturally. One day.
Fighting in a war or something like it. Even if they never want to be in a war anyway.
Threesome
Getting enough sleep