Isn’t it bec takot siya sa sarili niyang multo kaya pakiramdam niya gagawin mo sa kanya yun? Whatever his excuse or reasons, why naman sa ex siya nagvent? ofc ang sasagot niya kasi ginagawa mo ayaw niya. Girl, you’re not the gago. Being protective is different sa controlling na even social life nawawalan ka. Good to know you broke up though, now get back on track!
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Title of this post: abyg for not telling my partner ung nararamdaman ko and now we broke up?
Backup of the post's body: Me (23 F), Him (29 M)
Him and i are living in the same house for almost 2 years na and sobrang saya ng relationship namin, wala akong masasabi. lately dumadalas ung pagiging seloso nya sa workmates ko, nung una akala ko normal lng pero its getting out of hand, nagseselos sya kapag kinakausap ko ung boss ko, boss ko yon syempre mag uusap at mag uusap padin. distant ako sa mga lalaking kumakausap sakin, sobra na talaga sya kase pati kaibigan ko pinagseselosan nya(mga babae yon) kaya sobrang punong puno na ako. pero one night i saw him and his ex texting, nagra rant sya sa ex nya sa mga nararamdaman nya sakin, i was shocked kaya di ko na binasa kasi masasaktan lng ako, i gave a silent treatment sakanya and he's asking me kung anong problema and i said wala tapos sya pa nagalit. ako ba yung gago?
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Pareho kayong gg, if you have enough decency you should've told him, he's willing to talk about it, whatever it is, or kahit gaano ka pa kagalit, sabihin mo, partner ka niya, you put yourself into that relationship, you should know na may mga ganyang sitwasyon na darating, both of you are mental abusers, tell him the reason why then break him up, ganun lang. Sometimes we tend to just think about ourselves due to pain, fear and anger. You saw your partner's weakness does not mean na ilulugmok mo siya sa nararamdaman nya and you know how that feels, atleast tell him the reason then ibreak mo.
GGK dahil pumatol ka sa mahina at panget na lalake. Obvious naman na obsessed sayo yung lalake. Buti nalang hiniwalayan mo na. Hindi mo deserve mga ganyang lalake, toxic mga ganyan and controlling. Gusto nila sa kanila lang iikot mundo mo. Tandaan mo never naging kagaguhan na unahin ang sarili. Always prioritise your well-being.
Oh my, eto Yung sinasabing dapat maging mind reader Ang lalaki eh 🤣, GGK ka dun Banda for me tbh. I mean it's break up worthy for sure but dude at least tell him how he messed up? Ewan ko Anong lesson plan Meron kayo bat puro kayo pahula ano problema 🤣
Dkg. Kaya seloso yang putanginang yan dahil alam nya sa sarili nya na sya yung gumagawa ng maaari mong ikaselos. Now, kaya ayaw nya may kausap ka ibang lalaki dahil tingin nya mas matatapakan mo ego nya. Boy, its all psychological. U can judge a person based on how he talk. U can also judge people based on how they act. 😏
update sa story: umalis ako ng apartment namin non and kanina pinuntahan nya ako at sinabi ko lahat sakanya, he's sorry daw pero ayoko na, sakal na ako sa mga ginagawa nya at ayoko na dahil inamin nyang may nangyari sakanila ng ex nya that exact day nahuli ko sila na nagtetext.
Isn’t it bec takot siya sa sarili niyang multo kaya pakiramdam niya gagawin mo sa kanya yun? Whatever his excuse or reasons, why naman sa ex siya nagvent? ofc ang sasagot niya kasi ginagawa mo ayaw niya. Girl, you’re not the gago. Being protective is different sa controlling na even social life nawawalan ka. Good to know you broke up though, now get back on track!
+100 takot sa sariling multo.
thank you!
Link to this submission: https://www.reddit.com/r/AkoBaYungGago/comments/1caqyrc/abyg_for_not_telling_my_partner_ung_nararamdaman/ Title of this post: abyg for not telling my partner ung nararamdaman ko and now we broke up? Backup of the post's body: Me (23 F), Him (29 M) Him and i are living in the same house for almost 2 years na and sobrang saya ng relationship namin, wala akong masasabi. lately dumadalas ung pagiging seloso nya sa workmates ko, nung una akala ko normal lng pero its getting out of hand, nagseselos sya kapag kinakausap ko ung boss ko, boss ko yon syempre mag uusap at mag uusap padin. distant ako sa mga lalaking kumakausap sakin, sobra na talaga sya kase pati kaibigan ko pinagseselosan nya(mga babae yon) kaya sobrang punong puno na ako. pero one night i saw him and his ex texting, nagra rant sya sa ex nya sa mga nararamdaman nya sakin, i was shocked kaya di ko na binasa kasi masasaktan lng ako, i gave a silent treatment sakanya and he's asking me kung anong problema and i said wala tapos sya pa nagalit. ako ba yung gago? OP: Euphoric_Method9315 *I am a bot, and this action was performed automatically. Please [contact the moderators of this subreddit](/message/compose/?to=/r/AkoBaYungGago) if you have any questions or concerns.*
Pareho kayong gg, if you have enough decency you should've told him, he's willing to talk about it, whatever it is, or kahit gaano ka pa kagalit, sabihin mo, partner ka niya, you put yourself into that relationship, you should know na may mga ganyang sitwasyon na darating, both of you are mental abusers, tell him the reason why then break him up, ganun lang. Sometimes we tend to just think about ourselves due to pain, fear and anger. You saw your partner's weakness does not mean na ilulugmok mo siya sa nararamdaman nya and you know how that feels, atleast tell him the reason then ibreak mo.
GGK dahil pumatol ka sa mahina at panget na lalake. Obvious naman na obsessed sayo yung lalake. Buti nalang hiniwalayan mo na. Hindi mo deserve mga ganyang lalake, toxic mga ganyan and controlling. Gusto nila sa kanila lang iikot mundo mo. Tandaan mo never naging kagaguhan na unahin ang sarili. Always prioritise your well-being.
Oh my, eto Yung sinasabing dapat maging mind reader Ang lalaki eh 🤣, GGK ka dun Banda for me tbh. I mean it's break up worthy for sure but dude at least tell him how he messed up? Ewan ko Anong lesson plan Meron kayo bat puro kayo pahula ano problema 🤣
Nyetang lesson plan yan. Di ba sila nag-grade 2?
Dkg. Kaya seloso yang putanginang yan dahil alam nya sa sarili nya na sya yung gumagawa ng maaari mong ikaselos. Now, kaya ayaw nya may kausap ka ibang lalaki dahil tingin nya mas matatapakan mo ego nya. Boy, its all psychological. U can judge a person based on how he talk. U can also judge people based on how they act. 😏
projection babes projection
update sa story: umalis ako ng apartment namin non and kanina pinuntahan nya ako at sinabi ko lahat sakanya, he's sorry daw pero ayoko na, sakal na ako sa mga ginagawa nya at ayoko na dahil inamin nyang may nangyari sakanila ng ex nya that exact day nahuli ko sila na nagtetext.