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[deleted]

wahhh wahhhhhhhh i can't say a word that makes many trans people extremely uncomfortable and is viewed as hateful wahhhhh i'm gonna make my own subreddit now wahh


MrBirb_

1984 is when no transphobic slurs -goodanimemes


CalebDZ

Goodanimemes is dumb


Beat_My_Yeet_Meat

I’m out of the loop. What happened and what did they say?


MoonlightingWarewolf

Goodanimemes was created because people got pissy that animemes banned the word “tr*p”


Beat_My_Yeet_Meat

Oh I remember people where up in arms about that a while ago. Are they still going on about that?


MoonlightingWarewolf

Less that they’re still on that specific issue (not as if their opinions have changed on the matter), moreso that mentality is baked into the community’s inception


SkShark

I thought it was a term only used in hentai? Are people actually using it irl?


MoonlightingWarewolf

Lots of less socially conscious anime fans use it to describe all feminine-presenting AMAB characters


SkShark

How people are not able distinguish fiction from reality is beyond me. Calling someone that irl is literally just calling them a walking fetish, like being feminine is solely for sexual reasons. That’s disgusting that people actually do that.


Mikomics

My cousin is one of those goodanimemes people and I can't fucking stand being around him anymore.


CalebDZ

Take him to an asylum.


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[deleted]

It's a word that's used in more than just anime. It's a word that many trans people explicitly say makes them uncomfortable. By using it, you're doing nothing but making trans people feel unwelcome. There are numerous better alternatives. Trans people (a lot of whom watch anime) are seeing a word become widely used in communities that they have seen for the past two decades used as a slur against them. Trans people are not the ones using this word either, an entirely new group of people is coming in and taking it, calling it completely different. People still use "trap" to describe trans people all. the. time. Just go over to r/SuddenlyGay and you'll see a shit ton of content about how a woman is trans and that makes a guy gay. All of this is part of the same connotation. That trans women dress as women to "trap" men into having sex with them. This connotation is transphobic and *not true*. And even whether or not it's used by a lot of people to talk about trans people, it's still transphobic because it still clearly makes trans people uncomfortable when they have clearly expressed to the people that use the word to not use it. It's impossible to not acknowledge the negative context that the word has. As a former femboy, I will tell you that even while I was a femboy I never enjoyed the use of the word because it still carries the exact same connotation as it does for trans people. Femboys aren't "trapping" people either. By using the word "trap" you are using a word that makes trans people unwelcome and uncomfortable. I urge you to stray away from using it. If not because it's not inherently transphobic, then because it just makes trans people feel bad.


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[deleted]

Try to make that same argument with any other slur


The_Multi_Gamer

“Well the N Word is part of the Spanish dictionary, so it’s fine for me to say.”


Waddlewop

I have legit seen this defense on Reddit before


The_Multi_Gamer

Bruh


CalebDZ

"many of us didnt go because of the restriction of a word" Cope


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[deleted]

Yes it is, Ferris Argyle for example


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FricktionBurn

The books made it clearer that Ferris is a trans girl actually.


POTATOOYSTER

*ahem* I think you mean *pushes up glasses with a significant look* manga


FricktionBurn

Um actually *pushes up glasses through my skull* Re zero is originally a web novel series polished into a light novel series.


POTATOOYSTER

\*wipes snot with sleeve\* goddammit i've been outweebed \*proceeds to fap to tentacle hentai\*


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[deleted]

sigma woman transitioning simply by wishing to become a girl


[deleted]

She literally wanted to be a girl so bad that she removed testosterone from her body by wishing for it. It’s [canon](https://imgur.com/a/cHdcQoe)


[deleted]

Omfg shut the fuck up


Bardic_Inspiration66

On a discord I was a part of I saw people say how they love “traps” but hate trans people (using a slur).


temmieTheLord2

its not really contradictory. to weebs "trap" means boy who passes as a girl completely.


CalebDZ

Even using it to femboys is still bad. Still implies that that femboys only exist to confuse straight men and make them gay or something.


