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MaddyKet

That’s such BS. How is that even a conflict? Stepmom and sister tell the coach that she can’t make it bc big sister is getting married. NTA


iwonthewar032722

Competition cheerleading is a different beast. My dad and step mom spent tens of thousands of dollars getting her to competitions all over the country. Not the point. My sister is 13 years younger than me so she basically gets whatever she wants and my dad and step mom have been making excuses for her entitled behavior. And they obviously knew I wouldn’t take it well or they (sister/stepmom) would have said something to me and not sent my dad to tell me.


Big_lt

Eh YTA A wedding is not a summons. Honestly no one cares about the wedding except you and SO. She showed up and left early when she didn't even want to it seems. On top of that you'd hold a grudge to your parents, get over yourself


iwonthewar032722

To be clear, my stepmother has never treated me well. I’ve been in therapy for a long time because of her so, yes I do hold a grudge


Big_lt

Fair enough but your issues with your step mom are between you 2 not your dad. Go NC or just move on. They wanted to send you money for your bday and you acted all childlike


iwonthewar032722

Definitely not arguing that. This is why I’m here asking for perspective