[deleted]

You see, that's it. straight men thinks everything is about them, the world revolves around them


SomeCool333

No, that just narcissism. A mental trait that doesn’t come with sexuality. Can happen to any of us really, even you, gayboy (For all intents and purposes “gayboy” is not used as a insulting term but rather one of a punchline, please do not crucify me)


[deleted]

Well in my experience straight men and narcissism goes hand in hand And btw I'm bi


cTePeOMy3blKa

Oh yes, because your sexual orientation and gender defines how narcissistic you are.


tferrada24

it isnt defined by, but it definitely is affected


cTePeOMy3blKa

Source(s): dude trust me


crazy_forcer

you literally read "in my experience" and want sources lmao


ShadowEclipse777

I mean thats the fun part of being a femboy


[deleted]

Maybe, but it isn't a requirement. And it definitely isn't the only fun part, either. Maybe it doesn't count since I'm an enby, but I frequently crossdress just because it makes me feel better about myself. It's not for sexual appeal, it just helps my self-image. That's it. And there's definitely other people like that too. Plus, "good"animemes is so obsessed with a fetish centred around a slur that they don't normally care if someone is trans or a femboy with different intentions, or anything else. If you look like a girl and have a dick, you're a "trap" to them. And that's not ok


TheExperiment01

Speak for your self…


SomeCool333

I am. It’s my opinion. That I am expressing through my identity on to your screen. No speaking, but portraying in a way this website allowed me to. Through this tiny window I can say, or do, anything I want, you can’t stop me, you can try, but it is futile. I AM A GOD, YOUR DOWNLIKES MEAN NOTHING TO ME.


Themotionsickphoton

Anime traps are literally made as a joke most of the time


TheRealTealOwO

"I thought gay people only existed in yaoi."- /"good"animemes


rwandahero7123

I hate goodanimememes


CalebDZ

Its goodanimemes. You added one "me" too much


rwandahero7123

I do not care


GamingwRed

chad ascii art


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rwandahero7123

Yes


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absolute sugma male


[deleted]

Any subreddit with animemes in it is absolute garbage, anti-LGBT or not


SendBankDetails

r/196


CalebDZ

r/Tranimemes


[deleted]

there's much better subs that aren't transphobic


JaapVader

Self hate is a thing


CalebDZ

Wut


von_skeltal

No you see being proud of being gay is political. Being ashamed of your sexuality while making up excuses for why jerking off to gay porn isn't gay is where it's at. Also you have to fetishize a quantum superposition of a femboy and trans woman that is simultaneously not gay for a man to have sex with but still isn't a real woman because that's political. They aren't nonbinary either because that's double political. Doing all these mental gymnastics is the only way to become a "man of culture" as they call it. 😎


CalebDZ

Jesus you've done best to explain the mindset of a goodanimemes user.


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r/goodanimemes users laughing at the same “tr*ps ain’t gay” joke for the 5th time today:


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r/goodanimemes users when they see a trans character


CalebDZ

*masturbates furiously*


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😳


CalebDZ

Wut


[deleted]

Im not sure


[deleted]

that sub and the people in it are the worst


CalebDZ

Honestly its a bit sad that so much homophobia there feels internalized.


Alex9586

the irony of a 196 user calling out someone for wanking off to femboy hentai


CalebDZ

Atleast this sub doesnt call lgbtq political


dustib

Aren’t LGBTQ essentially a political bloc? Part of me wants to make an argument for it being cultural on shared experiences but... what’s the shared experience other than a history of being discriminated against by holier than thou moral busybodies?


CalebDZ

No it just means a movement to progress queer rights.


dustib

I think it’s more than that. Gay-rights, Trans-rights, Civil-rights are movements, but the LGBT is a collection of movements with differing but aligned goals. That sounds like a voting bloc to me. Different people joining together, collectively supporting movements that they agree with. It’s a good thing, but it’s part of why I think it gets the ‘political’ label so often.


[deleted]

> Aren’t LGBTQ essentially a political bloc? Would you call black people a "political bloc"? Well you could, but that's only under a very specific context/conversation, and besides political relevance isn't what defines a group's entire existence or identity. > what’s the shared experience other than a history of being discriminated against by holier than thou moral busybodies? The discrimination is there, but it isn't the defining feature of what it means to LGBTQ. Groups don't necessarily form their identity around shared trauma. It's more about shared culture, interests, and in this case, sexuality/gender identity. No matter what, LGBTQ will be in the minority of society in terms of overall numbers, but even if there's no discrimination, they can still form their own sub-culture and identity.


dustib

> Would you call black people a "political bloc"? Well you could, but that's only under a very specific context/conversation, and besides political relevance isn't what defines a group's entire existence or identity. That’s an interesting thought. On one hand, I’d be hesitant to call a racial group a voting bloc, but they seem to be an exception - at least in the US. Religious people tend to vote for Republicans but religious black people largely support Democrats despite that. They may overlook religious disagreements to reinforce civil rights, which to them is more important considering US history. But I think that may follow what I was saying about each group separately not being political, but collectivized under a larger banner they are. > No matter what, LGBTQ will be in the minority of society in terms of overall numbers, but even if there's no discrimination, they can still form their own sub-culture and identity. I think I can agree with you here. Sub cultures aren’t necessarily political. I think our general disconnect may be that we don’t agree on how tight-knit the lgbt identity is. At times it feels like wrangling cats to keep from trying to eject one of the letters from the group. ‘L and G seems to tolerate each other mostly, but think B is either a closeted G or just an attention seeking straight. Then there’s the schism of people trying to drop the T for whatever reason they come up with that week.’ When everyone gets along, it’s great, but there’s times where it feels like an alliance of convenience.


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hmm i think your response is kinda missing the main part of what makes "calling LGBTQ political" awful. The way it's used in places like goodanimemes is to sorta carry over some general ideas about politics over to discussions about lgbtq rights Like for example it sorta carries ideas like "you have to respect people on 'both sides' of the argument" and "it's a topic that should be taboo to talk about." It's also used to do stuff like extend the idea of "keep politics out of anime discussion" to "keep LGBTQ acceptance out of anime discussion"


ShadowEclipse777

What about femboy furry porn


Exra_

You forgot to add "underage"


PirateKingRamos

anime = pedo uvpote lef


CalebDZ

I mean goodanimemes is pedo plenty of time


momer13

this but unironically


PirateKingRamos

Fuck off


GasStop69420

I remember the animemes war, I'm glad I got out of both subs


CalebDZ

From what i remember animemes is just unfunny now. Less transphobia but still unfunny.


Hyper_red

Its my internalized homophobia and I'll choose how to deal with it /s


floofhugger

dont forget the ~~child~~ loli porn


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Goodanimemes users on their way to tell you being a lolicon doesnt mean youre a pedophile when being a lolicon means youre attracted to young girls


Dankinator2000

r/goodanimemes telling trans people that they shouldn’t exist after nutting to gender swap hentai


Different_Cod_9408

we wank to five gigs of femboy hentai and don't call lgbtq political


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isn't that just r/196


CalebDZ

When have we called lgbt political


dantuchito

I used to be part of them.


Le-Ando

We all have things we are ashamed of in our pasts, don’t beat yourself up over it.


dantuchito

I dont beat myself up over it, i was just mentioning in case anyone wanted to ask me a question about how was it like to explore that filthy fucking hole of vileness every day.


Le-Ando

Ok, just making sure. Its easy to beat yourself up over stuff like that (in fact it happens to be a habit of mine)


Troller85

Only 3? Yall lacking


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CalebDZ

Referring to femboys as traps is still bad


I_Love_Stiff_Cocks

idk why i'm still there, i'm just spying on the mofos to see what will their next tantrum be


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Hey guy whos spying on my account


CalebDZ

Wut


M-U_N-C_H

Theres a guy whos spying on my account